Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

[fuzzycatnip]

^True. Cheating during marriage should never be be accepted. Ang hirap kasi ngayon, once kinasal na saka nagloloko thinking that the woman won't be able to bring up the child alone kaya she would forgive lang. I would rather bring up my children alone kesa they would grow up tapos their father cheats on their mother (vice-versa). Family pa ba if one of the parents doesn't respect the other?

I think we all deserve to feel that we're worth the loyalty naman. If you think you've given it your best shot and you still don't feel that you're the only one on his mind, it's best to let go. We all deserve to feel loved and respected. 😊

[sensi]

ofcourse not.

[ms.bumbay]

NEver Ever

[Serena.]

Cheating? NO i suggest you to leave him but i understand that this is so hard to do when youve been together for years, ang hirap iwan kasi mahal na mahal mo na.. but do realize that sooner or later..you'll have to do everything you can to stay away from him and wait for a better one, coz i dont think you wanna end up waking up everyday with a cheating husband and a shameless mistress. "we all want a happy family"

[honeybunny]

he doesnt respect you and your relationship that's why he cheated on you. loosing someone who doesnt respect you is actually a gain, not a loss.

[djctapalla23]

Tried this once, did take him back but trust is like paper, once it's crumpled it'll never be the same again. Still broke up with him.

[beachpatrol]

I respect myself so much that I wouldn't want to take back someone who cheated on me. Let karma do the work. 

[kutitapkiss]

nope. done it once, never again. love yourself 

[agape]

Yes, because I was not ready to lose him yet, but eventually did.

[kvandenhaak]

Well, if we are married already, I think it's wise to give him a second chance. Kung BF pa lang, I will run as fast as I can.

[rheinfall18]

No.

[triciaaamaldita]

I did. Hindi sya actually cheating. Yung ex gf nya yung naghahabol habol sa kanya tas nirereply nya din mga texts. Na set up pa sya ng kuya nya to go out with the ex gf. Buti nalang di natuloy. The ex gf even messaged me on fb na kesyo sya pa daw ang mahal, sumingit lang daw ako. Wtf diba. I was so mad then pero mas tumimbang talaga yung love ko for him. Hindi nya naman na gusto, siya lang pinipilit. Lol. We're more than ok since then

[redsh0es]

ay jusko hindeee!!!

[Girltalker2]

^ palayasin
Make his affair known to others din (publicly), to your relatives and his side as well.
Announce your separation to everyone para sya naman ang mahiya at lumayo.

[ysa.belle]

^maybe mahal ka niya talaga and he realized what a big mistake he did for cheating on you.

[hopia_]

would you consider going back to this man?
we broke up and had no communication for 2 weeks as in pati sa FB dinelete nya ako as a friend.

then one night for the first time, I used Tinder. Then madaling araw he called, went to my house during wee hours of morning to see me and gave me flowers. Nakita daw ako ng friend nya, bakit daw ako nag ti-Tinder. Then we were okay, for a week. kinakamusta ko sya, if there were other girls he met during the time na hindi kami naguusap or nagkikita, wala naman daw. Kinamusta nya rin ako. Pero since then, I acted cold. Something tells me na may hindi sya sinasabi sakin, when he confronted me why I am acting cold, sinabi ko mga hinala ko.. and true enough tama lahat ng hinala ko. He had sex with unknown women, made out with a girl he was introduced with, then nakikipagmeet sya sa mga nakikilala sa Tinder.

Now "kami" parin pero we are not talking like we used to. Sabi nya hindi naman daw kami nung ginawa nya lahat yun. Iniisip ko, reason ba na break kami nung mga time na yun kaya nya nagawa makipag-do sa ibang babae? Justifiable ba yun? And simula nung nag kabalikan kami, nag ti-Tinder parin sya and kinakausap mga nakilala nya dun.

[Girltalker2]

^ Sis, the fact you have doubts, something tells you that parang may mali. Di mo lang ma pinpoint.

If I were you? No, di ako makikipag balikan sa kanya. If ever I do, it will take time. I need some time na maging convincing sya at trustworthy tsaka maging kami. If not, I'd rather date again and find a better guy than him.

[simang]

^^reminded me of Ross's famous line from Friends : WE WERE ON A BREAK!! Lol

Anyway, yung sinabi mo na kayo pa rin but you don't talk/act like before, is that what you want sa relationship nyo? Ang stand ko kasi dyan is, dahil ba sinuyo ka nya ulit at nakipagbalikan sya eh kelangan mo ba talaga makipagbalikan?

You guys broke up for a reason. Even before you found out the things na ginawa nya sa loob ng 2 weeks na break kayo. Bago mo pa malaman yon, may reason na to get out of the relationship.

Alam mo kung bakit easy for guys to do something kahit alam nilang ikakasira ng relationship? Because girls are so easy to pursue. It's so easy to say sorry sa mga babae, samahan mo pa ng bulaklak, or worse, engagement ring.

Isipin mong mabuti what you want in a relationship. If he's not giving you that, then why accept him again? Why stay with him?

[j.adore]

Yeng, maybe he thinks that will win you over. Are you sure you don't want him anymore or are you waiting he will change to fix your marriage?

Hopia, why be with someone who only sees your worth if you're ready to let him go? Saka susko nasa tinder pa rin eh di may other women pa din?

Simang, I don't understand either why women are so forgiving lalo kung bigyan ng flowers o engagement ring. It's a trap!

[Girltalker2]

Pero ayaw niyang umalis, pakiramdam ko kasi pag naghiwalay kami, mas mapapadali ang buhay ko, hindi na ko mag-iisip nang kung asan ba sya? Kasama ba niya yung babae niya? Promise talaga sis, ayoko na talaga.

This is so true sis. I can vouch for that. Life can be so much simpler and peaceful. Buti ka nga, alam mo na agad gagawin mo.

When I was in your shoes, I still wasn't sure if I'm doing the right thing if leaving him. Di ko alam what will happen to me and the kids. Basta alam ko sobrang hirap ako when I was with him because laging iniisip ko what he is doing when I'm not around, pambababae etc etc Di rin ako makatulog ng mahimbing, laging nag aalala at malungkot. Basta everything was hell. Tapos nung nagsarili ako with kids, worried pako nung una. Then after a few months, di ko akalain na ang saya at sarap pala ng buhay pag wala sya!

Pero para sakin, mas maaalagaan ko ang anak ko pag hindi ko na sya kasama.

Good point sis. Di ko rin Ito naisip. Like any typical cheated Wife, I used to struggle na dahil sakin, lalaki mga bata walang tatay. Pero hindi eh. It wasn't me who destroyed the trust and the relationship. Sya! Tsaka Yung diskarte sa pagpa palaki sa kanila, feeling ko pagpagulo lang sya especially if his mind is skewed at may tendency mag lie at manloko. More so, ayoko kalakihan ng mga bata na ok lang manloko. For boys, mamya gawin din nila later in life kasi ok lang naman. Naku lalo na for girls, mamya magpaloko lang sila ng kung sino sinong lalaki.

Ewan ko ba sis, kung yung ibang babae, masaya sila dahil sila pa rin pinili ng asawa nila over sa kabit, ako hindi ganun pakiramdam ko, mas gusto ko pang piliin niya yung kabit niya, magsama sila.

Well siguro yes masaya, but never sila magkaron ng peace of mind. Most at least. Siguro only 5% or less pa ang makabalik before the unfaithfulness.