getting-to-know stage

[dell]

Hinde mawawala na magkaroon ka ng questions na relevant sa intention mo with that person. Most of the time, we do dating because we long to have somebody(we are social beings blah blah blah = )
Well gusto ko lang malaman kung ano itatanong mo sa kinikilala mong date.


Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

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Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

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Please feel free to add more answers and questions

[luisacart]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

1.) Funny
2.) physically my type
3.) loves dog

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) Are u allergic to dogs?
2.) When did you get out of your past relationship? (Only bec I seem to b a magnet for divorced men)
3.) What are ur interests and hobbies?

[rasee16]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

1.) Good sense of humor
2.) Someone whom I can talk to about anything under the sun
3.) Spontaneous/ Adventurous
4.) preferably someone taller than me

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) Madalas ka ba dito sa place na to? (location of date)
2.) What keeps you busy, san ka work?
3.) Mahilig ka ba maglakad? tara stroll tayo!:)
4.) Bale ilan kayong magkakapatid? ako kasi, solo lang eh..

[spacemonkey]

i like smart boys. love it when a guy knows how to hold a conversation, because i suck at it.

i'd like him to be witty, not just funny.

and confident guys. the ones who border on being too cocky and full of themselves. i kinda like it.


i'd ask about his favorite films --- because yes, i judge people by their choice of films.

i ask about the last book he's read. id be more impressed with the guy if he admits to not reading, rather than ticking of generic writers like... Paolo Coelho. and yes, i judge people by what they read too.

whats his plan for the next year. NEXT YEAR, not in 10 or 5 years --- because i want my guy to constantly be doing something different, and somehow progressing every year.

then i'd ask about his relationship with his family. im a sucker for mommas boys. i like guys who are nice to his parents. i like guys who are extremely close to their dads. somehow, it make him seem more... manlier to me. and i'd like to know if he's an assshole or a sweetheart to his siblings, especially with his sisters.

[luningning]

Here's mine just in case: 

I prefer this type of guy to date:

1.) Mabango / hygienic /nice smile
2.) who doesn't smoke / God fearing / preferably Single 
3.) has a stable job/ same age as mine or older than me ( not the DOM type ha  )

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) when was the last time you had a relationship?
2.) Do you know how to cook?
3.) Fave food /music/movies/ places you wanted to go?

[crazy_krizsa]

For me

1. good sense of humor
2. career oriented but knows when to take a break
3. same age or older upto 5 years
4. loves to eat

my questions for him
1. his family background
2. last relationship, how did it end?
3. career goals
4. things he wants to do.

[lady_butterfly]

Here's mine

1. Good sense of humor (para no dull moments and masayahin din kasi ako)
2. loves to eat (I love to eat din kasi)
3. Cowboy (ayaw ko ng mas maarte pa sa akin LOL)
4. Career oriented
5. someone I can share anything, yung hindi ako mahihiya sabihin lahat sa kanya.

My questions
1. Are you single? Divorsed? (may magnet yata ako sa married men LOL)
2. When was your last relationship and how did it end?
3. Family background
4. What are your interests and hobbies?

[Bubblin]

For me:

1. someone who is mature than me
2. has a stable job or business,or both 
3. passionate about a lot of things
4. has great sense of humor
5. mabango
6. can cook well
7. loves pets,book,movies

My questions:
1. family background
2. principles in life
3. hobbies and interests
4. passions he'd like to pursue

[stacies83221]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

given na we're just starting out and I have no idea what kind of person he is...

1.) Emotionally available
2.) Smart, witty, can keep up an interesting conversation. Communicates his thoughts and perspectives in a well- constructed, non-threatening manner
3.) Well-groomed and mukhang mabango
4.) Has a job and at least, college grad. (Sorry, education is a big deal for me)
5.) You can already sense that he is a fun person and has a good sense of humor.
6.) Has passion for life... a go-getter.
7.) Doesn't smoke and preferably, doesn't drink... or if he drinks alcohol, social drinking will be acceptable.
8.) He must be confident but not overbearing and not full of himself
9.) Doesn't engage in any illegal or hazardous activities
10.) Is God-fearing and has respect for religion/beliefs
11.) Open-minded and adventurous.

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) relationship with his family, particularly his Mom
2.) his short term plans-- about work, personal stuff (leisure, activities, hobbies, school), etc.
3.) views on different topics to get a glimpse of his values and principles in life

[babypowder99]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

given na we're just starting out and I have no idea what kind of person he is...

1.) Emotionally available
2.) Smart, witty, can keep up an interesting conversation. Communicates his thoughts and perspectives in a well- constructed, non-threatening manner
3.) Well-groomed and mukhang mabango
4.) Has a job and at least, college grad. (Sorry, education is a big deal for me)
5.) You can already sense that he is a fun person and has a good sense of humor.
6.) Has passion for life... a go-getter.
7.) Doesn't smoke and preferably, doesn't drink... or if he drinks alcohol, social drinking will be acceptable.
8.) He must be confident but not overbearing and not full of himself
9.) Doesn't engage in any illegal or hazardous activities
10.) Is God-fearing and has respect for religion/beliefs
11.) Open-minded and adventurous.

