Can a single mom ever find true love? What to do? WAIT / DATE?

[pa_didi]

^ like.. 

kailangan pala beauty pa rin pala ako kahit tanders na hehe..

[chuvaeklavu]

Im thinking tuloy....

How old is old? 28yrs old ba old na?

[ebiko]

^ sis bata pa yan ...  ang old is 60 

[prettyjlo]

WAIT.
Yun cousin ko 13 years old na yun panganay nya nung naging sila nung one of the billionaire here in the Philippines. At the age of 34 niligawan sya sa bank, naging branch manager sya kasi umutang ng malaki si businessman. After 1 year ng panliligaw sinagot na nya. Lahat kaming relatives naambunan ng blessings. Pasyal sa Subic, tagaytay at pinag reunion last Dec. sa five star hotel. Pinagresign na nya sa work si cousin at andun sa Condo na worth 9M. binigyan ng car yun bro nya.Lagi nya kami pinapapasyal sa condo at pinapagamit ng amenities, pool, gym,playroom.
Tahimik lang yun cousin ko at workaholic.

[Pelangi]

sis, 4yrs? parang gurang na ko nun ah 

sis, unconditional love knows no boundaries.  I got married at the age of 26, single mum at age 29, then remarried at age 33. Never too late!

always remember, entertain your inner and outer beauty! investment natin iyan mga sisses.

[kawen]

hello girls, wow dami na updates satin.. hehe! tama yun mag-antay lang tayo darating din yun. pero ngayon, I am still working on my career, love can wait naman siguro, my heart is open to love but I have to build myself first financially and gusto ko may achievement ako.. I actually have 5 years.. hehe.. anyway, go with the flow lang.

[kawen]

Kamusta naman tayo mga single mommies? hehe!

[chuvaeklavu]

well, im taking my time now... pero ayoko naman sana na 30+ na ko bago makapagsuot ng wedding gown... 
di naman ako kasing yaman ng song bird para maintain a n g kagandahan...

sobrang enjoy ko my single life, i realize after those long term relationship, nakakapagod din pala...

Kaya eto ko ngayon palang nagdadalaga... single and happy....

[paulina19]

Hi Kawen...its so funny we have the same experience with our one great love meeting once again via FB ...and when i read the conversation it almost the same..."hinanap kita longtime ago and hindi ka naman nawala sa puso ko" hehe. pareho tayo ng na feel and ako din ang naghanap sa kanya sa FB and that was after 15 years. Nakakakilig nga but the situation is different now..he is married to a nurse na nasa UK now and they are married for 10 years now..in 3 dys time babalik na ult sya dun sa wife  nya. Same scenario nga eh..hindi rin sya happy he is just staying coz ang house where his family is living  is owned by his wife..and he also want me to stay having communication while he is still with his wife...mga lalaki nga naman...so how you get rid of that one stop na ba communiation nyo? ko kasi am trying to avoid paunti unti

[rizza_07]

yan din ang question ko.. will i ever find true love? pero unti unti i get the answer since i still have my family and friends around.. im a mom of two pretty and smart girls, then un father ng kiddos eh hindi na namin nakikita at all and wala na din ako balak na ayusin pa since its too much for me kung magpapaka dakila ako uli.. well ok lang naman ako so far i get to do the things i miss before,i get a job a nice one i may say, friends and my family who are always there for me plus yung two girls ko na super kadooper smart and cute.. my daughters are now my priorities though hindi maalis minsan na mag isip sabi ko na lang kung may darating eh di dumating kung wala ok na ako solve na ako sa 2 girls ko..  no need to be in a hurry.. okay lang tumanggap ng dates para naman ma enjoy ang moment..   

[kawen]

@sis paulina.. hehe funny nga how life has its way of letting things happen.. things have been complicated now, I thought it's going somewhere, well I don't know if I should hold on or let it slip away.. siguro mali pa din ang timing.. sad naman ng situation mo, sayang noh siguro umiwas ka nalang din kase married na siya.. hay let's be happy for them nalang.. darating din ang para satin..in time.

@rizza.. yes I also felt blessed to have my family and friends support me, especially my baby boy who completes my life.. sarap ng feeling noh? for now tama ka let's work hard, have a good career and someday darating din yan let's enjoy what's there.

[slickchick]

my daughters are now my priorities though hindi maalis minsan na mag isip sabi ko na lang kung may darating eh di dumating kung wala ok na ako solve na ako sa 2 girls ko..  no need to be in a hurry.. okay lang tumanggap ng dates para naman ma enjoy ang moment..   

ganito rin ang mindset ko sis! solve na ako sa 4-year old son ko. if someone comes along, then good. pero kung wala talaga, perhaps it's just God's way of sparing me and my son from all the headaches and heartaches. 

