Should I forget and move on? Or should I still wait..?

[aleng_maganda]

   nakakatuwa lang sis, kasi ako naging mag boyfriend kami ni hubby 15yrs. old kami. and we met naman on air. as in sa radio com, di pa uso ang celphone, beeper nun. pero the day after ko naman sinagot si hubby nun, pinuntahan na nya ko sa bahay. at talagang consistent ang pagdalaw nya sa kin sa bahay, kahit sinisimangutan sya ng tatay ko. hahaha... nakarelate ako in a way.

[shatygabrielle]

ah, sis.. you`re only 14??? alam ba ng nanay mo na you have a 21-year old bf that you met online?

     Tama ka sis 14 y/o ka palang ang dami mo pang maki2lala d hamak na matino and the one who really loves you. Just be patience i know there's someone out there who is meant for you and willing to understand you.

[minikeyklush]

makikiepal lang sa thread na to tee hee! 

and i agree sa lahat ng sinabi ng mga sisses naten dito

@Ms C. napakabata mo pa para seryosohin ang mga ganyang bagay. Dapat as of this moment and age, you're still enjoying your youthful activities, pagkakaron  ng mga crushes, doing slumber parties with your friends and some gurly stuff na dapat ineexperience mo pa lang sa ngayon. Wag mo masyado iinvolved deeply ang sarili mo sa ganyang relasyon and besides, believe them sis, kahit sabihin mong hindi yan infatuation, IT IS! hehe darating ang tamang panahon na you will be able to meet the one person na talagang para sa'yo, but for now wag mong sayangin ang kabataan mo dyan. I dont want to judge him pero based sa mga nabasa ko at kwento mo, nasa tamang katinuan ba ang lalaking yan para isiping makipagrelasyon sa isang menor de edad pa hehe.. Go out and enjoy life sis, there's so much life ahead of you pa. Kaysa umiyak iyak ka at iyakan ang pagaaway nyo ng bf mo icherish mo nalan tong phase ng teenage life mo.. Minsan lang yun mangyayare. Believe me mas madami kang maeenjoy sa ganyang age.. Godbless you sis, hope maenlighten ka dyan.. peace hehe 

[aquacharly]

Ms C!  O ano, darling, 15 ka na?   Nakita mo na ba yang mukha ng BF mo?  Curious, extremely!, ako -- na boink! ka ba, hinimatay, nagtago ka sa falda ng mom mo, or lalo kang kinilig?

Kayo pa rin  ba? kasi very convinced ka na it is more than infatuation.  Susko darling, it wasn't even an infatuation, in our opinion.  o hwag mo kami batuhin,mga atchi mo kami ha!   
So, kayo pa rin ba, or you are enjoying your youth and pinapila mo lahat ng may gusto sa yo? 

Do not waste your youth on just one man or boy.  hehe

Cuento! 

[minikeyklush]

@sis aquacharly hehe natawa ako sayo! tee hee!  yaan mo sis, darating ang panahon na mas marerealized nila (specifically mga kabataan nowadays) na mas masaya pa din maging teenager.. hehe kaya dapat fun,fun fun muna.. wala muna ang iyakan at sobrang seryosohan factor.. hehe they have all the time in the world para ienjoy ang buhay.. Sana marealize na yun ni sis@ Ms.C. hehe

Aja! 

[_AiaH_]

LOL how come at 14 I didn't even think about love noon? I had bf's pero I was always on a look out for someone mas guwapo, haha. Binoyfriend ko pa ang best friend ko for several years just so I could experience what it's like na magka-bf. I broke up with one, went on to find another one. Sunud sunod. I really enjoyed life noon, haha. I think college na ako when I finally felt what it's like to be really 'into' someone.. into kasi I'm not sure if the relationship is deep enough to be considered 'true' love eh. Then when I met this guy after my break up sa aking ex whom I am deeply infatuated with, I never thought that this guy would be someone I would love so dearly. The difference between having just a relationship and partnership is defined talaga.

So sis, there you go. We are SURE, yes, SURE na hindi love yan. We all once thought na sobrang love na ang naramdaman namin back on those days and to the max na pagibig na yun, but it's not. At 14 or 15, the mind may not be able yet to conceive the real meaning of love unless you actually experience it. That involves growth, change, trust, love, compromise, support and all those difficult stuffs that couples go through the years. Love is developed through years of hardship and dedication. So, kahit kaming matatanda na, we can't say at that stage na love na talaga. Simply because love doesn't happen overnight nor ends in a snap of a finger. Most certainly not with someone you haven't seen nor met personally. Been in online relationships then when I was at your age. It's fun though

[shatygabrielle]

Ms C!  O ano, darling, 15 ka na?   Nakita mo na ba yang mukha ng BF mo?  Curious, extremely!, ako -- na boink! ka ba, hinimatay, nagtago ka sa falda ng mom mo, or lalo kang kinilig?

