Can a single mom ever find true love? What to do? WAIT / DATE?

[theotherjeckay]

^^ I totally agree sis.

My brat pack (i have 4 kids) is my priority.

My mom's family thinks that I should not get married anymore.
My dad's family thinks that I will still get married someday.

Nasa stage ako ngayon where I would prefer quality time with my kiddos. Pero I am still hoping that in God's time, I will have a happy ending with my Prince Charming.

Single mom deserve to be loved. We are just like any other woman. The only difference is that we have a  kid/kids.

[cuteyabby]

^of course we deserved to be loved. pero syempre 1st priority is our kids.

[kawen]

Kamusta girls? Update naman sa inyo..

Wish everyone's okay and happy. mwah!

[suikorayne]

definitely yes...

[sweet.trish]

i cant backread, sobrang bagal ng internet connection ko.

i just wanna share my story mga sis.

i broke up with my son's dad 3 years ako.  since then, i never had a bf. just recently i got involved with a married man. he's all i ever wanted. almost perfect. walang sex, purely emotional. it lasted for 3 to 4 mos, and it stopped early this year. it was so painful, it was so hard for me to move on. but for obvious reasons, i had to let go. sakit! but i knew then it would be more painful kung patatagalin pa. ( till now affected pa rin ako sa presence nya. i cant stay that i have totally moved on.)

then a chickboy from the office courted me. sinagot ko sya agad, super crush ko eh. we kept it a secret at first. but after a few weeks we told our friends na rin. some are happy for us, some are quite doubtful pa rin if our relationship would work.

but i am sure my bf loves me, and my son as well. wala pa naman akong nakikitang pangit na ugali nya. so far petty LQs lang because im so selosa and insecure sa mga old flings nya. ubod kasi ng flirt talaga dati. but now sure ako na ako lang ang babae sa buhay nya. though hindi ko pa makita na magiging "father" nga sa sa anak ko, what's important now is he cares for my son as much as he cares for me.

my bf is so loving and sweet. para talaga kong prinsesa sa kanya. as much as possible hatid-sundo nya ko sa office. and he always finds time for me and my son, no matter how busy he is. sobrang in love din naman ako, pero careful pa din ako. medyo nagho-holdback pa rin.

[kawen]

Thanks for sharing sis.. Glad you found the one for you, I know may fears ka, don't hold back sis kase you wouldn't know if he is the one, its okay to take risks, make 'lil' sacrifices, to love again and be happy.. we really should take chances when the 'right' guy comes. You seem so happy naman with him, enjoy mo lang and let him know your fears, mas maganda kase na open kayo sa isa't isa, kase tayo we need assurance diba, baka kase iwanan tayo, we're scared of the feelings and time we invested in the relationship lalo na pag napamahal na sila satin. Be careful lang, ikaw lang nakakaalam if the guy is worth it, mararamdaman mo yan.

[sweet.trish]

^Thanks for  your advice sis. I'm actually taking the risks Lalo na may history nga sya ng pagiging chickboy, para medyo risky nga. I'm trusting him. Pero nakakatakot masaktan ule di ba. He knows naman, kaya he's making extra effort  to  prove that he really loves me. Soo in love with him ♥

[kawen]

^Good for you sis.. trust in him nalang, so happy for you! Ako nga din sooo inlove, well actually he's my ex years ago.. siguro ngayon tama na ang timing, right love wrong time kase before medyo childish pa ako, he's the one that almost got away.

[shiftingsands]

Share ko lang story ko.

i'm also a single mom, 6yrs old na son ko. on and off relationship namin ng dad ng son ko till i finally called it quits early this year. i dated a few times till i got tired already. sinabi ko sa sarili ko na tama na ayoko na, pagod nako. im done with love. hindi nako mag bf or mag aasawa. hindi nako maghahanap. wala na magpapaka single na lang ako and concentrate on my son and my career. magpapayaman na lang ako, and pag malaki na son ko i'll just spend my time traveling.

i felt good after that. i feel so free, na parang wala nako kinakatakutan, wala ko hinihintay or inaasahan. i feel like i can do whatever i want and i don't care about anything. basta sobrang saya nung time na yun.

till 1 day i got a ym msg from a guy, nagpa add na pala sya sa fb ko and our mutual friend is my best friend. i chatted with him kasi sabi niya friend daw sya ng best friend ko. we would chat everyday for a week. tapos nag meet kame, we clicked right away. first date pa lang i already told him i have a son para kung di niya matanggap wag na kame ulit magkita. nasundan yung first meeting namin ng madami pang dates. a month later sinagot ko sya.

he's 6yrs younger pero mature sya mag isip. minsan ako pa yung parang bata pag nagtatampo or nag tantrums. he wants to meet my son pero ayoko pa.

so don't give up mga mommies. but don't focus on looking for the one. totoo yung kasabihan na kung para sayo darating, ni wala ka kailangan gawin kusa yan mangyayari. basta mahuhulog na lang yan mula sa langit hehe! all you have to do is work on yourself. magpa beauty, take care of your baby and focus on your career. the right guy will come to you at the right time.

