most painfull expirience that love did to you?

[sugardrop]

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Then you haven't really moved on since you mentioned na nasasaktan ka pa din. Do not entertain thoughts of him. Focus on your partner. If you can't, then be fair with him. It's kinda unfair to him na somehow eh naiisip mo pa din yung ex mo and your past and still feel hurt even though you're with him na.

[winkypops]

paasahin at iwan sa ere

[sexykha]

Loving him completely and yet he cheated multiple times whih i cannot tolerate.

[simang]

To be honest, i couldnt think of the most painful experience i had with love. With my past relationships, yes there were heart aches, but thinking about it now, it wasn't at all bad. Very positive ang outlook ko when it comes to relationships. If there were heartaches, i saw them as life lessons. And true enough, i learned so much.

The relationship i am in now is the healthiest one i've been in, so i guess it works.

[minatay91]

waaa I was going to share mine, pero after reading all these, I felt nga mine was just tiny. We werent even in a relationship, I just grew insanely attached.

Anyways, he left when I refused to give v.card to him. All I thought was maybe he'd leave after he'd get it. So I'd rather be left intact. He stopped communicating with me for a month, then tried again but I was extremely angry and bitter (hindi lang nagpahalata) until I left na talaga because he acted as if nothing happened.

Now,I have a crippling fear of being left after intimacy.. all the more Im not giving it up (:

[azrael]

Mine was trusting someone and not even think of him and his family na ganon pala kasama. I mean they allowed him to have another woman at sa bahay pa nila nag dedate (after shift kasi call center sila pareho). I thought all along puyat lang or something.
Sakit kasi you trusted someone, ginulo niya buhay mo pinaasa ka... then cheater pala. sa may asawa pa kumabit ang walang hiya.
I found out everything there after, his woman stalked me, threatened me, and told me everything i needed to know about them one year na silang nanloloko... sinasama din siya sa trip nila out of town with his family.
Buong family niya nanloko sa akin, and yet they can look at me, and talk to me as if nothing was happening.
i hit him so hard and broke up with him. he transferred to another company para makaiwas sa girl na to (daw) only to find someone there again na napang asawa na niya ngayon... (this girl used to text me pa saying balikan ko na si guy)
Alam mo lang na nagpakatanga ka at buti nalang hindi ko siya pinatawad at binalikan kasi ako na naman magmumukhang kawawa.
Im glad hindi ko siya nakatuluyan, marrying into such family would be a very bad karma. walang values.

[kaiz]

ma verbal and physical abuse

[supergirl01]

Love is perfect, it can never be painful. What's painful is the result of our immaturity and expectations. I guess the most painful that 'significant other' did to me -- is when I realized all the "game" was over and I'm longing to have a "serious relationship" only to find out he's not on the same page as mine. Bigti na friend! 

[redsh0es]

BINUGBOG!!

[sexykha]

there was another woman while we are in a long distance relationship

[snix]

He wanted to break up with me for some other woman he met inh is new work and i practically begged para lang hindi niya ko iwan.. I tried everything to change our relationship.. Eventually ayaw niya na talaga..

I'm okay now since I found new love but disgusted and still cringe at the thought that i begged and pleaded. I learned my lessons

[ravena]

kapag aalis ayaw mag video call parating wala na load agad. sobrang sweet pero i think may mali, may iba .

long distance relationship kami.

[BicuriousGS]

sudden death of someone i love.

[young_maiden]

I fell in love with a guy I cannot have. Ginamit lang ako. Ginawang para-usan. :-(

[cherypop]

Ex 1: ginawa lang akong panakip butas. nalaman ko nalang na nakipag balikan sha sa ex nya days before  bago sha nakipaghiwalay sakin. ( balita ko may baby girl na sila ).

Ex 2.: Feb 13 ( Fri ) I went to his office kasi ang labo nyang kausap,actually di sha nakikipausap na sakin ng ilang araw ata non, wala kaming maayos na relationship, di kami madalas nagkikita. Nung nasa building na ako ng office niya ngtext ako na nasa baba ako ng bldg nila. Ang loko dun bigla ngtext. Ayun nakipagbreak, iniwan ako sa ere. Months after im dating na ulit, ayun nagtext. Sabi ko im ok na.

Happy na ako and God is good talaga.

[Awesomecakes]

My husband cheated on me and I can't seem to bring myself back. There are days that we're happy and there are days that i feel like I lost myself.

[Acetylcholine]

EX1: Abusive siya verbally.


EX2: Iniwan ko siya kahit binigay niya sa akin ang lahat. His family doesn't like me, tapos nawala na lang ako na parang bula. Mas masakit ang mang iwan compare sa ikaw iniwan.

EX3: Mas nauna pa nalaman ng kapit bahay namin na wala na kami. Noong time na para mag-usap ng personal pumunta ako sa unit niya nakangiti siya na parang wala lang. Then sabi niya wala na talaga tapos na kami. Gutom ako that time hindi niya ako inaya mag breakfast yun pala ang bagong girlfriend niya darating nagka abutan kami. Pinakilala na parang wala lang. "She's my new girlfriend." Umiiyak ako pag alis ng unit niya gutom na gutom, pero wala nakatulala lang ako sa kawalan kung hindi pa ako sinundo ng mga friends ko hindi ko alam mangyayari sa akin.

[TomHansen]

Yung ex ko dati nagtatamang hinala sa akin sa fb na baka raw nakikipagusap ako sa ibang babae etc kaya para matapos lang at di pa magescalate yung hinala niya i closed my account.. 3 months later may nagsabi na lang sakin na wala na yung bestfriend ko nung college, her family/husband was trying to find me on fb pero di nila ako mahanap. Naospital pa siya ng mga time na yun at kung nalaman ko ng mas maaga sana nakavisit at nakapagspend ng time kasama siya..

[ana mimi]

My ex (the-one-that-got-away) and I got back together after 3 years of being separated, he said that he already broke up with his current gf. 4 months passed by and he told me that his ex was 5 months pregnant and was about to give birth in July of last year. He wanted to be with me but I wanted him to take care of his ex and kid. If ever his mind changes after his ex gave birth, we can be back together if he still wants me.

I blocked him on all social media platforms kase we plan to meet and talk again after 2 years. Sadyang stalker lang ako so after a year, nag stalk ako sa account niya and I found out that his ex gave birth October last year - which means kami na nung may nangyari sa kanya diba?

Tapos ngayon nakalagay pa sa profile niya na nag Married status sila sa FB just after 2 months nung nagbreak kami kuno.

Just felt like he used me for sex during those months we got back together.

[traxxex21]

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