Do you allow your husband or bf to go to a bar or club (boys night out)?

[mooncake and leaves]

If my bf goes to a club, strippers and all, I'll be pissed if I don't get to come along. I wanna see naked chicks too eh.

Fortunately, my bf and his friends aren't too into this. Matatanda na kasi. Hehe. But yeah, I'll let him, if he wants. He knows his boundaries and I know him so no worries

[kumikosan_9]

as long as its clean fun, okay lang sa akin. my hubby doesn't drink, doesn't smoke and he's not really into bars. he's into sports and mahilig syang mamasyal sa mall haha! so why not? hinahayaan ko lang sya with his friends.

[prettykhae]

ako pumapayag ako kasi engr si bf kaya natural normal sa kanila ang inuman, wag lang mambabae ah. hehe.... importante nagtetext sya pag andun na sa venue para lam mong ala sya ginagawa na iba.. =P. at dapat magtext pag nakauwi na.. trust lang talaga... kundi maghihigpit ako.

[fegloria1954]

If it is really necessary to go, then I go with him.

However, it has been a long time since he found it necessary to go.

[nutz_17]

normal lang sa line of work ni hubby ang boy's night out. there are times they go to girlie bars kasi minsan nagkakaroon siya ng boss na babaero pero preference nya is bars na may live band tapos bonding with his male peers. i don't mind kasi i also have girl's night out. what we do para maiwasan ang selosan is keep the commnication line open and talk about it, what we like and what we don't like. sometimes, kami mismo dalawa gumigimik. he brings me to places he used to haunt as a bachelor and vice versa.

[sistah!]

oo naman! in fact, i enjoy myself when he is out too since i get to spend time doing all the girly things i like. the last time he went out with his guy friends, i booked a home service massage, all the works! sarap!

but since my hubby isnt much of the going-out type, by the time the masseuse was packing up, he was home already. LOL.

[maj.mendoza]

hrap nga kc kpag d [textspeak!] pnayagan..magagalit..boys [textspeak!]..minsan nga mgtanong [textspeak!] feeling nla pinaghihinalaan n cla..

[fegloria1954]

It is not a question of "ALLOWING" him.

It is a question of him letting me know that he plans to go, where that is, who he will be with, and what time will he be home.  And then considering if there are any family (mine or that of our children) activities that we need to attend to on that day.

[ladykristinn]

nasanay kasi ako sa dad ko na admittedly na mahilig sa bar with girls. so I allow my husband to go to these kind of places. sabi kasi nila kapag pinipigilan mo, mas lalong nanggigigil. actually, noong namanhikan sina hubby sa amin after nung lumabas sila nina daddy. baka raw tinetesting sya.
si hubby kapag niyayaya ng friendship nya sinasama ako. napapakamot na lang sila sa ulo nila. at saka kahit hindi ako isama ni hubby relax lang ako kasi alam kong gusto lang kumanta ni hubby. hindi sa sobrang I trust my hubby (lalake rin naman sya) but I know na hindi na tatayo si manoy kapag nakainom si hubby. hehe...

[quinone]

actually, di niya kailangan magpaalam sa akin. sinasabi na lang niya kapag pupunta sila. alam ko kasi na touching lang siya run kasi takot kami both magkasakit. chaka nagku-kwento siya e, kapag uwi niya. pati yung mga girls dun kung panget o maganda, kung mura yung beer o hindi hahaha

[jpsv72]

c hubby ko sis, pinapayagan ko as long as di sya gagamit ng girl, alam naman kc ni hubby ang limitations nya, baka naman alam din ni hubby mo, dapat para sakin payagan mo para naman dika maging kill joy sa relatives ng hubby mo, di sa tinuturuan nilang mambabae, good time lang yun, pero dapat alam din ni hubby mo ang limitations nya. yun eh para sakin lang sis ha. it is still up to you how will you see them in going out, kc sakin c hubby mismo ang nagyaya kaming lumabas, side trippings pero di pa naman nangyari. heheh. part ng bonding namin yun.

[Pretty_ava]

yes, saka maayos naman magpaalam si hubby, i trust him.  minsa lang talaga sya lumabas with his college pals, kaya I allow him, sa akin pa nga sya humihingi ng pang night out eh. 