Kayo pa rin  ba? kasi very convinced ka na it is more than infatuation.  Susko darling, it wasn't even an infatuation, in our opinion.  o hwag mo kami batuhin,mga atchi mo kami ha!   
So, kayo pa rin ba, or you are enjoying your youth and pinapila mo lahat ng may gusto sa yo? 

Do not waste your youth on just one man or boy.  hehe

Cuento! 
  hehe ntawa nman ko sis sa mga advise mo pero tama ka jan

[boynextnextdoor]

aww TS is so cute... puppy love na puppy love ang dating.  but the guy...  @21 I bet to my bottom dollar iba na nasa utak nun  i hope TS got rid of the guy and pursued someone who is also in a puppy love state instead

[mooncake and leaves]

while i don't want to patronize you, TS, i gotta say-thinking that you're way ahead of your years is actually typical teenage mentality. and although it's hard to invalidate your emotions, your emotional maturity to handle a relationship is questionable, given that you're very young. apparently, even your bf who's legally an adult now, is just as incapable.

what to do? trust us when we say that you should milk your youth. i'd seriously dump your bf because to be honest, you shouldn't be thinking about getting into serious relationships at the moment. chances are, you're not mentally and emotionally equipped to sustain it. not yet. don't rush yourself.

if i were you, i'd focus on my studies. what you do during your 4 yrs in hs will set the stage for what's going to happen in college, in your life. magpaka-ambisyosa. aim to graduate at the top of your class so you can get into and stay at a good university. hindi nagkakandakuba ang parents mo sa pagtatrabaho para lang mag-bf ka. make your momma proud.

P.S.

say i was a reckless teenager and i got pregnant at a young age. puwede na pala kitang maging anak hihi. man, if i were your mom, gulpi abot mo. lol jk.
 

[khakhaganda]

sis WAKE UP!!! COMMON SENSE LANG PO...Sorry sa word ha

[hanson15]

Mga sis how would you know if you should forget and move on or still wait?

[iloveonso]

mahirap mag-move on pag fresh pa ang lahat. anjan na aasa ka pa na baka pwede pa maayos lahat kaya mag-wait pa rin.   

[aepreal]

Dear, hindi dahil against ako sa INTERNET LOVE na yan or kahit pa mga TEXT CLAN na yan eh. Kame na ang nagsasabi sa'yo, don't take it seriously lalong-lalo na't kung internet love/text clan mo lang nakilala yung bf mo. at wow napaka bata mo pa. Marami ka pang pwedeng gawin, marami ka pang makikilalang iba dyan, yung mas malapit, yung kasing age mo, yung mas kilala mo. Ang masama pa dyan, parang may epekto na agad sa'yo [textspeak!] 3 months na relationship nyo. Look, he's much older than you pero he doesn't even have the guts na magpakita sa'yo. If ikaw man yung busy sa sched b'coz you're still studying and I bet, you're still in HS level dba? Dapat yung so-called BF mo na yung gumawa ng way para makita ka, magkita kayo. Alangan naman na ikaw yung gumawa ng way no??? Naku! wag na wag mong gagawin yun. DUH!! Mahirap na magtiwala sa tao ngayon. Malay mo nagpapanggap lang yan ano!? Basta ayun, payo lang namin. Wag masyadong magseryoso sa ganyang relasyon. Tsaka kapag sinabi ng lalake na BREAK NA, break na talaga. hehe. Masakit man marinig, pero ganun talaga. Mababaw na dahilan dahil lang mas gwapo [textspeak!] nasa kaliwa LOL, insecure lang yung ex mo.

Move on ka na dear... focus more on your studies. Sa ngayon, pwede naman magkaroon ng inspiration through crush eh, pero not that kind of relationSHIT na sinasabi mo. hehe

[k_heart]

Kung anak ko itong si TS, malamang pinagkukurot ko na ito.WAhahaha!

At 14, mag-aral lang muna. Love can wait. At kung magbi-BF ako ng 14, i will make sure na sobrang gwapo sya para pag nahuli ako ng nanay ko ay at least worth it. he!he!he!

[purpleblush18]

Ang cute naman ni Ms. C.  I wonder kung ano na nagyari sa kanya?

[~yufa~]

Kung anak ko itong si TS, malamang pinagkukurot ko na LOL!

At 14, mag-aral lang muna. Love can wait. At kung magbi-BF ako ng 14, i will make sure na sobrang gwapo sya para pag nahuli ako ng nanay ko ay at least worth it. he!he!he!

You're funny. But the message actually of 'Fifteen' is deep. It's like "look before you fall" and there are always lessons to be learned...

[junetwentythree]

Ineng....nasaan ang nanay mo? At bakit ka pinapayagan mag ka internet boyfriend eck eck? Seriously?!

My sisses, you should see her other posts sa ibang thread. Ahem, especially one from the Sex forum. Nakuw! Kasakit sa ulo kung ang mga bata these days ganito na!

[ishopnowfeelguiltylater]

^napacheck din tuloy ako ng ibang posts niya. grabe nga