GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

[xenos54]

sabi pala sa FB post ng friend ko..

ok lang na mataba kami.. kasi pag tag-gutom.. kami papayat lang..
kayo mamamatay na.. hehe..

astig diba?

di kaya mas ok yung mataba?

 

[angelbabe]

i have this foreigner friend...tapos mahilig sya sa fat ladies.. i ask him why.. sagot daw nya, pag nakakakita daw sya ng mag'asawa or mag'jowa na naglalakad tapos payat yung babae ang pumapasok daw sa isip nya hindi inaalagaan ng mabuti ni guy si girl kaya payat, hindi pinapakain ng ayos...

kaya daw fat girls ang gusto nya kase para daw isipin ng tao na magaling sya mag'alaga... 

[dheive]

sabi pala sa FB post ng friend ko..

ok lang na mataba kami.. kasi pag tag-gutom.. kami papayat lang..
kayo mamamatay na.. hehe..

astig diba?

di kaya mas ok yung mataba?

 

 hahahahahah lol natawa talaga ako dito 

[av]

After reading everything, guess I should frequent the gym. LOL

For my case, I'm overweight, feeling ko lang. I'm chubby but not fat. But I had 4 boyfriends na. Lucky me I guess. Before I asked my ex bakit nya ako nagustuhan compared sa ex nya na cheerleader na, volleyball player pa. (Siya na ang sporty!) He told me, mas nage-enjoy daw syang kasama ako. It's all about my humor. Maybe tuod ang ex nya.

Those guys that I dated, they're into sexy girls talaga but they're open to dating fat girls. Sorry but I just need to share this, sabi kasi nila mas "baon" daw. Hahahaha!

[chubbelita]

i'm overweight and my experiences in life have taught me that guys do find chubby girls attractive, noon super conscious din ako pero when i started fixing myself, nagtone ako ng body slight hahaha, i was 143 pounds 5'3 in height with 38c back then and a lot og guys found me sexy parin naman.

and i have this ex-boyfriend, you see i was his number 3 back then, then naging number 2 and mind you yung number 2 nya super sexy and then finally i became number 1, payat namanang number 1 nya. and now, i'm his wife na:)) wala daw kasi tatalo sa face ko hahaha.

so parA sakin weight is not n issue, it's how we carry ourselves. kung maganda ka talaga, kahit ano pa timbang mo maganda ka parin.

[kittyinpink]

of course, they would! i know guys like this 

[donzski_doinks]

sabi ni future husbie ko, wala daw sa katawan yan. Aanhin daw nya ang sexy kung pangit naman daw ang ugali.. Sabi din nya masarap daw yakapin ang malaman. Ewan ko lang kung sinabi nya yun dahil yun talaga opinyon nya o para lang hindi ako ma-hurt. Hahaha... I'm 5'4 and 150lbs...

[weweng20]

why we dont consider them LOL .. they are still a girl that to be love !!

[The Vow]

Intimate date....ibang usapan yan;;
Kung friendly date lang..why not!!

[weweng20]

bakit ayaw mu nang intimate date?? hahaha

[xenos54]

bakit ayaw mu nang intimate date?? hahaha

baka ayaw mag-get intimate with a fat girl? 

[Girltalker2]

I read somewhere - nagsurvey -

what's the greatest fear of women in online dating?  dating a serial killer.

what's the greatest fear of men in online dating?  dating a girl on the heavy side. 

[abuanddiego]

^haha! grabe naman, pag mataba ka katumbas mo mamamatay tao na! eh so what?

[enilec]

To be realistic, I think majority of men like slimmer girls. Definitely some of them would consider dating fat girls cos even if societal standards favor slim girls, may guys pa din na mas prefer nila chubby girls. Some of their reason for doing so: chubby=mas maalaga, huggable, very pretty face kaya ok lang kahit chubby, or yung personality ok talaga, etc...

I have a friend who likes chubby-curvy girls. Di niya type mga katulad kong payat

[abuanddiego]

alam naman ng lahat na mas marami talaga ang mas prefer ang slim, lalaki man o babae, given na yun kasi nga studies have told us that when we are looking for a mate, gusto natin healthy ang partner to pass off their healthy genes. ang di lang maganda dito, bakit pag mataba yung date or gf, ang nega agad ng label? kung ano-ano agad tumatakbo sa isip. iniisip ko tuloy, normal ba talaga yun o sadyang kababawan lang?

[Girltalker2]

^haha! grabe naman, pag mataba ka katumbas mo mamamatay tao na! eh so what?

kaya nga! feeling ko ganun kababaw ang mga boys!

pero seriously, mga lalaki kasi very visual sila. importante ang looks. though kahit ibang girls nasa chubby side, pretty naman at ok ang personality, meron at meron parin nagkakagusto sa kanila.

