Love, love, love, where are YOU?

[~yufa~]

hi just wondering. i'm single and i'm hoping to meet mr. right. i know i know i shouldn't be looking for love but then i just want to meet new people(guys). what activities can you suggest where i can meet tons of guys? i mean, i am not really into blind dating... i tend to be shy around people i do not know so i end up not talking at all (which of course looks kinda stupid). i prefer to be friends with them first to be comfortable... any suggestions? thanks

[green-aholic]

Being single is so much fun! You get to do whatever you want without worrying that someone might get hurt or nobody would give you pain, heartaches, etc. Actually there are couple more reasons why being single is okay. But we all know there comes the time when you feel all alone and want to have that someone special beside you.

I have been single for a year and a half already. I have been badly hurt in my last relationship and now i must say that i feel that i am ready to love again, but the problem is, though i have fixed myself up already and made myself whole again and is ready have a new relationship, i can't find love.

how do i deal with the situstion? help me please.

[Bubblin]

I have been single longer than you: 3 years and counting.I am not dating.I don't have suitors.but,I am having the time of my life! all the time in the world is mine.I have no one to spoil but myself.

for me sis it is better that you meet new friends and learn new things.that way,your single life will be much happier and you are busy taking care of yourself.who know,while doing something you love you might meet mr.right along the way.

[frozen]

i've been single for 4 months already. i feel lonely every now and then. i want somebody to share my everyday. but i guess, it's just not now and i understand..

let's not find love sis. let us love find us.. let's just be busy preparing ourselves for our next love story..

[frozen]

clubs sis! go out on a night party.. there are tons of guys out there.
but...
i think only .01% of them is the kind of guy every woman is looking for.. 

[green-aholic]

thanks sa mga advice mga sisses! now i feel better. you both were right, dapat paka-busy na lang ako and i should i hang out with old friends and atleast meet new ones so i could enjoy being single at the moment. at tama din kayo na i should let it this way dahil kusa namang darating ang love.

tama kayo mga sisses. salamat sa advice and for enlightening me. 

[frozen]

no prob sis. i understand you because we share the same dilema.. yung sakin lang kase, fresh pa.. don't yah worry, for sure hindi pa din ganun kasaya ngayon yung soulmate mo kase hindi ka pa niya nakikita.. quits lang..

[green-aholic]

haha. napa-smile naman ako dun, sis! darating din ang soulmate naten without us knowing it. sa ngayon, paka-busy tayo so we won't feel the longing, saka while being busy we should take care of ourselves too para prepared tayo anytime na dumating sya, di ba? hehe.

[young_maiden]

11 months naman ako single. no suitors then. hintay lang ako ng hintay. just enjoy life habang naghihintay ka. kusa yan darating

[green-aholic]

oo nga sis, hintay na lang tayo... haay...

[chengkii]

Find a hobby. Sabi nga nila, love comes in the most unexpected place and time.
Goodluck!

[green-aholic]

tamaaa!

[Chinito]

the more you chase for it. the more it evades your life..

[kitenashi]

i have been single for more than 2 years...although i dont deny that there still some leftover feelings for my ever fickle-minded ex... and the feeling of loneliness is getting too much sometimes...i just try to refocus on the things why i decided to be alone...and i began to consider myself lucky because i have MYSELF to spoil..no thinking about someone's opinion of you....in short...love is somewhere down the road...baka nasagasaan ng pison on the way...nagpapa-ospital lang pero daraanan ka rin non in time

[pinkylady]

ako pa 1 week na break kami. 2 mos na lang mag one year na kami kaso eto break. i dont settle or fully commit to a guy na di marunong mag establish ng trust at respect. tapos parang may personality disorder pa. sa una aamin ng kasalanan nya at mag sosorry afterwards he put blame on me naman. mas malala pa sa "sala sa init sala sa lamig"

[chengkii]

Sis, what's your interest? Let's start there. Kasi, if you're interested in let's say photography, join a photography club. Or, you have in your heart the desire to help others, you can join some NGOs (like Gawad Kalinga, Bantay Bata, etc) in their activities in the community. Since there are activities happening, you are not forced to talk to anyone, but after the activity, you have a common topic to discuss with other members of the activity.

BUt the only way to ensure that you end up enjoying what you're doing is to make sure that it is an interest of yours in the 1st place. Besides, that's also a reason or a driving force for you to sustain your activity.

[Nuthella]

Clubs, yeah. But beware of them. Most of them only wants to hook up, or not interested at all in serious type of relationships.

Ayala Malls. I find them the type of guys who are somewhat classy, definitely not baduy, im sure they're from a good school and a good family, in short, good breed of guys.

[Nuthella]

Mag 1 yr and 1 month na akong single. Why is this happening to me?
Silly. I need to love and be loved na like ASAP. So hard to find one.

[chengkii]

^ Siyempre sis, di naman iyun ang 1st instinct mo pag naka-meet ng guys. Hahaha. Baka naman magmukha kang desperada nun. Pero, seriously, you need to fulfill your interest first...hindi iyun interest to meet & end up with the perfect guy ha. Pero secondary nalang sa priorities mo in joining the orgs.
PEACE.

[krnmprl]

Sabi nga ni John Mayer, he's out there - she's out there - they're just learning what to contrast you against.