he has 3 kids!

[alexyze]

... from 3 different woman,


i really like him, but just cant accept his past.

what should i do?

[lovemeagain30]

^ you just happen to like him and not love him. maybe that is the reason why you cant accept his past. its two different words with different meanings. 

[stacies83221]

^I agree with lovemeagain30. It's not love.

When you can accept his past then you can truly be happy with him. Or else, if you plan in pursuing a relationship with him and knowing for yourself that you just can't bear this thought, then save yourself the agony from all those hurts you'd be getting out of it and let him be and try finding someone else again. I have nothing against single dads, i am dating one too.. but the key point this kind of relationship is the acceptance that he has kids and working your way around it.

Plus you have to consider what kind of person is he... is he impulsive? Is he sweet? does he know his around women? How is he coping that he fathers 3 children? Is he giving support to them? How is his relationship with the mothers? What are the reasons why these past relationships didn't work out?  You can see a person's character through these simple things... Now if these things outweighs the fact that he had 3 kids and you DO see the potential of building a family with him in the future and you truly, deeply believe that he's gonna be a good father to your children... then go sis! but if not, then you know what to do...

[ms_balugz]

kung umpisa pa lang bothered ka na sa situation niya, then don't entertain him anymore habang 'like' mo pa lang siya at hindi ka pa nakakapaginvest ng ganun kalaki na feelings for him.

[alexyze]

i like him, yes.. i know it is not love (yet).

i went away coz i dont want to fall in love...
he make me feel so special.. he cares for the kids.. he's in good terms with the mothers.

:-(

[aquacharly]

Walk away, keep yourself safe... while you still can.
Do not be tempted into false confidence:  that you can straighten him out and be The Last GF.

The issue isn't acceptance of his kids, his past.
The issue is --  can you have an orderly life with this type of guy?

Kasi ALEXYZE   tigers will always have stripes
                       as leopards will always have spots
                       The stripes and spots can darken or fade-- but stripes will be stripes forever; and spots will never become stripes.

Walk away. 

[charlottemarie]

Yikes 3 kids with 3 different women, di ka ba natatakot? Iwas gulo ka na lang and find someone who doesn't have that kind of baggage.

[boaVista]

3kids? ngek! ano yon package deal nya??? wag ka na jan no madami ka pang makikilala na walang sabit.

[kittypowerranger]

^same

[kittypowerranger]

wow talaga ang tindi nun ah

[prettybarbie]

i know someone na katulad ng situation mo. Okay naman sila. As long as okay naman yung guy, responsible, loving and mature. Siguro naman sa tatlong naunang relationship marami na sya natutunan. Pero kung sa palagay mo immature pa din sya just let go. i personally believe na people can change kahit gano pa kasama ang past nila. Actually ikaw lang ang makakasagot kung karapat dapat sya kasi mas kilala mo sya more than anyone else. So goodluck.

[kittypowerranger]

^ siguro may mga situations hindi talaga natin matatakasan like nga ng ganito pero what could we do eh mahal nga natin yung guy acceptance lang siguro yung kelangan mo sis or might as well like most of the sis said here walk away kung hindi mo talaga makaya yung ganyang situation

[chengkii]

Sis alexyze - ikaw ba latest love interest ng brother ko? hehe. Joke.
My brother also has 3 kids with 3 different women.

Advise ko sa iyo...leave. Save yourself. Magaling mambola mga ganyan guys. There's a reason why the previous relationships didn't work...and believe me, he has his share of mistakes that he's not willing to correct.

[binggay]

Naku. Delikado yang ganyan.

Baka sa yo pa manggaling yung 4th kid.

[Romina]

oh my. just like my dad. im the 1st eldest. lol.

yeah, super bolero ng tatay ko. kahit yung pharmacy assistant sa mercury drug dati eh nilalandi nya, porket maganda. nasa pinas kami nun for vacay, bumibili kami ng vicks inhaler kasi sinisipon sya, tapos bumili ba naman ng isang dosenang inhaler, kasi maganda daw yung nag assist sa kanya. nakow! and im right beside him ha. i said "pa, let's go" and pinauna na ako.

back to you, ingat ka sis. even if super babaero ng tatay ko, he never forgets to remind me na men are jerks. meaning aminado sya and tanggap nya.

[Poleng]

NO. unless... you really LOVE him. which means, FULL ACCEPTANCE of his PAST, PRESENT and FUTURE.

ReAssess po.

[kittypowerranger]

^ aww sis ano ba naman yung dad mo haha

[liu_yifei]

guys like this should be avoided at all cost. it just goes to show that he is very irresponsible. and baka mamaya gawin niya din sayo yung ginawa niya with other women.

don't think that with you it will be different because you are different or special. those women were once different and special to him as well. it has become his habit to leave when things get serious or tough. that i s not the guy you want to hang out with.

[chengkii]

Hi TS - hindi ka na po nag update.

[kittypowerranger]

oo nga