he has 3 kids!

[BoleynGirl]

hmm.. wag nalang sis.. baka kasi pag kayo na nagkaanak (or ikaw na naanakan) and happens to be a girl.. maging pambayad utang lang sa mga pinaggagagawa ng tatay nya.. joke lang!  seriously, i wouldn't even consider.. by the looks of it, mukhang player talaga yang guy na yan.. imagine 3 kids from 3 different women  you don't want to be the 4th woman do you?

[akosieka]

aww... ako rin sis meron ganyang situation pero hubb ko na cya ngaun 2 kids lang naman cya meron and 1 kid na meron dn ako so pareho kaming package LOL.. ok naman cya mbait and super maalaga. pero ang alam ko nag hiwalay sila ng past nia dahil mejo selosa [textspeak!] girl then [textspeak!] 2nd nagkaron ng 3rd party at iniwan nia. remind lang nia sken ayaw daw nia nang may nasawsaw sa babae..

[ms.rain]

naku. complicated yan! iba ang 3 kids from 1 woman but 3 kids from 3 different women??? yikes!!!

[baby_yellow]

save yourself girl. get him out of your system ASAP. he didn't marry any of those 3 women in his lives even if he got them pregnant. anong difference mo sa kanila kung maging kayo eventually? baka anakan ka lang (sorry for the term). magaling mambola at maraming issues mga ganyang lalaki. 

[toosexy]

... from 3 different woman,


i really like him, but just cant accept his past.

what should i do?

hi sis! hahaha ex bf ko ba tinutukoy mo? pm mo sakin name nyahahaha..
i recently broke up with ex for 2years and 6mos.. he walked away from my life, pero before naging kami.. i know he fathered 3 kids with different women and did not marry them.. when we are still "in the relationship"; I am onguard to take contraception for me not to get pregnant...

it's a difficult situation yes, especially iisipin me if namatay siya and malaman ng family mo biglang magsulputan yung mga anak niya asking for mana..

i want to have baby din because i am 28 na, but since his family warned him not to make a girl pregnant again otherwise itatakwil siya kasi puro panganay and hindi na papupuntahin sa US..

he did not supported the children nor communicate with them na rin since he did not have source of income to feed them.. hindi rin naging okay relationships nya with his exes..

hayzz why nga ba may ganyang lalaki.. hehe pero i'm glad were through..

[illumina]

^ suitor ko din ba ang tinutukoy mo sis? haha.  we weren't offically together. Muntik na, kaya lang nabasag helmet ko.. hehe.. it's comforting to know that my situation isn't that strange at all.

cast:
1.) guy   2.) preggy officemate   2.) girlfriend for 5 yrs (ex na ngayon)   3.) girl bestfriend w/ benefits
4.) me -- (yeah, that makes me the 4th woman! waah!)

Yung sa akin naman, 1 preggy girl and miscarriage for the other two. I don't know how he convinced the family of the girl why he should not marry their daughter. Kung family ko siguro yun baka napugutan na siya ng ulo, LOL!.. Nung nabuntis niya yung isang girl, he currently has a girlfriend for 5 years, nalaman na nakabuntis siya ng iba, it turned out buntis din pala yung gf, ayun nakunan.

I don't won't to be the next one. Yung preggy girl, ang alam lang may girlfriend siya. She isn't aware of my existence, or of the bf w/ benefits who had her miscarriage while we (the guy and I) were still dating. And what does that tell me? It tells me I'm being stupid. Because I know everything and yet, I still felt willing to give it all up. Ang nakakainis naman kasi dun sa guy, he doesn't lie to me. When he sees that I feel uneasy about something, he'd ask me "do you want me to explain?" and I'd answer my big NO immediately. Coz i know he'll tell the truth and I'll just get hurt.

Yes i like him, a lot actually. I almost ruined my 5 year relationship because of him. But thank God for real friends who would wham and whack your head when they see that you're getting crazy. Naisip ko, He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat me any differently? Ayaw ko ng magpaka diyosa and think that I am above those girls. I think he is the one who's screwed up. He has his reasons for sure, but as of now, those are reasons that I couldn't understand. I was so glad to have to guts to end the relationship. I still miss him. But I know I'm making the right decision and that made leaving him easy bearable.

[chengkii]

^ God job, sis illumina.

