Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs

[sweetubeng]

Lets talk about the things that turn you off and on,   especially if you are on getting to know stage or just dating for the first time.




PS: mods paki transfer ng thread dapat pala sa dating and courting ko nilagay 

[sweetubeng]

Here's mine:

here's mine:

turn offs:
untidy walang paki sa hygiene
dirty nails
bad breath
walang manners lalo na pag kumakain may tunog pag ngumuya
nag aaya ng date pero kulang naman pera yaiikss!!
mayabang, maangas akala mo kung sinong gwapo in short "feelingero"
masyadong mabilis feeling mo gf ka na pag sumama ka sa kanya
feeling close kayo kahit kakakilala mo pa lang
maniac puro sex ang nasa isip or gusto maging topic  big time TO talaga!
mahilig mag yosi
tactless guys and mr know it all
too good to be true, puro salita wala naman ginagawa
ungentleman

Turn Ons:
Gentleman
mabango yummy lol!
smart and witty
may sense kausap
sweet
humble
Galante
Godfearing
masipag

[babypowder99]

turn offs: suplado na pangit
madumi at mabaho
mayabang
bad breath
mala kargador kung kumain
madaming pimples sa face
maniac

turn ons: mabango
kissable lips
may sense kausap
he knows how to please me
sweet

[luisacart]

Turn offs:
- body odor/mabaho/bad breath
- napapanot
- maraming zits
- hindi madalas maligo/shower
- manyak (mahilig manantsing)
- rude to me & everyone (servers, etc)
- nag-aaya ng date pero broke naman
- mahangin pero wala namang ipagyayabang (in short, hingi lang ng hingi sa Mama at Papa)
- sobrang mataba (sorry! ako kasi mataba din dati pero napapayat ko naman ang sarili ko eh.. if i can do it, so can u)


Turn Ons:
- mabango/ laging bagong shower!
- magalang at mabait sa mga servers/ibang tao at hindi lang sa akin
- animal lover like me!
- matalino
- marunong magdala ng sarili, hindi mahiyain pero hindi rin OA.. hindi lang mukhang madaling apihin
- athletic
- pogi siempre hehe
- a sexy/good kisser

[sheh-la22]

^ same tayo sis luisacart

> add: ayoko ng date pa lang ang lakas na kumain, tsaka yung ako magbabayad ng kinain namin

[chicgurl]

ang funny nito promise hahaha  ako din madami iisip muna hahaha

[lelaina17]

^^korek ka diyan sis.  i went out with a guy who invited me to an eat-all-you-can spread.  sabi kung pwede ko ba daw siya daanan sa office niya kasi he might lose his parking slot pag inalis pa niya auto niya eh babalik din naman daw siya sa office.  so since medyo kilala ko naman siya and out of pakikisama, i agreed.  i thought since he was the one who invited me and nagpasundo pa, plus date yun, he would pay for my meal.  aba naman nung nag-offer ako magbayad ng food ko, tinanggap ba naman!  at hinatid ko pa siya pabalik ng office niya.  grrr!

anyway, here are my turn-offs:
mga mahilig mag-name drop
show-off
mabaho
feeling close
parang kanto boy kung magsalita

and my turn-ons:
mabango
tortured artist type but can make me laugh
confident but not cocky
super sweet pero hindi halata
someone i can be myself with

[sweetubeng]

^ay winner yang date mo sis, kapal naman ng face nya sya na nga nag invite ikaw pa nagbayad at ikaw pa ang sumundo at hatid sundo pa? waaaa kalokah di kita kinaya naku wag mo na ulitin yan girl naluka ako sa date mo kainis sya ha.

ako din dati may nag aya ng date sa akin border ng tita aba't kulang pera nya ako pa nag abono as in big time TO, talaga yun na ang una at huli namang date ever lol!

[lelaina17]

^hahaha!  hindi na naulit yung date na yun sis.  mas nag-effort pa ko eh.  ayoko ng ganun.  nakaka-dala!  natawa ko sa date mo sis.  pinag-abono ka pa.  hehe!

[Chinito]

yun lang. 

[FABems]

ayoko ng pasimpleng manyak. total turn off!

[pinkylady]

turn off's

- while at a mall. tinuro nya [textspeak!] victoria's secret na lotion then he said " ganyan [textspeak!] regalo ko kay ex..." helow! tama ba naman na nagdidate kami e need pa iannounce un! [textspeak!] ex may ganun ako wala isip isip ko lang ahahhahaha

- mayabang wala naman maipagyayabang

- ungentleman

- calling me "hoy!"

- hindi alam ang self/role identity. pag nagplan [textspeak!] isa sasabay na lang in short TUOD sya!


turn on

- handsome 

- fresh breath pa rin kahit na ismoke

- sweet

- holding my hand

[Frozen Toes]

TURN OFF

On a date with this one guy, I insisted on going dutch. Bill was 800 bucks. I took out a 500 peso bill and so did he. Change of 200 bucks arrived. Everything went into his pocket. I was so turned off my jaw almost dropped to the floor. Yes, even if it was just a hundred bucks, what he did was just wrong.

Well, at least he will always be remembered for that.

TURN ON

We were a group (mixed males and females) hanging out. One of the guys asked if I wanted to have dinner with him that evening. I said yes cuz he was really nice to me.

