GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

[OD]

^ what a very ouchy, punchy statement.. very apt for the moniker  

[babywaby]

i wouldn't date a fat guy.

[Mr.Punch]

^ what a very ouchy, punchy statement.. very apt for the moniker  

Most guys think that way.  They just won't admit it in order to appear sensible to the girls who are not fat.

[jpsv72]

c hubby kahit madalas kami magtampuhan, ayaw ako ipagpalit sa iba  ewan ko yung ang sabi nya.
he said he loves my body chubby but not getting more bigger hah. Kc at least daw may laman na makakapa sakin.
I know binobola lang nya ako pero [textspeak!] pag wala kaming topak parehas enjoy naman kami sa isat isang company eh.

[muymuy]

I think 100% sa kanila gusto i-date ang sexy! date lang naman! hindi "marry"..

pero pag ang lalake gusto pakasalan or gusto maging gf ang "fat" iba na yun.. LOVE na yun! 

masakit man aminin, mas maganda pa rin kasi sa paningin yung sexy, balingkinitan, coca cola.. sabihin mo mang ubod ng ganda nung chubby girl, paano pa kaya pag sexy siya? may mga chubby na pag pumayat sinasabi ng tao "ay mas bagay mo pag chubby ka..." - I don't think so..nasasabi lang nila yun dahil sanay na sila na makitang chubby yung girl.

pero wag mabahala sa mga lalakeng sumasagot ng "NO"!
malay niyo pag nakita niyo pagmumukha nila, mapa sigaw kayo ng " WTF? NO WAY!!! 

[Mr.Punch]

^ Given that 99% of Pinoy men don't look like Phil Younghusband, that's a likely scenario. 

But that doesn't exactly prevent fat women from "mag-alala"...  Because if most ugly men would refuse to date a fat woman, there's even less reason for good-looking men to do so.

By the way, on a purely physical level - and this would sting - there are many men who think that it's not possible for a woman to be considered beautiful and fat at the same time.  Meaning to say, being fat automatically eliminates a woman from the ranks of those considered "beautiful".

[slickchick]

^ so does this mean the fat ladies are doomed to be single forever since most men cannot look beyond the physical? 

[Mr.Punch]

so does this mean the fat ladies are doomed to be single forever...

^ This is a sweeping conclusion that is not supported by the following premise:

...since most men cannot look beyond the physical?

A better conclusion would be simply to replace "the" with "most", i.e.

"so does this mean most fat ladies are doomed to be single forever...

[OD]

^^i would have to sickeningly agree with Mr. Punchy. I used to pack a lot of unwanted poundage and I hardly drew attention to my side. After Ive lost it thru a grueling phase of stern diet and workout regimen and maintained the weight to unbelievable societal standards, I can proudly say nowIm every drooling guy's apple of the eyes... hehe!

Seriously though, thats the chilling, sweeping truth of the beauty/physical bias every straight guy happens to hold. 

[mihaihere]

I'd like to give them the benefit of the doubt, as I still see some couples where the girl is quite large enough to suffocate the guy in bed and yet they are still lovey dovey. It makes me think there is still  hope!

Though I have to admit, its easier to get a date, or a taxi if you're sexy unlike these days na nasa law na ko (for practical purposes, and promise nakakatawa lang minsan na papara na yung taxi sa iba tapos lalapit sayo kasi nakaskirt ka, at magsisi siya kasi taga south ako at matraffic,) Im getting off the point here but heh

sigh, kaya sis I suggest we stick to regular exercise

[Mr.Punch]

^ Ah, doon sa couples na large yung girl.  Possible kasi na when the relationship started, hindi siya ganoon kalaki. 

But yeah, I guess the lesson there is that before you get fat, get the guy first.

[kawen]

I am soo doomed and scared... (plus I have a son) I also see many couples like that and I tend to compare myself to the girl saying.. "oh my mas malaki pa sakin yun ah.." hehe..

that's the bitter reality.. I guess - pero I'm not loosing hope..

[trinity94]

i remember having this conversation with some male friends just a few days ago (even before i came across this thread)... unfortunately, the common response is that they wouldnt date fat girls... it has something to do with the common misconception that fat girls are high maintenance since eat too much and just laze around... but, as one of my friends said, he would probably date a fat girl if he had met her in the gym or in a sports event (marathon, etc) since he sees that there is the effort from the 'fat' person to stay active and probably lose some weight (read: theyre probably cutting down on food)...

but of course, based on recent surveys, a fat person with a fat wallet wouldnt find it hard to meet some interested persons...

[Mr.Punch]

^ Hmmmm.... I think your male friends are just rationalizing, thus the "high maintenance" explanation.

They probably won't tell it to your face, but the simple reason why they won't date fat girls is because they don't find fat girls beautiful.

[choco_pie]

its not about the size and shape it only means that the guy loves you for who you are and not going to change you

[Frankie_G]

I guess not but siguro kasi payat ako!
Hindi bagay!
 

But I have friends who are into chubby girls. Don't worry, mga gwaping sila. Hehe! 

[mimiku]

Most guys prefer the sexy ones but there are some guys who are in to the chubby women.

Believe me.

My ex cheated me with someone uhmmm... who has a lot of calories than me.

And when I say a lot. I mean of GIGANTIC proportions.

So depende rin yan.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 

[Paulo]

its not about the size and shape it only means that the guy loves you for who you are and not going to change you

Of course if a guy looks beyond the XX-Pounds then it's got to be Love. .... Or Poor Judgment. Whichever is applicable, acceptable, depending on who's listening.

^
Sure, Mimiku. Sh*t happens everyday.

I also know a guy who married someone who is considered fat. And just earlier I sat beside a guy who married someone who looks more male than he does. Then there's this story on the internet about dude caught bonking a cow. What can I say? Weird things happen. So if the question is: "Are there men who find Fat Chicks Physically Attractive?" The answer is "Yes". It's not a very popular trend though, in the same way that most men and wife look like Male and Female and not Male and More-Male . In the same way that not all farm boys lose their cherry to cattle.

But if the question is: "Can Fat Chicks be Considered Physically Attractive?" Then the answer to that is still NO. Not that fat chicks can't have pretty faces that could launch a thousand ships. Or can't own personalities that sums up to something interestingly inviting to men. Or their XX-bosom attract attention (the upside to BIG Chicks, right guys? ). It's just that in most cases, having too much fat around the waist, tummy, butt ... is not Attractive.

Having said that, if a guy has a choice and all that's laid on the table are physical traits, then FAT isn't really something you'd like to be seen dining with.

[mooncake and leaves]

I think aside from the aesthetic side of it, most men don't go for fat women because those extra pounds suggest a major personality flaw: the inability to take care of oneself. And it's kind of hard to entrust yourself to someone who lets go of herself like that.
 
Also, if you're overweight, you probably don't feel good about yourself and men pick up on that. Not to ostracize heavy people-hey, I'm chubby too haha nakakataba ang may boypren-but being fat isn't something you glorify. Let's face it. The only reason why we want to be told we look good, that we will be loved despite our weight is because mahirap magpapayat! Lol. Yun lang yun talaga. Effort kung effort talaga eh. Mas madaling kumain nang kumain.

P.S.

Iba yung may preference sa mapayat sa galit sa mataba. I've encountered a dude who was so angry with fat people, who picks on them all the time. He turned out to be a total psycho. Just sayin'.

[iq160]

tinanong ko si hubz eto sagot niya:

hell no!

ugh. mukhang kelangan akong mag south beach diet para maging sexy ulit