[alexyze]

Hi TS - hindi ka na po nag update.

oh gaad, sorry. i ve been busy.

i went away that no matter what we do. hindi kami magkikita. i tried to see him again, but due to some situations, di natuloy.. maybe sign na yun ...

i still want to be friends with him. he didnt do me anything wrong. i was happy when i was with him. he told me all his past from the start. he s never ashamed to tell me about the 3 kids. 

salamat po sa inyo.

[chengkii]

^You're welcome, sis
Basta be careful with that guy. Mukhang matinik.

[misao]

my ex has 4 kids. when we saw each other a few years ago, mukhang balak pa kong bigyan ng 5th. no way! tama na yung friends na lang kami. kahit na may times nun na gusto ko syang balikan, inisip ko na lang it's too complicated. tatanda agad ako sa sakit ng ulo, baka iwan din nya ko. at sya? madami pa syang magiging babae coz he's rich, gwapo at bolero. siguro depende rin sa lalake, pero para sa kin, i stay away from these kind of men.

[ysa.belle]

yung bff ko yung live in partner niya 2 kids from 2 different women. kasal siya sa mother nung 1st child niya, tapos after nilang kinasal eh naghiwalay na sila, parang kasal lang ata yung kailangan nung girl. hindi din niya nakasama yung anak niya dun. tapos may gf siya na nagpabuntis naman sa kanya,ang kwento sa akin is sabi nung girl "safe" siya pero fertile pala. ayun, nagkaanak sila pero yung girl nagpakasal sa ibang guy and hindi na rin pinakita yung anak.

wala pa silang anak pero okay naman silang nagsasama. kita ko mahal naman niya yung bff ko. upakan ko kaya pag niloko yun.

[buchi]

ha ha napa-pasok ako sa thread na to. kala ko kuya ko [textspeak!] topic ha ha pero siya naman 3 kids 1 woman - and they are still very much together. nagbago na ang moks.. pero un nga [textspeak!] SIL ko parang wow grabe din sa tiyaga sa kanya ha!! inintindi talga at nambabae pa siya on the side buti walang nabubuntis.. hayy taas kamay ako kay SIL!

sis.. pero i would agree sa mga tao dito. wag nalang. he he iwas na bago pa mas magustuhan mo siya mahirap naman...

[Frozen Toes]

Once upon a time, I was asked out by this uber-gorgeous dude - imagine a mature John Pratts. He was about my age so I was dumbstruck when he told me he had 3 kids with 3 different women. Needless to say, the date never happened. I didn't want to complicate further my already messed up life.

Get out of the situation while you still can.

[dylanxxvii]

i know someone who has 3 kids with 3 different women. when i saw the thread title i thought na baka siya ang pinag uusapan dito!

well i almost dated the guy hanggang binuko siya sa akin ng best friend nya. that was in 2008. i guess hanggang ngayon babaero pa rin siya. pero balita ko hindi pa nadadagdagan ang 3 kids niya.

naku, baka isa sa inyo this guy rin ang tinutukoy sa post! oh no!

i agree with everyone who said huwag na lang lalo na mukhang hindi mo tanggap ang situation nya. ikaw ang mahihirapan.

[alexyze]

^sis, who knows, baka nga cya ang pinag uusapan dito. :-)

[cris c.]

think morethan 10x, pag pumasok ka na sa situation masakit lang kung masasaktan ka.

[andi_mom]

get away from him! now!

[Frankie_G]

Oh dear... I can somehow relate.
I fell in love with a girl who has two kids from her past boyfriend. It was a good thing that she left him because he was abusive.
She was the one who asked me out etc. Until one day, she suddenly showed signs that she doesn't want me to get involved in her life.
I was wrecked because I already fall for her. I still see her from time to time, and I still have that feeling for her. She's really a nice, pretty and smart girl.
Probably my love for her would go away in time. I already said to myself that I am ready to accept her children. But in the end, it is easier said than done.

My best advice dear is to really ask thyself if you are ready for that kind of commitment. Judging from your post, medyo malabo eh.  .
Though in the end, you are the one who will be able to answer that.
Cheers!

[officebusters]

as early as now umiwas kana, kasi for me kung in good terms pa sila ng mother ng mga kids, pwede na ikaw pa ang lumabas na homewreker, so iwas iwas lang sis.

[mariedairy]

Good na hindi matuloy tuloy ang pagkikita niyo. Pero kapag inentertain mo pa siya, maghanda ka na ... sayo ang ika-apat na anak.