Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

[ettevyvi]

Sa akin naman, ayoko na tingnan yung profile nung girl na ipinang two time nya.

Nagcomment kasi yung mother ng ex ko sa cover photo nung babae, saying na namimiss nila yung girl na kasabay nila sa breakfast. Honestly, masakit pa din... Kasi alam nilang sya yung number 2 before and yet now parang ang chummy2 nila... Wherein in fact, I was in the girl's poisition before... At n hindi nangyari na niloko ako.

Kaso, wala eh. Sya ang current, ako ang past. It stings, pero wala naman ako magagawa. Sana maging masaya na lang sila.

Minsan,iniisip ko na wala din naman sa ex ko ang lahat, ang dali nya naka move on, at yung no. 2 nya ang ipinalit pa nya sa akin. Wherein in fact, I'm here and feeling everything and pushing, really pushing myself to move forward.

Hehe, ayoko na tingnan profile ni girl or know anything about them. Tama na.

[tipC_shoegal]

^You've made the right decision to stop checking the current of your ex. It will only stop you from continuing what you've already started. I also told myself to stop visiting the ex's site because the "sting" is still there. Over the weekend, I've actually thought about everything again and I thought I'd go ga** over it but thank God that I pulled through and realigned my senses.

[ettevyvi]

^yes. I need to get my grip again.=)

I think somehow I'm envious.. Siguro kasi dati ako ang nasa kalagayan nya. Just the feeling of the bf's family missing you.. Although I know there should be nothing I should be jealous of. When I confided this with my bestfriend, he told me:

"There's nothing to envy about because they didn't get it right in the first place anyway."

whoa! Huge wake up call and he did hit a nail on my head!!

i'm now back on track to recovery. Ü parang adik lang no? Hahaha! =)

[tipC_shoegal]

^True. We're like in rehabilitation talaga. From time to time, situations and feelings of memories past will come back to "haunt" us to test our integrity - pulling away and continuing to move forward is the truest affirmation that we're achieving the goal of making ourselves better without them anymore.

[manang02]

sis ettevyvi , i feel you. kaya mo yan. someday, you'll gonna look back on this and tatawanan mo na lang yung mga nangyari.
ika nga sa kanta, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger".. hehe 

[ettevyvi]

^True. We're like in rehabilitation talaga. From time to time, situations and feelings of memories past will come back to "haunt" us to test our integrity - pulling away and continuing to move forward is the truest affirmation that we're achieving the goal of making ourselves better without them anymore.

amen! palagi ko na lang iniisip yang one day na yan na mangyayari na he's not on my mind anymore.. that any thought of him won't feel anything! Hay naku magpapamisa ata ako talaga kapag nangyari 'yun, AT, manlilibre talaga ako! WOHOO! hehe.

Sis eto ang tinatawag na relapse.

sis ettevyvi , i feel you. kaya mo yan. someday, you'll gonna look back on this and tatawanan mo na lang yung mga nangyari.
ika nga sa kanta, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger".. hehe 

Hehe. Super mega motivation na talaga ang ginagawa ko sis just not to get stuck in these abyss. I am really looking forward to that moment. A part of my recovery is through reaching out to people like you who experienced the same thing I'm going through. Funny thing is, the friend of his who confessed also said those exact line. And yes, I'm still standing...

This forum really helped me in many ways. And sisses like you! ^_^

[tipC_shoegal]

^Thankfully, most of the time, he's out of my mind. Out of mind, out of sight does the trick for me kaso when relapse visits, "big time pa-promo" naman ang drama kaya more, more emote ako na buti na lang, nagagawan ko ng paraan na 'wag masyado maisip. Time will come when he's totally absent from your mind, sis. With your strength and motivation, it's not impossible.

[kittykatt]

not in a million years! magsama sila ng girl. ahaha! 

[bruce_lyn]

No

[bruce_lyn]

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^Thankfully, most of the time, he's out of my mind. Out of mind, out of sight does the trick for me kaso when relapse visits, "big time pa-promo" naman ang drama kaya more, more emote ako na buti na lang, nagagawan ko ng paraan na 'wag masyado maisip. Time will come when he's totally absent from your mind, sis. With your strength and motivation, it's not impossible.

Sis, Why not try this one sa akin effective. when someone cheated on me syempre nasaktan at umiyak and that's it. I always tell myself you will regret the day you hurt me.babalik ka din sa akin at pagdating ng panahon na yun hindi na  kita babalikan. it works nangyayari nga ilang beses pa! Sa akin ang last laugh. Wala pa akong binalikan na ex.