[mikey_mouse_219]

yes, he needs it too. he's very hardworking and he deserves a time out rin. away from hustle and bustle of being a dad, husband and manager too. as long as its clean fun, i have no problem with that. its best rin so he can unwind and get re-charged

[che73]

Yup,every saturday ang boys night out nya.Been married for 17 years and every saturday talaga yun except for special occasions.

[iheartb]

no problem with me, basta dine-in lang. walang take-out 

[belovedwifey]

Oh, he's always allowed to have a time with the guys, but hubby is never into nightlife, siguro sya pa hihinde hahaha. pero if ever no choice and napressure sya, siguro I'll allow him naman din kasi I trust him and I trust that he knows his limits. pero if madalas, eh ibang usapan na yon, need na masinsinan usapan why we needs to compromise that much. sabi nga ng mga ibang sisses, pede naman dinner or coffee or any wholesome na activity.
 
bottomline, I'll allow him pero i'll make him excited to go home.. hi hi hi.

[a_y_e_n]

i allow my husband to go out or pumunta sa mga bar (once a week maximum), pero yung mga walang GRO ha. syempre daw kelangan nya ng time for himself naman daw minsan. di naman kase talaga maganda tignan kung dun sa mga may GRO sya pupunta lalo na kung may asawa na yung lalaki. parehong nakakahiya para saming dalawa

from what i know, the last time na nakapunta sya sa mga bar na may mga GRO was nung stag party nya. after that, di na talaga pwede since ano ba ginagawa dun diba? tititig ka lang? merong lalapit at lalapit na babae dun. and my hubby knows infidelity is THE thing i won't tolerate.

[pillows14gurl]

its never an issue with me whether to allow my husband to go out and spend time in the bar... kase he doesnt want to... hahahaha... one time dumating mga friends ni hubby from australia (first time dito sa Pinas) and invited my husband to go to this bar in Ermita... since first time nila magkita kita dito sa Pilipinas i allowed my husband to go with them. nung una gusto ni hubby sumama ako pero sabi ko its a boys night out so ayoko sumama (o di ba naman pasaway). at first hesitant si hubby kase he doesnt know how to go sa Ermita eh sabi ko magtaxi ka na lang at wag papaloko sa taxi pag siningil ng mahal dahil foreigner sya hahahaha... so ayun ... well worried ako while he is out and had to take a cab alone.. after an hour he called me just to let me know na nandun na sila. then after that wala na ako nareceive na hehe worried ako kase naman baka [textspeak!] makauwi magisa di ba to think na hindi nya alam ang pasikot sikot sa manila... then dumating sya around 2am and he is very sick.. nagsusuka sya ... tapos sabi nya when he got there in the bar, there are girls na umupo sa tabi nila and he was offered to eat "chocolates" kumain naman si pasaway... after daw nun nagsusuka na sya (eh hindi beer drinker si hubby kaya nagtataka sya bakit parang lasing sya kahit wine un ininom nya after eating the chocolate)... so he went to the toilet and when he went back, un mga friends nya parang lasing na with these bar girls around them.. so he decided to go home na and left his friends na aliw na aliw sa mga bar girls (plus worried pa sya about me kase magisa lang ako sa bahay at preggy pa)... the next morning we tried calling his friends and nalaman namin na they were able to bed with these girls and when his friends woke up, they dont have their wallets anymore... my hubby was so thankful that i allowed him to go there and experience those things and swear that he will never go back there anymore as he dont want to experience those things that his friends experienced with those bar girls. ...

[feisty_angel4]

It depends kung sinong kasama nya.

[ishi90210]

i allow him to go out with the boys naman basta dun sa walang stripper ha and i know all his friends naman kaya kampante ako pag lumalabas sila. yun nga lang si hubby di mahilig lumabas pag di ako kasama. as in tipong once a month lang yata sila kung mag boys night out kadalasan pa dun kasama kaming mga misis (kinda defeat the purpose of a night out diba) minsan nga ako pa nagpapaalis sa kanya eh para naman makapagsolo din kaming mga girls