[prettyehmjay28]

OO NAMAN!

girls, nagkaanak lang tayo but it doesn't mean na hindi na tayo kasama sa group na pwedeng mainlove at mahalin.

yun lang nga wag magmadali kasi darating at darating yan in time. sa ngayon enjoy your time with your kid/kids diba??

mahalaga may little angels tayo, eh ano ngayon kung walang "romantic" love diba? edi waste your time sa pagpapaganda. ang boys sakit lang sa ulo yan unless makakita ka talaga ng matino.

so go on, move on. madami dyan... ;p

[jpsv72]

actually sis TS - naka relate ako sa story nyo dito, kc i wan once a single mom, yung sa akin naman, naging coward yung father ng baby ko, when i was 5 months old preggy, then his mom wants it to be aborted, na lurkie ang sistah nyo , kaya nakapag isip isip ako na umalis at mag tago, and besides naka dagdag pa yung i don't like my baby to grow up with in their place, nakakatakot , at i don't like him to grow up like his dad  , i accepted my mistakes and run to my parents, nung first syempre galit ang parents ko but in the end when i told them the story about the discussion i had with his mom, ayun nagalit din parents ko but i just asked them to help me to leave our place and hide me in one of our far away relative. So it happened, after 4 yrs. of being a single mom, nagka boyfie ang sis nyo single man that turned into my hubby and we were 14 yrs. now, medyo rocky road but still trying to fix out everything, i can not say na we had a perfect relationship, but i just answered your question if you will find one. YES just try to choose a good, God fearing, respectful and lovable man. Hwag kayo mag madali, darating din sya, God will give you one, be patient.

[Cristal]

Im a single mom too. 8 years nang single mom. Never introduced any guy to my son or my family Parating tago...sometimes id rather be single nalang to avoid complications. Tapos recently the dad called me telling me he wants to go on a trip so us 3 can spend family time together. Eeeewww! How can he say that, after being gone for 8 years! Kainis imbes na matuwa ako.

Parang di na ako makakakita ng true love. im scared of complications and making another mistake. So sad!

[greenpease05]

Cristal, that's okay naman basta wag ka lang mako kumpormiso sa nakakarelasyon mo. Kasi nga parang takot ka pa which is normal lang naman. Time will come that you'll be comfortable with a guy that you really want.

Baka kasi din yung nahanap mong guy eh di pa si Mr. Right.

For your ex nakakaloka siya ha. 

[ysa.belle]

Im thinking tuloy....

How old is old? 28yrs old ba old na?

nope. 28 y/o is still young. ang old is yung 60.

[slickchick]

may sad kwento ako mga sis. i just need your opinion on this.

i attended a family gathering a few weeks back. i was talking to a cousin who's also a single mom like me. while we were talking, we heard a few of the oldies (uncles and grandparents) mentioned our names in their conversation. we heard one of them say "ay naku.. paano pa makakapag-asawa yang si <my cousin> at si <my name>, eh may mga anak na yan sa pagkadalaga..mahihirapan na yang mga yan.. ".. we were hurt with what we heard, especially coming from your own relatives.. i mentioned it to my mom, i told her ayaw ko na muna umattend ng family gatherings. kasi parang mismong kapamilya mo ang discriminated against syo.

nakaka-disappoint how some people can be sooooo narrow-minded. 

[ysa.belle]

ganito kase yan sis. pag nangyari sa mga anak nila ang nangyari sa inyo, gagawa sila ng reason in order to justify what happened sa kids nila. since it happened to you & your cousin & hindi naman nila kayo mga anak kaya medyo minamata nila kayo. ganun naman kahit relatives eh, basta hindi nila anak eh kung ano ano sinasabi nila na negative pag meron pwede ipintas. pero tignan mo man, if nagkaanak sa pagkadalaga ang mga kids ng nagsabi nun, ang sasabihin nila is ganito:

kanit nagkaanak sa pagkadalaga si Toyang eh okay lang kesa naman sa pakasalan niya yung lalaking iyon. May apo na naman ako at masaya ako sa apo ko. hindi namin kailangan ang damuhong iyon"

sure ako dun.

[prettyehmjay28]

may sad kwento ako mga sis. i just need your opinion on this.

i attended a family gathering a few weeks back. i was talking to a cousin who's also a single mom like me. while we were talking, we heard a few of the oldies (uncles and grandparents) mentioned our names in their conversation. we heard one of them say "ay naku.. paano pa makakapag-asawa yang si <my cousin> at si <my name>, eh may mga anak na yan sa pagkadalaga..mahihirapan na yang mga yan.. ".. we were hurt with what we heard, especially coming from your own relatives.. i mentioned it to my mom, i told her ayaw ko na muna umattend ng family gatherings. kasi parang mismong kapamilya mo ang discriminated against syo.

nakaka-disappoint how some people can be sooooo narrow-minded. 

same din tayo sis, minamata ng relatives. since young mom ako. well sis, may mga ganyang tao talaga. we cant blame them, and we cant please everybody. eh ano ngayon kung yun sabihin nila? you don't need them. right?? hindi mo sila ikakayaman at ikatatagumpay. prove them that they're wrong. patunayan mo na kaya mo at hindi ka na magkakamali ulit.

wag mong hayaan ang mga taong tulad nila ang sumira sa iyo. ang importante may anak ka, andyan family mo para suportahan ka. kamag-anak lang sila

si God na bahala sa mga ganung tao. isipin mo na lang matanda na sila, wala ng asim. WAHAHA! ;p *mean*

so cheer up!