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) relationship with his family, particularly his Mom
2.) his short term plans-- about work, personal stuff (leisure, activities, hobbies, school), etc.
3.) views on different topics to get a glimpse of his values and principles in life

parehas tayo ganyan din need ko ask and qualification ng guy hanap ko

[onefineapril]

assuming na bago lang kaming magkakilala:

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

1.) good-looking (kasama na dito yung neat tingnan at walang amoy)
2.) may stable job
3.) preferably older than me... kaya lang yung last kong nakadate, di ko akalaing mas bata sa kin ng 4yrs LOL!!!
4.) with sense of humor...

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) anong klaseng family/work/friends meron sya... i mean kahit konting background ng mga 'to
2.) ano ang mga hobbies nya
3.) bakit wala syang gf (given na wala talaga syang gf  )
4.) why did he ask me out for a date? 

[sweetubeng]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

1.) Good looking like neat/mabango/ must be taller than me, maputi
2.) Stable job or business/ both is better
3.) Dapat college grad  education is also important to me.
4.) Godfearing, respectful honest
5.) Non Smoker/ Non Drinker Occasionally pwede na din pero dapat non smoker talaga kasi diko ma take amoy ng yosi
6.) May sense of humor para di boring kausap, cool and hindi mayabang


Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) family background
2.) his interest, hobbies, etc...
3.) his goals and plans for the future
4.) religious, values, priorities and principles in life
5.) his last relationship and how was it.

 

[miss resilient]

when  i was still single, nakikipagdate ako basta maayos naman ang pagkakaaya sa akin. basta ba pakakainin niya ko ng libre..hehe. i did it because i want to meet and know different type of guys.

usually ng mga itinatanong ko eh yung, ano na naging work mo, saan ka nag aral , about family minsan. yung interests niya. thats it.

[sheh-la22]

>  malinis at mabango
> naraming pwede ikwento sakin, di yung ako pa mag iisip ng pag uusapan namin at mag entertain s kanya (maiba naman)
> ayoko naman ng sobrang serious, ok yung mapapatawa ka
> may stable job, college grad
> mabait at gentleman
> prangka, sabihin nya kung gusto or hindi, ayoko ng nanghuhula,marunong mag express ng feelings


> kalimitan inaalam ko, family background nya, hobbies etc
> mga prinsipyo nya sa life
> may pangarap ba sa buhay ang lalaking ito
> mga plans nya
>makikita ko din sa mga kwento nya yung character nya......kung eto ba ay mataas ang ere, plastic.....selfish, puro yabang .etc......

kalimitan sa ugali ako nate turn off kapag pangit ugali

[mooncake and leaves]

I prefer Pinoy na and Catholic. Narrow minded na kung narrow minded pero specific na ako sa religion at race ngayon lol. I like guys who seem clueless a bit. The more smooth he is, the more I'm going to doubt if he's genuine. And gusto ko medyo cute naman. Yung hindi nakakabuwisit tingnan. 

Normally I ask about career, interests. And I ask about family and friends. Like how long he's been friends with them and what kinds of stuff they do. I prefer guys who are close to their fathers. I ask about routine and dating history too.

[mooncake and leaves]

You asked about preferences right and what questions to ask. That's what I discussed. Hindi ko lang linagyan ng numbers.

[akthung]

I prefer Pinoy na and Catholic. Narrow minded na kung narrow minded pero specific na ako sa religion at race ngayon lol. I like guys who seem clueless a bit. The more smooth he is, the more I'm going to doubt if he's genuine. And gusto ko medyo cute naman. Yung hindi nakakabuwisit tingnan. 

Normally I ask about career, interests. And I ask about family and friends. Like how long he's been friends with them and what kinds of stuff they do. I prefer guys who are close to their fathers. I ask about routine and dating history too.

and then, you'll call him in two weeks kung accepted mo na siya?

parang job interview kasi. hehe

joke lang sis.

[hitomigurl]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

1.)  artsy fartsy
2.)  funny
3.)  smart without being mayabang

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.)  wazzup?
2.)  hobbies and interests?
3.)  so san tayo iinom? hahahaha!!!

[Joycy]

Type of person i prefer to date :
1. Older than me (PLEASE) but not more than 5 years. 
2. Taller
3. Cultured
4. Animal-lover
5. Pwede, yong walang criminal record!!!
6. Have good relationship with family
7. Open-minded
8. Kind
9. May integrity and honor
10. Honest

Questions to ask :
1. What are your goals and plans for the future?
2. Who is the closest person in your life?
3. What's your most memorable memory?
4. What's one thing that you can't live without?
5. What's your views regarding death perenalty and euthanasia? 
6. Do you believe that the end justify the means?
7. What's your stand regarding divorce or annulment?
8. Are you a spender or a saver? In a marriage, who do you think should handle the finances? 
9. What's your stand about prenuptial agreement?
10. What hurts you the most?

[young_maiden]

Let's begin with what type of person you prefer to date?

1.) masaya kasama
2.) good listener
3.) maraming masasabi sa mga iba't ibang issues

Now what would be the questions, for your Date to answer?

1.) Ilan kayong magkakapatid?
2.) Ano religion mo?
3.) Ano mga plano mo sa future?