[cuteyabby]

^Good for you sis.. trust in him nalang, so happy for you! Ako nga din sooo inlove, well actually he's my ex years ago.. siguro ngayon tama na ang timing, right love wrong time kase before medyo childish pa ako, he's the one that almost got away.

pareho pala [textspeak!] sis. ex ko din sya 2 yrs ago naman. and i don't want to let him go na this time. we're so in love din, parang laging bago ang feeling.

[kawen]

Hello mga sis.. kamusta? Hay... grabe maraming nangyari... how's everyone doing?

[honey-ecclaire]

miss you sis...

[kawen]

 Miss you din sis.. tagal mo na di nagppost dito ah... well something really bad happened.. the father of my son already passed away last July because he got really sick.. nalaman ko nalang sa fb account niya nung August... hay grabe.. you know naman my story diba..

[honey-ecclaire]

really?...how sad naman sis,Condolence sa inyo ni baby...
so you di mo nakita nung wake?...

[kawen]

Hindi ko nakita.. hindi nga ako ininform ng family niya.. ako pa yung nagcontact after a month.. really sad kase I found out on my own. well hope he's okay wherever he is now, sayang lang hindi niya na meet si Kyle..

[honey-ecclaire]

so sad nga..di man lang na-consider si Kyle...
siguro di rin nila alam gagawin nila nun....

[kim_trasher07]

so touching ang story ni sis potatomato. nakakarelate ako.

[stargazer_25]

Hi Proud single mommies ..like me . I'm a newbie here..pwede maki-join?plssss.....
Share ko rin a part of my story..

 I'm 31 and a mother of 4yo girl. ..been separated with her dad one year pa lang. My ex left us for a younger woman...at first, pinaglaban ko pa sya (syempre, ako yata ang legal wife) butwhen he told me that he didn't love me anymore at wala na akong aasahan..sumuko na rin ako. There was one time pa, he threatened me na papatay nya ako when I threatened him that I will sue him and his kabit of concubinage when I learned na may anak na pla sila (imagine,naitago nya sa akin ng 1 year un) because it will ruin his political career . So, being the coward that I am..my daughter and I moved out of our house and went back sa family ko here in Palawan (we were living kc sa province ng ex ko in mindanao..and i dnt have any relatives there..wala akong kakampi ..).
After that madramang paglalayas ,i cut every communication  that i had with him ..from cellphone to social network. He never tried to communicate din nman ..and i know, he will never do it. Now, i currently juggle 3 jobs ..grabe! super stress..kahit na my mom is helping us financially ..nakakahiya din. I started dating na rin when my mom said ok na u can date hehe (super conservative kc family ko). nagka-boyfriend na rin ako ng separated din pero 'di nag-tagal (naging rebound relationship ko)...may nanliligaw..kaya lang feeling ko di pa ako fully recovered sa nangyari kay ex-hubby...
...gosh..end ko muna here..I forgot I have a meeting ng 1:30pm.. ...

join ako,ha...sisses?

Thanks..

[prettylalaine]

@stargazer_25: i'm sorry, sis, pero nakakagalit iyang ex mo ha. hindi ubra sa mga kuya kong maton iyan.

Can a single mom ever find true love? the answer is yes. been a witness to a lot of this. and mind you, karamihan sa mga friends kong ganito mga single guys pa 'yung nakakatuluyan. so go lang, single mommies. i guess just be yourself and be truthful. if love is meant to be, it will come your way.

[slickchick]

question po sa mga sis natin who are single mommies and was able to found true love. ano po ginawa nyo to be able to meet and find your true love? in my opinion, most pinoy guys (most lang naman ah.. i know there are exemptions to the rule) kasi are still conservative and most likely, would prefer single ladies that have no kids (i don't want to use the term "excess baggage", as I never considered my kid an "excess baggage"..). add to the fact, that since most single moms have to work double-time for themselves and their kids' future, kaya minsan napapabayaan ang sarili. thanks in advance po for your replies!