[ilykeee]

iSis, Why not try this one sa akin effective. when someone cheated on me syempre nasaktan at umiyak and that's it. I always tell myself you will regret the day you hurt me.babalik ka din sa akin at pagdating ng panahon na yun hindi na  kita babalikan. it works nangyayari nga ilang beses pa! Sa akin ang last laugh. Wala pa akong binalikan na ex.

Hi sis, totoo to. Parehas tayo, ganyan rin sinabi ko sa sarili ko dati, it worked.

[ettevyvi]

iSis, Why not try this one sa akin effective. when someone cheated on me syempre nasaktan at umiyak and that's it. I always tell myself you will regret the day you hurt me.babalik ka din sa akin at pagdating ng panahon na yun hindi na  kita babalikan. it works nangyayari nga ilang beses pa! Sa akin ang last laugh. Wala pa akong binalikan na ex.

It worked once pa lang with mine. The latest one... Well sila pa kasi nung ipinang two time nya sa akin eh.. But I do, too, believe with conviction that he will regret deeply what he has done. Iilang babae na lang ang matino sa mundo, aayaw pa sya. I know na babalikan nya ako one day. Sorry na lang to him but I won't anymore.

[bruce_lyn]

Hi sis ako kasi pag sinabi kong you will regret the day you left me. I don't think na pano mangyayari yun eh sila pa ng GF nila, Basta sasabihin ko sa sarili ko yun mga katagang yun. Ang nangyayari habang nandun pa siya sa relasyon na yun he realized my worth and regret it. yun isa he till now he said if he could only go back in time. kasi he is in unhappy marriage.At least ako wala man siya Happy kasi i am free. Ako naman I don't grundge. believe it or not after certain time that all the heartaches are gone. I can be friends with my ex. kaya nga nalalaman ko they regret leaving me

[ettevyvi]

believe it or not after certain time that all the heartaches are gone. I can be friends with my ex. kaya nga nalalaman ko they regret leaving me

Yeah.. I know. I hope soon, soon. Sure I can be friends with him kapag okay na ako. At this point kasi, he's not even acknowledging what he did was wrong by apologizing. Kaya sa tingin ko, medyo malabo pa mangyari 'yun. Okay lang naman, basta ako pinapatawad ko sya, bit by bit hanggang mawala na 'tong galit sa akin.

[bruce_lyn]

that's understandble sis. may mga stages yan. can't remember it all. denial,anger, acceptance etc etc. nasa anger stage ka pa ata siyempre masakit yun icheat di ba. Ok lang sana if naging honest sabihin i don't love you anymore masakit man sa heart pero not sa ego.

[ettevyvi]

I guess andun na ako sa halo halong emotion stage. Hehe! Yung galit.. Ayoko na kasing magalit e. Wala naman akong magagawa, nahihirapan lang ang sarili ko.

Oo sis eh, sana naging honest sya but he isn't. Tsk, too bad he doesn't have the courage to tell me so. Anyway, things happen that at this point 'di ko man maintindihan, it will make sense in due time.

[tipC_shoegal]

Matagal ko nang ipinagdadasal na kahit man lang sana humingi ng tawad ulit sa lahat ng nagawa sa'ken itong recent ex ko, tatanggapin ko but I don't think I'd even consider taking him back despite him being close to my ideal guy (at least, physically). Isipin ko na lang yung pinagdaanan ko with him, that's enough reason for me to further value myself continuously.

[Girltalker2]

Hi sis ako kasi pag sinabi kong you will regret the day you left me. I don't think na pano mangyayari yun eh sila pa ng GF nila, Basta sasabihin ko sa sarili ko yun mga katagang yun. Ang nangyayari habang nandun pa siya sa relasyon na yun he realized my worth and regret it

well, iniisip ko na he will really regret it. kasi ang gf nya ngayon is his karma. and he will regret. he admitted to me, tama daw ako, bungangera at imposing. well, that's gonna be hell for him if ever he decides to be with her in the long term.

[rheinfall18]

ang kay juan ay kay juan, ang kay pedro ay kay pedro..

pero kapag inagawa ang kay juan, e di agawin din yung kay pedro! harhar

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[hot_chili]

^ Yan din ang sabi ng mga amiga ko, pag nangaliwa sya mangaliwa ka rin... pero di ko kaya yan kasi feeling ko mas malaki effect sa ating mga girls pag tayo ang nangaliwa kahit pa sabihin na nauna ang hubby natin and gumaganti lang tayo.

I'll forgive him pag fling fling lang pero pag masyado ng deep ang relationship nila (worst is binahay na si kabit) parang isip isip muna. mahirap na makalimutan yung ganun