Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

[purple.strawberry]

^sis kung gusto mo na ng break-up, you don't need his permission to do so. Ano pang magagawa niya e ayaw mo na. Btw, not urging you ha, hehe, just telling my opinion. I mean, if the relationship is not healthy anymore and it's not contributing to both of your personal growth, stunted na kumbaga, I think it's best to let go. It'll do both of you good.

[princeza08]

melabshim: hehe, oo nga sis, iba yun mister ko kumpara sa mga naging bf ko dati, buti na lang hindi ako nag end up sa ganon klase ng guy. kaya ako sayo sis, mag esep esep ka mabuti dyan sa bf mo, hehe...

swatchgotha" sis, better mag usap kayo ng hubby mo. pero, suggest ko lang as what melabshim said, yun mga anak mo ipriority mo. mas kailangan ka nila. at ask your hubby bakit nya din ginawa yun sayo if anong prob nya sa relationship nyo at sa iyo. pero sa totoo lang, kahit ano pa pagkukulang mo sis, hindi nya pa din dapat ginawa yon sayo. much better kung wag ka muna magpalinlang sa kanya as of now, hintayin mong magbago sya, at patunayan nya yun sayo. then kung hindi talaga at ganon pa din sya, its not yet the end of the world, magpaganda ka sis, fix yourself, & focus sa mga bata. stay strong sis.

[melabshim]

@ purple.strawberry
wala ko magawa sis ayaw niya umalis sa house ko, lapit lang naman house nila pero nagpupumilit padin dito  sabi ko nga sis hahayaan ko sya magstay here pero wag na lang kami mag imikan  and para sakin wala na kami .. tapos maglalabing ang mag bibiro then pag natawa ako feeling niya ok na kami  parang bata 

@ princeza08
kaya nga sis eh , sabi niya bakit daw sakin botong boto mother niya pero parents ko ayaw sakanya . sabi ko malamang kasi kahit nga ako sa sarili ko hindi ako boto sakanya na sya makatuluyan ko parents ko pa kaya

@ swatchgotha
sis super agree ako sa mga sinabi ni sis princeza i hope na malampasan mo lahat ang mga trials na nararanasan ng family mo now .. take care sis and be strong para sa mga anak mo .. kaya mo yan girl  

[GD]

Never! Bakit, siya lang ba ang nag-iisang lalake dito sa mundo? Ang dami-daming pwedeng ipalit sa kanya. Tsaka minsan na niyang ginawa malamang gawin niya pa sayo ulit yun.

[adrianne0530]

no, never! 

[huggykaye]

NO.
HINDI. =)

[lovely_carrot]

if its his first time, yes.
second and succeeding cheating, no.

nagsink in sa akin ito, from the movie The Vow:

I chose to stay with him for all the things he's done right; not the one thing he's done wrong. I chose to forgive him..

[BicuriousGm]

A big NO! Lumaki na nga ako sa environment na my dad cheated my mom  for the nth time. My mom is so
Martir. Wag naman na pati sa akin. Kaya No!

[Yamski]

Hmmm.. hanggang ano'ng level of cheating ba? Kung hindi naman sila nag-sex, I would. Otherwise, I'd rather be single for the rest of my life.

[lonelymiss28]

NO!

[Ireneeeeee]

before,  it was so easy to say NO. Pero when i got into this kind of situation, ang hirap pala. Lalo na kung mahal mo yun tao. I was younger then, so madali mauto, madali magpaloko. But luckily, the time came when I realized I'm better off without him and I deserve someone better. Now I'm in a new relationship and I know better. Im praying it won't happen again but now I can say it would be easier to say NO. Kasi liberating ang feeling na you got out of an unhealthy relationship.

[alice_alice]

No. Why would you want to be with someone you can't trust?

[louiesmom]

It depends on the level of how he cheated, I guess.

When you have kids, it's not easy to just think of yourself alone e.

[hsinnerac]

if its his first time, yes.
second and succeeding cheating, no.

nagsink in sa akin ito, from the movie The Vow:

I chose to stay with him for all the things he's done right; not the one thing he's done wrong. I chose to forgive him..

very well said sis.

saka depende talaga sa magnitude ng panloloko, well thats my own opinion. case to case basis pa din siguro.

[redhead69]

This happened to me just recently. I dont really consider it cheating pero it leads there. Once a guy deletes messages (related to girl he flirts with) is a sign of cheating. Hiding something is a sign of cheating. So after what happened to us di ko siya mapatawad. Di ko na masyado i ddetail what happened. pero no talaga. I already gave him chances and he wasted it.

[brandi]

I said no before and here I am dating an ex who's been very persistent of winning me back. I haven't thought of saying yes yet but who knows. I am still confused but everytime I see his his sincerity, it's like, 'why not give him another chance?'. We're dating for almost a year already.

[redhead69]

^were still at the same situation but im dating my ex bago tong recent ex. And im confused too. I still have feelings for my recent ex who cheated pero alam ko di ako masasaktan sa ex ko before him kasi siya yung super loyal sakin. I dont know

[timetraveller]

If once pa lang naman, and he feels remorseful forndoing so, then maybe, yes I'll take him.

Pero kung ako pa yung sinisisi, or wala man lang ka-remorse remorse then no.

[sweet_chic]

It happened to me few years ago. He chose me over the girl. Then after the girl broke up with him, naging kami ulit. Maybe I'm just confused that time. Then later on, I realized I'm not happy anymore and decided to break up with him.   

[KittiEKittiE]

No. Cheating is a choice. Pinili nya yung iba, dun na sya. Pag trust ang nabali, ang hirap na ibalik. Parang nakakaparanoid na lang pag nagkabalikan kayo na he might do it again. Nakaka-stress.