Do you allow your husband or bf to go to a bar or club (boys night out)?

[Amphitrite]

Ok lang, boys night out yun eh. Hindi siya ganun kababaw para pumatol dun sa mga girls.

Ako nga pinayagan nya pumunta sa ganung place (yung pang-girls ha) kasi girls night out naman.

[Pink_Sugar]

napansin ko lang mostly yung mga boys na napunta sa club eh napaka-friendly sa mga girls na nandoon lalo na pag beautiful and sexy (lalo na siguro pag wala ang gf/wife nila). 

[moonchild117]

I let him go out for a boys night out kasama ng mga kaibigan o kaopisina. pero sabi ko sa kanya, kung pupunta siya sa bar na ganun dapat payagan din nya ako pumunta sa mga gay bar. hehe! minsan lang pumunta hubby ko sa bar (di pa kami nun) pero di siya nag-table ng girl. mas gusto daw nya uminom na lang ng beer and kumain. hehe!

i guess okay din na yung mga barkada nya e di rin talaga mahilig pumunta ng mga girly bar. gusto lang nila mag-inuman, so usually sa bahay ng isa or sa resto lang talaga.

but if ever magbalak sila, oks lang basta no touch. he knows his limits and alam nyang gumaganti kasi ako e.

[bellapot]

If it would ever come up, yes, because he never gave me a reason not to trust him. But my hubby himself, di naman mahilig pumunta sa mga ganun, and none of his close friends do so either so buti na lang. 

[prettybarbie]

napansin ko lang mostly yung mga boys na napunta sa club eh napaka-friendly sa mga girls na nandoon lalo na pag beautiful and sexy (lalo na siguro pag wala ang gf/wife nila). 

i super agree sister

[danabanana]

Yes. If I know that the place is decent enough. At kung sino kasama niya. but kapag meron duda. wag nalang haha

[smiley327]

no!

[mondimonds]

Yeah, if I know who else will be with him, and he needs to go home at the time na napagkasunduan naming beforehand.

[wengerts]

yes, para ako din pwede girls night out hehe

[baby_maryen]

NO. I don't trust his friends!!

[carlijn]

Sakin ok lang as long kasi sya pinapayagan din naman ako sa girl's night out pero ayoko lang kapag ang kasama nya is this one particular relative of his that I hate so much na sobrang babaero. Yung cousin kasi nya kahit may asawa na at 5 anak mahilig pa din lumandi.  Kinukuha number ng girls tapos number ni hubby ang ibibigay so shempre si hubby ang kinukulit which is kinakainis ko ng sobra.

[kcjane]

NO. I don't trust his friends!!

same here sis,,,

[prettybarbie]

di pala ko nag iisa.... akala ko before mali yung ginagawa ko na hindi ko sya pinapayagan mag good time....well at least now i know na normal lang pala na dapat wag ko sya payagan magpunta sa mga agogo clubs

[AnneMP]

Sure I'll let him go basta kasama ako heheh!  pero honestly, I'd grant him the time for himself every week. It's his decision where he want to spend it.

[sxymnky]

Oo naman ! i dont make bantay hahaha sesh

[candy_tone]

yup, i allow my hubby to spend time with his friends once a week. They play poker at a friend's house sometimes he doesnt make paalam at all because biglaan daw [textspeak!] invite he comes home around 3-4 am. Sometimes, may inuman pag may birthday im ok with that as long as he drink in moderation. 

[red_one]

me as in no no no. i don't trust his officemates. BI cla. tpos yung ibang girls na officemates niya mga flirt. palibhasa old maid na.

[simplykristine08]

most of the time no! hehe. i only allow him kapag super close namin both yung kasama nya. pero usually naman kapag lalabas si hubby kasama ako kaya no problem

[delisyus]

Yes I do... because that's what his colleagues do and I try to be understanding of the fact that he has to 'bond' with his colleagues to maintain a good relationship with them...

It doesn't happen as often as before anyway (as most of them have gotten married, had kids, grew old)... and I do trust him.

Once lang ako nagalit... when he didn't tell me specifically that they were going to a girlie bar. My point was, he'd be upset if I just said I was going out pero sa gay bar pala punta ko, not just because we'd be lying but also because something bad could happen and we wouldn't know where the other was...

[health.gal]

bar - yes, why not?
night club / girlie bar - meybe yes, for as long as he would allow me to go to a gay bar with my girl friends! LOL