Do you allow your husband or bf to go to a bar or club (boys night out)?

[lovely_kim16]

a big No 

[Romina]

Yes. He goes at least once a week. I let him go kasi I can have the whole house to myself lol. I can just relax and not worry about dinner

[heaven_charm]

Nun nandito pa si bf sa Pinas I let him have his boys night out with his friends. Okay lang naman sakin kahit na madami girls na sinasama yung iba niya friends at may mga nakikilala siya. he is open naman saan siya pumupunta saka kung sino mga kasama at bago niya nakikilala. mahirap naman kasi i-deprive siya kasi minsan lang naman siya here sa Pinas due to his work basta he knows his limitation.

nakasama ko nadin 3x yung friends niya kaya kilala ko na sila kahit yung iba mukang babaero. btw, may curfew si bf. kailangan before 2am nakaalis na siya sa bar saka pupunta siya sakin after at kailangan hindi siya lasing pagdating 

[tab]

ako papayagan ko din siguro. pero mabuti na lang din at di mahilig ang asawa ko sa mga ganyan. graduate na sa ganyan after naming mag asawa. sobrang homebody na siya ngayon.

[tahimik_24]

Yes. Di naman sya kasi madalas lumabas. Usually his going out with either officemate and college friends lang naman. And dapat alam ko muna sino kasama nya. Good boy naman si boyfie. I trust him naman and boys need space tulad natin .

[ronelie]

oo naman, kahit nga di ko payagan umiinom pa rin eh at inuumaga pa.tapos pag tinatawagan mo di siansagot tawag mo  ayos di ba ang galing galing nya

[heaven_charm]

buti pa i bf kahit lasing na lasing na nakakapagmotor pa para di ma-late sa curfew niya tapos magugulat siya na nakarating siya sa pad ko. 

[khriseeee]

Yup, he hangs out with his guys. I know how close he is with them and they are each other's support network. Although I have told him before we got married and again before we had our daughter that he will need to tone it down. Once in awhile I will complain if he's gone out a lot in a short span of time and he'll stay home.

[Mrs.Guevarra]

Nung hindi pa kami ng husband ko, he used to go out ALL THE TIME. As in minsan di na umuuwi. He would go to work then inuman then work again - magpapalit lang ng damit at maliligo.

Nung naging kami, he would still go out but not as often. I explained to him na hindi healthy yung ginagawa nya. I would like him to be around longer and watch our future kids grow up. At the rate he is going, he won't last long. So medyo natauhan at nabawasan yung night out. When he does go out, sumasama rin ako sa kanya palagi. hehe...

Now that we're married and have financial obligations na, he would go out every pay day nalang. What I did naman para he won't feel like he's missing out was allow him to buy all the games of World of Warcraft and download DOTA 2. So he plays at home instead. 

[mslcgrey]

yes though lucky me since night shift siya eh ang gala lang niya with his co-workers is breakfast after work. i also don't have any problems with him going to company outings without me. between the two of us, mas madalas pa ako may night out though that is still rare. we are both stay at home people. 

[little_princess]

for me, i let him go. it's a matter of trust and knowing that he won't do something stupid and if sinakal ko siya, mas lalo lang siya magrerebel. so far, he only goes if there is a stag party or if someone is pressuring him to go and he's been pretty much behaved

[wowry]

my hubby is a DJ kaya kahit ayaw ko hindi pwede pigilan kung hindi wala siya sweldo hehe...but personally pinapayagan ko siya mag-boys night out kasi wala pa naman kami baby so might as well enjoy muna rin kami sa kanya-kanyang friends namin kasi for sure once may baby na mahirap na magka-time for that pero dahil nga almost every night na siya sa club napaka dalang niya magpaalam lumabas kasama friends niya mas gusto niya mag-stay sa house at mag-spend time with me and our dog na lang.hindi rin kasi pala-inom si hubby mas type pa niya mag-linis ng bahay kaysa gumala kung hindi rin lang ako kasama.

[theshopaholicprincess]

Actually I allow my husband to go out. We had officemates before na nagyayaya sa mga girly clubs but my hubby doesn't go with them. Alam ko nung binata hubby ko ma-gimik din yun pero di sya yung tipo na pang morninangan umuwi. Ang usapan namin noon he can go basta make sure to text or inform me. Di ko naman sya pagbabawalan basta alam nya limitation nya.

I allow him to have his night outs with his friends / long lost buddies naman basta ang usapan magpapaalam lang. Minsan nga catch ups / inuman with our previous colleagues at ok lang naman  I also encourage him to join teambuildings or company outings pero he was the one insisting na umuwi ng maaga kahit overnight yung outing kasi nga maiiwan ako mag isa sa bahay with our baby. Usually naman if he goes in a club or bar kami ang madalas magkasama. Ngayon na may baby na kami mas maaga pa sya nakakauwi sakin and mas naging responsible talaga sya.

[vain_kixie]

nope. Kung gusto pala niyang pumunta doon eh di sana hindi pa siya ng pakasal kasi kasi gusto pa niya
mag buhay binata. Buti nalang hubby doesn't go there. He likes to always be with me. As in kahit may
bibilin lang sa sari sari store kailan kasama pa ako. Ang type ng type ng hubby ko is to go fishing. As in trolling fishing.
Pang oldies. So I let him be.

[bpa]

nope. it's not a matter of trust issue, as for me lang ha. di mo kase alam kung ano epekto ng alak at barkada, kahit sabihin mo "good boys" barkada if girl na lumapit, di mo den masasabi. so, kami iwas nalang sa ganyang scenario.

good thing den, hubby doesn't do that talaga kahit nung binata pa. homebody kase kame. i made sure den na before ako mag-settle pumili talaga ko ng walang nightlife and di magimmick. so happy na nagkataon yun "love of your life" sakto sa preference mo. hehe.

one thing more, di lang kase girls yun risk sa night out. sa dami ng crimes mo dito sa pinas, good luck kung makatulog ako hanggang di pa cia nakauwi.

i won't know lang if it happened na i married someone with this kind of lifestyle, good luck talaga. ciguro, every day may asaran.

[Prunella]

I gave him my permission to go to strip clubs but he's the one who refuses.    I really don't mind at all. I'm pretty easygoing.

[misyeldico]

Di maiwasang di payagan si hubby kasi nasa Banda sya. Di naman sila permanent sa bar, pag may guestings lang. At requirements eh dapat mag-update and moderations ng pag-inom at mga kabanda lang ang kasama nya. Other than his bandmates, hesitant na ako. Naiintindihan naman ni hubby. hehe

[ms.southbound]

I am fine with Boys Night Out. But no to night clubs. Inuman sila sa bar ok lang. Mahirap na coz' boys will be boys.

[longing]

I let him as well, actually almost every Friday he goes out with his officemates to go drinking (No No to girly clubs though and ayaw din naman nya un)

[strawberrypep]

Hindi mahilig si hubby sa bar hopping (luckily? Hehe) and he told me one time na he doesnt want me to go into one unless siya kasama. If ever he will ask one day to go clubbing with his pals, i will let him go with them, but knowing how paranoid i am, takot takot na stress siguro ako hehe.