Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

[goshness]

I was watching a movie that says that it's normal for men to cheat and the girl ended up taking him back and everything went back to normal. Would you ever do the same? I don't think I can do that. How about you?

[krisle703]

i can never tell but as of the moment.. my answer is NO! I wouldn't! 

[purple_md]

before i did take back a guy who cheated on me but it didn't work out. I was was never able to trust him again

[luisacart]

i honestly don't know. i've never been cheated on (thank God!) so I don't know what it feels like to have to make that kind of choice.

[books_mags]

i did pero tama nga na it will never be the same. 
the only explanation i can get out of it was... at the time you find out that your man is cheating on you, pride and denial will kick in.  gugustuhin mo ikaw ang piliin, at the same time, you will feel betrayed and shocked and hindi na makakapaniwala na it can happen to you or your man can do that to you.  and of course, mafe feel mo na something is missing since you spent some time with the person. 
pag nagkabalikan na kayo, you will always have a constant reminder of the cheating.  that is why it is more difficult to make things work after cheating.  for me, aside from not being able to trust him again, he was not able to make me trust him again. also, since he wasnt able to handle things properly, nawala respeto ko sa kanya.  it came to a point na namumura ko na siya, then i realized i have no more respect for him.  kahit umiiyak siya sa akin, wala na akong nafe feel.  that is the end.

[boaVista]

it wil never be the same again kung sakali. so hanggat maaga mag MOVE on na. kesa matali pa ako sa ganyang klase ng tao..

[frankikay]

NO! naniniwala ako sa kasabihan na  "Once a cheater, always a cheater."  Cheaters can't be changed.

[aquacharly]

A lot of GFs,  partners of a non-marital or non-pseudo-marital setup -- shouldn't tolerate cheating BFs.  Spare yourself a probable extended run of misery.

Most wives and live-in partners, even women in relationships with marriage plans in the offing...   they tend to forgive.  Some forgive repeatedly.  They do everything, aside from trying harder + praying more + hoping more, including throwing in the neighbor's kitchen sink... until 1 day:  Boink! She says:    "I'm tired.  My heart's tired, Who the heck are you anyway to be causing me an extended run of misery?"  There, it ends.

But for you single people... go, walk away. 
 

[frozen]

i have been through this. i took back the guy who cheated on me.
believe me, if it happened, it damn happens and it is bound to happen again. that's reality. i once did it. i will not do it twice.

don't take him back. super waste of time.. 

[charlottemarie]

no, i don't think kaya ko!

[evilwoman]

i did. married na kami ngayon. super looooooong process ang healing. may oras na magsslide ka pabalik sa hurting stage esp pag may makikita kang physical evidence ng cheating nya at madaming beses ko na ding pinagsisihan kung bakit itinuloy pa din namin yung relationship. madalas akong magalit at umiyak at sya naman napapagod na DAW sa kakapaliwanag (na di ko naman maalala kung kelan yun). ngayon, unti-unti kong nararamdaman na nagsisisi talaga sya and he's trying to makeup sa lahat ng heartaches na binigay nya kaya nakakamove on na din ako kahit papano at natutunan na din iaccept ang nangyari.hopefully magtuloy-tuloy na..

[misha21]

hinde to good idea..hehe i did it for 5 times!players never change talaga..kaya wag na lang..

[kittypowerranger]

yes but it goes with an acceptable situation/circumstances

[sweetbabycakes]

i was cheated on once, and i did not take him back. tama si sis kikay, once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater..... Why would I beat myself on the head with the same rock over and over again.

[lavariel]

I did and it has been one of my greatest regrets. Don't ever take a cheater back. What can be done once, can be done twice or twice and even they know better how to hide it.

[chengkii]

I guess depende sa status niyo when he cheated. Kung BF/GF pa lang, walk away. Hindi worth it.
Pero kung couple na kayo...married, it would be a bit more complicated. I read pa in another thread na hindi pwedeng reason ang cheating sa annulment. So, pag married na...haaay, it will be a different story. Depende siguro sa mindset ng isa't isa.

[kaye27]

^ agree sis depende talaga sa situation.. if you are married and have kids you will most likely to forgive and accept the husband who cheated.. though may healing process kasi nga nasira yung trust but wives do tend to forgive and eventually forget..

pero kung single ka, hmmm.. mag isip isip ka muna..

[pinkylady]

ganyan ang isa sa mga nasabi ko bago ako makipagbreak sa bf ko. kakayanin ko pa ba syang balikan e hindi na nga sya mapagkatiwalaan sa mga maliliit na bagay kasi nagtatago sya ng kung ano ano. tandang tanda na dampot pa rin ng basura. long distance kami then may ganun syang attitude which is not applicable in our situation. napuno ako aun break ko sya. bagay lang sa kanya.

[baby27]

no? I would'nt do that ?

[tinapay]

depende sa tao at depende sa sitwasyon.  i had an x na nagloko sakin pero nagkabalikan kami.  then i had this another x na nagloko rin pero di ko na sya babalikan.