Can a single mom ever find true love? What to do? WAIT / DATE?

[kawen]

Mine was an old ex... hehe... I am scared to fall in love again especially with someone new.. and so far wala pa namang nagtry na manligaw...

[m i k m i k]

^^ sa inuman lol. We used to work together sa isang company diff areas but we often see each other pero di kami nagpapansinan. Una kami nagusap dun nga sa inuman ng mga kawork namin.

[Girltalker2]

Mga sis, san niyo nakilala yung mga new found love nyo?

when my marriage broke down, I struggled for years.  I had a hard time accepting to be a "single mom" na wala naman akong ginawang masama nor did I make any decisions in my life na biglaan. Kung baga lahat pinag iisipan ko mabuti, before getting engaged, before marrying, and yet nagkamali parin ako.  So bago ako nakipaghiwalay, ang tagal ko rin pinag isipan. Until finally I got the courage to get out of my marriage. Kaso hindi naging madali sakin declaring na "single" ako. Hindi ako sanay. Pero wala akong choice eh.  Alangan naman maglie ako na hindi ako single.  Until I finally made everyone known I am single and AVAILABLE.  Kaya friends ko and officemates, may ipapakilala lagi sakin.  And I was open to the idea.  So I guess it is just being open, making people known you are single and searching. 

Nameet ko BF ko now pinakilala ng officemate ko.

[vain_mom]

Hi sis! Same din sa akin. Old flame. I am a single mom of 2 boys. This guy was my boyfriend in college for 3yrs then. He got so busy sa school kasi engineering student then even after graduation board exam naman.

I started working na then met a guy sa office na super kabaligtaran nya. In short, I fell out of love kay bf and nagkalabuan. We never had any closure til I got pregnant sa sa officemate/bf for 3 months. Kinasal kami. After 3yrs, naghiwalay din kasi may mistress ang loko. Then, my college ex and I bumped into each other and til now kami pa din ang magkasama.

We live overseas, my kids are with my parents. So far so good. Weve been together  since 2003 less 3yrs sa ex hubby ko. About 8yrs na kami now I got pregnant @ 24.

[kawen]

^wow so kilig naman, hehe.. may something pa rin talaga yung mga old flames.. I hope mine works out, 3rd year college din kame, nagbreak then after 5 years found each other.. yun lang perfect ending na sana kaso he has a lot to work on like his career and life.. kaya right now I am unsure...

[vain_mom]

Hi sis kawen! Just relax, take it slow and things will fall into place Good luck sis!

[frappysabz]

for me .. wait siguro. 

[mariadj]

I like to date again and eventually find true love...hopefully in God's perfect timing, though minsan nakakainip rin

[kawen]

Its been awhile... how's everyone? Hope to keep the thread active again...

[mysterioza_me]

Don't you think when you gave birth ibinigay na ang true love mo sa iyo? For me my true love is my son. He hold my hands when I'm scared, he hugs me when I cry, he makes me feel secure and he tells me he loves me. Enough proof na yun para masabi ko na siya ang true love ko.

Kung darating si Mr Right Guy (if meron man nito), darating siya kahit hindi hanapin. Kung wala ok lang din since may baby na ko.

Instead of asking if you can still find your true love why not ask on how you can/will raise your child  especially that you will be raising him /her without the dad? You don't have to WAIT for your true love baka magmukha kang t**** sa kaaantay pala sa wala. Yes you can DATE anyone you like but please be catious.