[Naughty^GuRu]

alam naman ng lahat na mas marami talaga ang mas prefer ang slim, lalaki man o babae, given na yun kasi nga studies have told us that when we are looking for a mate, gusto natin healthy ang partner to pass off their healthy genes. ang di lang maganda dito, bakit pag mataba yung date or gf, ang nega agad ng label? kung ano-ano agad tumatakbo sa isip. iniisip ko tuloy, normal ba talaga yun o sadyang kababawan lang?

kaya nga! feeling ko ganun kababaw ang mga boys!

pero seriously, mga lalaki kasi very visual sila. importante ang looks. though kahit ibang girls nasa chubby side, pretty naman at ok ang personality, meron at meron parin nagkakagusto sa kanila.

hindi naman siguro yun kababawan.  to each his own kanya kanyang preference lang yan. Siguro naman lahat tayo may kanya kanyang gusto, like for girls, would you date a guy shorter than you? I think most girls will answer NO. Hindi naman ibig sabihin kapag picky o may preference yung guy eh feeling gwapo na siya or maarte. 

[abuanddiego]

^This is what I'm pointing out ha,

bakit pag mataba yung date or gf, ang nega agad ng label? kung ano-ano agad tumatakbo sa isip. 

so pag ganyan, to each his own pa rin?

Dun lang sa survey, hindi ba grabe yung comparison---Serial killer to girl on the heavy side. ganun katindi/kaextreme yung perception ng guys about a girl's weight, akalain nyo yun?  I understand each and everyone's preference naman in life, because that's what makes the world go round, ang di ko lang maintindihan, bakit ang dami ata masyadong judgmental based on weight? and gaya ng sinabi mo sa height din. Ako personally I prefer tall and fit guys, at kung short at chubby sya, oo di ako ganoon maattract pero di ko naman sya iisipan ng kung ano-ano basta hindi lang ako ganun kaattracted sa kanya.

This reminds me of an article telling na if ever magkagusto/mainlove ka sa isang tao, pero shorter or fatter sya, basta di pasok sa standards mo at umayaw ka ng dahil lang dun eh may something na kailangan kang ayusin sa sarili mo.

[janix athena]

Ako personally I prefer tall and fit guys, at kung short at chubby sya, oo di ako ganoon maattract pero di ko naman sya iisipan ng kung ano-ano basta hindi lang ako ganun kaattracted sa kanya.

Sis I'm curious, what do you mean na iisipan ka ng kung ano-ano?

[Naughty^GuRu]

I read somewhere - nagsurvey -

what's the greatest fear of women in online dating?  dating a serial killer.

what's the greatest fear of men in online dating?  dating a girl on the heavy side. 

the result of this survey is truly offensive, but thinking about it, it only explains how shallow we guys are. pero its wrong naman to say na serial killer is to fat.

^This is what I'm pointing out ha,so pag ganyan, to each his own pa rin?

Dun lang sa survey, hindi ba grabe yung comparison---Serial killer to girl on the heavy side. ganun katindi/kaextreme yung perception ng guys about a girl's weight, akalain nyo yun?  I understand each and everyone's preference naman in life, because that's what makes the world go round, ang di ko lang maintindihan, bakit ang dami ata masyadong judgmental based on weight? and gaya ng sinabi mo sa height din. Ako personally I prefer tall and fit guys, at kung short at chubby sya, oo di ako ganoon maattract pero di ko naman sya iisipan ng kung ano-ano basta hindi lang ako ganun kaattracted sa kanya.

This reminds me of an article telling na if ever magkagusto/mainlove ka sa isang tao, pero shorter or fatter sya, basta di pasok sa standards mo at umayaw ka ng dahil lang dun eh may something na kailangan kang ayusin sa sarili mo.

this is my personal take on why guys don't date fat girls. (this might not apply to all) self-discipline and self respect. when i see a fat girl first thing na naiisip ko is that she's lazy and walang discipline. lazy to workout and walang self-discipline to diet. sino ba ang ayaw pumayat or maging fit? lahat naman tayo we want a beautiful body, not everyone can achieve it pero at least try diba. also, i have this impression na pag fat yung girl eh mababa yung confidence nya. for me, confidence is very important for a girl. kahit hindi maganda pero she knows how to carry her self and she's confident, minsan nakaka attract. and i don't see that with "most" fat girls. what i'm trying to point out here is that hindi lang physical yung hindi attractive sa fat girls, pati yung lifestyle, yung mindset, etc nila. again, i might be very wrong with my impressions but it's how i see things. and again, it might not apply to every fat girl.

btw, what i like about fat girls? sila yung usually kwela and really humorous. masaya silang kasama and kaibigan.