Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

[qtme27]

It's a big NO NO.. especially if your not yet married.. BF/GF mo pa nga lang sya niloloko ka na nya what more kung asawa mo na sya?

Always believe in the saying: Once a cheater, always a cheater. Madaming iba jan na hindi manloloko.

[a_y_e_n]

NO for me too. i will never tolerate cheating!

[smoothie]

no! dahil sobrang hirap mag move-on. work things out.


married na ako & mahal ko din siya kaya nagkabalikan kami. pero ang hirap. kaya if i was single. NO talaga.

[kysmet]

I did. But I am sure I will break up with him in the future.

After a cheating episode, the relationship will never be the same again. It won't be the kind of relationship that makes you think of your favorite love song, poem or romantic comedy.

We still have good times, and kinikilig pa din naman ako. But I will never be that girl before who thinks the world of him. My guards are up. Hindi nako padadala coz I promised myself that I will never get hurt like that again.

It is funny though, coz I think he can sense this. So he is in constant fear that I will do the same thing to him, as in he checks my phone or always asks my whereabouts. As if. Hindi naman ako katulad niya. Hindi ako baboy.

[mbeeyap]

mahirap magsalita ng tapos. siguro if bf lang, it's a no. pero if husband mo na, mahirap sagutin. kasi ang dami-daming mong titimbangin before you decide to let go or take back. 

[jaded1025]

No!

Mahal ko sarili ko noh.

[sinosikat]

i did take back someone who cheated on me. it is hard to take someone back who has broken your trust, kasi it will never be the same. you'll always have doubts, and you'll always be on your toes.... but if you think it's worth it, then take him back. but be wiser the second time around.

[miss_insecure]

it happened to me. i took him back. but then, i had a hard time trusting him. up to the point na naging paranoid na ko, texting him where he is, sino kasama. I was so scared na maulit ulit. and it's true, nawala na nga yung respect. sobra na [textspeak!] mga exchange of words namin. we love each other, but after nito... i dont think magiging maayos kami sa ngayon. i think, it's a matter of time talaga. to heal everything... and to remove my insecurities and doubts...

[thestargazer]

I don't know...

Siguro kung asawa ko na. ang sagot ko, OO - tatanggapin ko. Walang questions, basta sincere sa pagbalik at tapos na talaga yung kung ano man ang meron sa iba.

Kung BF---kung mahal ko pa - SIGURO. Pero depende sa situation.

Kung ex-Father ng anak ko ---as bf, hindi na. Pero donations are welcome

[officebusters]

siguro kung talagang mahal ko bakit hindi..pero kung paulit ulit it does'nt make sense...

[det060403]

definitely no.

[Periwinkle25]

nope..i just can't and i surely won't have him again if ever..breach of trust is irreparable..pangit talaga pag may lamat na..you will always doubt the guy..medyo may pagkaparanoid pa naman ako minsan..lol

[meisaia]

NO.

[chelvin26]

I already did this.. my bf cheated on me for almost 1 year before i broke up with him. imagine girls.. sa loob ng one year naniwala ako sa mga kasinungaling niya kahit harap harapan ko ng nakikita.. pero i still believe him.. kasi may tiwala ako sa kanya eh.. and besides kilala ko siya.. alam ko hindi niya magagawa sakin yun.. kahit one year akong gabi gabi umiyak. ok lang sakin, as long na nasa akin siya.. pero hindi ko siya mafeel that time, kahit may doubt. i stil managed it.. then one day i found out na nga na totoo ang lahat.. ang sakit sakit nun girls.. sobra.. para akong namanhid nun.. at eto pa.. i asked him. sino ba pipiliin niya.. ako o yung girl.. we were 3 years na at that time.. then laking gulat ko pinili niya yung other girl.. double dead ako nun. sabi ko sa sarili ko.. ako lang piliin niya handa ko kalimutan lahat.. pero hindi ako.. after 2 months.. nagkabalikan kami.. i do love him so much kasi, kaya kinalimutan ko lahat.. oo nakakatakot mag take ulet ng risk. pero wala ka magagawa. mahal mu eh.. sa love naman masasaktan ka talaga.. i learned to trust him again, pinagkatiwala ko sa kanya feelings ko.. na sana wag na niya ako saktan ulet.. he promised that to me.. though may mga away kami, pero hindi na siya nambabae..kami pa din until now. pero hindi na babae pinag aawayan namin..

[poetrytoprose]

No, thank you.

If I take him back there will always be this trust issue. Besides, yes once a cheater always a cheater.

[florencejoy]

i would if its just once, kasi it might not happen again. pero pag he cheated twice never again. and ill make sure he will live his a life a living hell. joke lang.

[qtpurple04]

I did .. it's hard nga kun trust na yung nawala .. pero not totally 100% nawala naman di ba? kahit papano meron pa rin natira .. kaya I gave him second chance .. and yes, lagi na lang may trust issues ..  Kaya nga minsan hirap siya magpaalam kun may pupuntahan siya .. kasi dami dami pa siyang maririnig tapos minsan hindi rin ako papayag .. Pero unti unti rin na nagge-gain ulit ako ng trust sa kanya .. and he inaassure niya naman ako na hindi na mauulit .. kasi sabi ko sa kanya if maulit pa .. Ni pangalan niya hindi ko na aalalahanin .. Instant amnesia ..

[orangerain]

I did. We were boyfriend and girlfriend then and now we're married. I admit may trust issues pa rin, pero after some time, paunti unti naman naghiheal. Like qtpurple04, hirap din siya magpaalam sa akin kasi marami akong tanong at side comments. But then on his side, dinadaan na lang niya sa patience. Alam niyang nagkamali siya and he needs to work for my trust. Kung important talaga pupuntahan niya tapos duda ako, sinasama pa ako nun. Tapos palagi kami nagvavacation or date to make new memories daw. And most important of all, we attend Church. Ito yung sobrang nakatulong talaga sa amin.

[meisaia]

ayon nga sa aking blog...

Ayoko. Kasi parang kinain ko ulit yung itinae ko na.

[chelvin26]

theres nothing wrong to forgive kung mahal nyu talaga isat isa.. and malalim na pinagsamahan nyu,