Love, love, love, where are YOU?

[luisacart]

@~yufa~: I've been dating for about a year now. I dated about 18 guys in that period.

Where did I meet them?
1.) I joined a club or a meetup group: http://www.meetup.com/find/ph/manila/
2.) Dating websites (pwede rin craigslist kaso there's a lot of sketchy people there) worked for me. Most of the guys I dated are men I met online.
3.) Do volunteer works in the community.
4.) Be more active in Church.. sometimes may mga "club" din sila. Think Singles for Christ.
5.) Go to parties. Houseparties, birthday parties, cocktail parties, etc.

If you want to meet Mr Right, you really have to put yourself out there. If you can't find Mr Right in your own social circle then it means he is not there. You need to widen your network. Go out and meet more people. If you don't put yourself out there, how will u meet new people?
I am shy too but as Elizabeth Bennett says when Mr. Darcy told her he is not comfortable talking to strangers, "Perhaps you should practice?" You will never learn how to play the piano, if you don't practice. Lahat ng bagay sa simula lang mahirap.

[douxmadchen]

Good things come to those who wait. 

[ausie]

agree

been single for almost 4 years and counting

[agua.oxinada]

Sa October 2yrs nako single 
Never thought that I'd be single this loooong.

Yes, I had MU's before, dating, and all that..
There are guys din naman who attempt to have me (LOL!)..
It's just that, uuuh, wala pa kong nakikitang magfifit saken, yun tipong "Wow, this really is it!"

[sweetubeng]

^ naku sis if you were in my place it might drive you insane... I've been single for 3 years and counting. counting because I don't have any suitors....

you are not alone in this battle, same here I've been also single for 3 years and still counting, no suitors, no dates yay! but still i need to be happy and live life to the fullest, i know its alarming at my age malapit na ako mawala sa kalendaryo urgghhh...!! but then what to do? wala pa talaga so i keep myself busy and pray pray pray, that one day he will finally come my way and i hope that  he is for real

[young_maiden]

you are not alone in this battle, same here I've been also single for 3 years and still counting, no suitors, no dates yay! but still i need to be happy and live life to the fullest, i know its alarming at my age malapit na ako mawala sa kalendaryo urgghhh...!! but then what to do? wala pa talaga so i keep myself busy and pray pray pray, that one day he will finally come my way and i hope that  he is for real

me too. 1 year na ako single kasi walang suitors. 20 years old na ako. how sad. sana dumating na si mr. right.

[sweetubeng]

^sis bata mo pa para mag isip at mag isip at malungkot. concentrate ka muna sa work mo and everything, enjoy and have fun. ako nga 30 na so dapat ako mas mag isip nito ok enjoy life muna.

[young_maiden]

^sis bata mo pa para mag isip at mag isip at malungkot. concentrate ka muna sa work mo and everything, enjoy and have fun. ako nga 30 na so dapat ako mas mag isip nito ok enjoy life muna.

tama. hehe. 4th yr college pa nga lang ako eh. so eto aral muna. natraffic siguro si mr. right

[rye14]

are you ms. right?

most of the appropriate suggestions were already given here. but take note of this, guys are more attracted to the girls who are confident about themselves and don't look like they are looking for mr. right. photography club or sports like badminton are certain places you could meet new people (guys).

[luisacart]

^mr. right is just a term we are using to describe an unknown man who could be the man of our dreams. i figured mr. right is better than calling him mr. perfect.

[laughter]

hay love saan ka nga ba makikita? i'm 23 and nbsb...many people are asking kung bakit wala pa ako bf and because of that naprepressure na din ako maghanap. Nakakapagod na rin kasi mag-antay, minsan naiisip ko tuloy dadating kaya sya sa akin.

Hay, I am so excited to love and be loved. Hayy...

[green-aholic]

sis, gumawa ka din ng effort na mapansin at minsan kelangan mo magpapansin. ganun dapat minsan pero wag sobra.

mga sis, pag nagwink sa inyo ang guy anung ibig sabihin paara sa inyo? hehe.

[angel_lee]

basta ako, maghihintay pa rin. ayaw ko mag-search, ang sakit nyan pag nabigo, huhu sad! di bale na single muna, basta healthy, yun na nlang muna

[lennix]

Ayoko siya hanapin, siya maghanap sa akin! hahaha

[aquacharly]

The short cut is to throw yourself into whatever it is you have a passion for. 
For sure, there are guys with the same passion... and there you will meet men who share your passion/interest.  And there, you are likely to find your Mr Right.   

IMO, too,  when one is just her "best self" -- and I am not referring to pretending to be who you are not ... but being the Self of your self ...  someone good for you will gravitate towards you naturally.
It is the deceitful, the pretentious, the trying -hards that drive men away.   Too complicated, they say.   

[luisacart]

I've been single for 5 years by choice. I'm ready to fall in love, too, kaso wala akong makitang deserving ng love ko. Sigh. I've been dating for over a year na pero wala pa rin ako talagang makita. Karamihan ng mga lalaking type ko eh may personal baggage. lol divorced, broke, etc. My problem is I attract men who can do me absolutely no good.. Sana makakita na ako ng matinong bf! Ang gusto ko lang naman is a man who deserves my loyalty and affection. Gusto ko na kasing magseryoso eh, kakasawa na rin maging single.

[sweetubeng]

^same sentiments tayo sis ako 4 years exactly na din akong single. like you wala din akong makitang deserving or right guy for me. yong deserving din sa love ko and yong taong hinahanap o gusto ko. minsan iniisip ko di kaya masyado kong nagigiging idealistic sa guy na hinahanap ko. like may dumating na pala pero inignore ko just because i have certain standards or baka naman binigya na sa akin ni God yong guy for me kaso masyado lang akong preoccoupied sa ideal guy ko na alam ko yun ang para sa akin.

pero ang hirap naman mag settle sa isang tao na hindi mo naman gusto just for the sake lang na masabi na merun ka ng bf or married ka na finally mas mahirap yung itali ko sarili ko sa isang tao na diko naman gusto. kaya i think i deserve someone better who deserves also my love, loyalty and affection hayyysss basta keep on praying sis i always ask God's wisdom to understand all this things happen basta don't lost hope , trust God that he will give the man that we deserve to have. yun lang pwede kung panghawakan.

[ladee_s]

Ayoko siya hanapin, siya maghanap sa akin! LOL

hahaha ! major major! =))

[GeRi Sp!cE]

Don't go searching. Let him find you. Be as pretty as a flower and the bees will come.

[snooky]

have you tried an online dating site like eharmony?

in the real world the best place to find mr. right is through your personal network.