Single Ladies

[t_r_i_s_h]

^single and loving it? hehe

[nixiquita]

^not so much sis. I became single against my will. HAHAHA

[Miss.Pancake]

^magsama sama tayong mga single not by choice. 

[nixiquita]

^naku sis buti ka nga maraming boylet hehe

[Miss.Pancake]

^Naku sis willing na willing akong bitawan silang lahat mahanap ko lang ang one true love ko. Ayoko ng ganito mas gusto ko yun meron talagang exclusivity. 

[nixiquita]

ganyan din ako noon. i gave up the rest, kasi i felt yung contentment and happiness na kahit sa kanya lang.

naku, mali atang pinaguusapan natin to sa singles thread. hehe nakaka'emo

[Miss.Pancake]

^hahaha. nakakaemo namang kasi maging single. hehe.

Ang dami ko nang "ME" time simula ng naging single ako. Nakakabagot na pala talaga pag ganun.

[nixiquita]

at magastos kamo. lately din, dami ko gastos.

[grace.kelly]

Second time ko pa lang mag-post dito at dahil relate na relate ako:

^Naku sis willing na willing akong bitawan silang lahat mahanap ko lang ang one true love ko. Ayoko ng ganito mas gusto ko yun meron talagang exclusivity. 

ganyan din ako noon. i gave up the rest, kasi i felt yung contentment and happiness na kahit sa kanya lang.

 

When i read the posts in this thread, i initially felt some negative aura here. Specially when people post "xx months/years  single", then add "but i'am happy".. i don't know, i felt like i felt some bitterness there.

Bitter agad? Haha chaus! But really, people can be single and happy naman sa buhay, siguro may times na nakakalungot din pero it doesn't mean naman na we're bitter or pessimistic. I think we shouldn't make  relationships define our happiness. Being single is tough especially if people around you always tell you to get a bf like you can just go outside and grab someone and tell them hey you're now my boyfriend!. That's the tough part for me.  probably tougher than being actually single.

[Miss.Pancake]

at magastos kamo. lately din, dami ko gastos.

Nakuuuu! Sinabi mo pa! Apir! Pero okay lang. Wala kasing mapag kuhanan ng ikaliligaya natin. Kaya hayaan mo nang gumastos. hehe. Kikitain mo rin lang naman agad ang pera. Ang pera madaling kausap. Ang pag ibig hindi!

Bitter agad? Haha chaus! But really, people can be single and happy naman sa buhay, siguro may times na nakakalungot din pero it doesn't mean naman na we're bitter or pessimistic. I think we shouldn't make  relationships define our happiness. Being single is tough especially if people around you always tell you to get a bf like you can just go outside and grab someone and tell them hey you're now my boyfriend!. That's the tough part for me.  probably tougher than being actually single.

Ngayon hindi na ko bitter. May stage lang talaga na magiging bitter ka pag naging single ka pero eventually you'll get over it and move on. Ngayon happy naman na ko, nakakabangon na ulit. Ganun tayo e, pag nasagutan nag rerecover by nature. 

[lblackcat]

@nixi - anyare? Natuluyan na?

[Miss.Pancake]

Bakit parang mas sagana pa ko kung kelan single ako. hehe. Weird lang.

[nixiquita]

@black cat: yea, i guess so. has been more than 2wks, and still no sign of reconciliation. Sigh

[Juvilyn5]

Bakit parang mas sagana pa ko kung kelan single ako. hehe. Weird lang.

Same here sis yun nga lang minsan na ffeel ko na lonely ako 

[Miss.Pancake]

^i feel the same way. I still be active and mas maraming options pero i feel soooo empty.

[lblackcat]

^
Wala bang sense of belongingness and yung thought na merong nagmamayari sayo?

[Miss.Pancake]

@lblackcat - oo natumpak mo. Ganun nga yun pakiramdam ko. 

[lblackcat]

^
darating din yan. For the mean time, enjoy ka na lang muna keeping your options open. Ang tanong lang is, ano ba talagang mas gusto mo? Single or taken?

[Miss.Pancake]

^ Hindi naman ako choosy. Pwede sakin both basta type ko. hehe. Single ka din ba?

[lblackcat]

^
Yup single din ako