My best friend later on told me, "Alam mo ba, inaaya namin siya na gumimick tapos sabi nya may work siya and hindi siya pwede mag-absent. Tapos pumayag ka lang magdinner with him, tumawag na agad sa officemate nya asking the person to cover for him since mag-aabsent siya."

[yinandyang]

nakakatakot at dapat i rehabilitate ang mga pasaway na date ha.

turn off
-may nakadate akong mayabang as in define MAYABANG at puro sya ang topic namin. parang wala syang tinanong about moi! kainis, sayan g sa makeup at pabango
-bad hygiene
-ang hilig tumingin sa celphone every few minutes.

turn on
-loves his family and ++ points pag may pet sya
-sense of humor
-courteous sa waiters o sales attendants

turn off's

- while at a mall. tinuro nya  victoria's secret na lotion then he said " ganyan  regalo ko kay ex..." helow! tama ba naman na nagdidate kami e need pa iannounce un!

hindi pa over kay ex di ba. #1 dating NO NO yan a

[snix]

grabe natawa ko sa mga turn-ofss.. halos pare-pareho lang naman tayo: 

turn-offs:
- bad hygeine lalo na yung amoy araw
- parang walang pinagaralan kung magsalita
- mayabang
- yung mga nagkkwento tungkol sa ex
- yung papabayaran sakin bill niya..i'm willing to share 50/50
- smoker, big turn off
- manyak at bastos

turn-ons
-mabango parang amoy bagong ligo lagi
-kaya akong ipagtanggol
-nirerespeto ko at yung mga gusto ko
-someone where i can be myself when i'm with him
-pasimpleng sweet
-God-fearing
-May sense kausap at smart
-dagdag points na lang pero yung marunong kumanta at magplay ng instument turn on din pero not neccessarily a requirement para sakin
-pinagluluto ako
- masipag at since marami akong problema sa buhay, someone who can make me laugh..

ang dami ng turn-ons ko pero binase ko lang yan dun sa kadate ko dati.. hehe

[douxmadchen]

turn offs:

-mabaho at dugyot (haha, sobra yung term ko  )
-maliit sa akin
-bastos
-mayabang (puro hangin na lang the whole time)
-manyak lalo na yung pa-simple pa! eww!
-smoker -- BIG NO NO!!!
-masyadong mapayat (like stick na sya) at sobrang taba (sorry)
-feeling close
-panget yung teeth
-kung kumilos, parang walang pinag-aralan
-walang pangarap sa buhay


turn-ons:

-mabango
-matangkad
-malinis
-sweet na suplado
-gentleman
-killersmile
-cute/handsome
-rich kid
-may kotse!!!
-loving son and brother
-may takot sa Diyos
-matalino (med-student, if ever)
-kahit di sadya pero maporma pa rin (even w/o efforts)
-seloso (basta di lang nakakasakal)
-has a sexy body
-funny at may sense kausap
-protective
-mabait
-marespeto
-humble
-marunong makisama

[chinablue]

turn-offs:
bad breath (may nanligaw sa aking ganito, eeew talaga to think he is a nurse)
touchy- yung hawak ng hawak sa'yo, kainis yun.
vain- i remember a guy i was hanging out with at the mall. kasama ko 2 friends ko nun. pagkaupong-upo namin, nagpaalam siya na pupunta sa cr para magpowder. at nanghingi pa siya ng powder sa friend ko! Big T.O. !
possessive- may ganito talagang guys eh. daig pa ang monitoring sheet kahit di pa naman kayo.
mayabang
madaldal

turn-ons ko, same lang din with you sisses

[iCleverClogs]

Natawa naman ako dito...
Actually these are turn-offs to me:

Irresponsible
Liar
Egotistic
Dependent (Parents finance)
Lazy
Bossy
Drinker (Alcohol)
Smoker*
Tattoo
With earrings
No work (Happy-go-lucky)
Materialistic (Money & Possessions)
Spendthrift
Womanizer
Coward (some of my family members don't like him but he's not a man enough. Actually, he run away and didn't came back!.)


That is my present ex bf. [Lahat ng turn-offs ng isang lalaki, tinanggap ko kasi mahal ko. Ang Earrings, Pagiging Drinker and Womanizer lang ang nagbago, the rest, static. Kahit may kotse at may sariling ari arian, WALA akong pakialam.]

Turn-ons:
Father figure (#1)
Always go to Church (#2)
The rest yung opposite ng mga turn-offs ko. Yung  #1 at #2 importante yun. 

I learned my lesson. My present ex is a single parent (he kept his son to me) but irresponsible. We also don't belong to the same church.  
Until now love ko pa rin ang kumag 

* He smokes occasionally but stopped before naging kami. This also true to other men. Big NO NO

[petlovah]

Turn off: He'd ask you out but you'd pay for the bill instead because you offered it, out of respect -> parang sis lelaina17 lang 

Turn on: He'd say to ask my brothers to eat with us since it was coincidence that we're all on the same mall. Turn on kasi he has the courage to face them, very manly for me 

[evilwoman]

Turn Off:

• tinanong ako kung Christian ba daw ako (anong kala nya sa kin, kampon ni satanas?!)
• sinabihan ako na di daw ako maganda, may hitsura lang.. 
• trying hard magenglish pero sablay naman (take note, purong tagalog naman ako makipagusap)