pano malaman if that guy is true enough para sagutin ?

[ms.gemini]

What is the reason?

[aquacharly]

What do you mean "what is the reason? "  For what? 
Sorry, siguro my lunch was not yummy enough, hindi ko ma gets your query in relation to your thread topioc:  PANO MALAMAN if that guy IS TRUE ENOUGH para sagutin....

Pano malaman a guy is TRUE ENOUGH?
Of course, you don't just sagot any Tom, Dick and Harry.  May background kayo, may history kayo -- kahit papano.
It is normal not to just concentrate on the stars in front of your eyes, but to also try to see if the stars are floating, hanging or anchored in the sky di ba?
Meaning, normal lang a woman gets curious about where this beloved is coming from, ano ba talaga ang buhay nito???


Now, the difference lies in that... some women do not look that hard, or do not want to look that hard.  Nasasa kanya na yon.


So to answer:  pano malaman? 
It all boils down to the lady herself at the end.  Kasi, kahit na it is her mother and her whole barangay lined up saying: no! no! no!  that guy is bad news for you... basta type nya to incorporate that guy into her life (kahit na ni pisong duling wala, kahit na may ibang GF/wife.. kahit na druggie or pusher, kahit ano) -- basta gusto, ayon sasagutin di ba?

Now, if you are looking for concrete markers or guideposts on how to find out if he is "true"  (I think it is either "True" or "Not True" kasi malabo naman kung papayag sa medyo, kinda, siguro True.  This is your life! di ba?)
                            A good indicator is his use of time.
                            Dyan mo makikita how orderly he manages his life.  Dyan mo din makikita kung there are blocks of time you cannot contact him or he keeps out of reach... eh tignan mo maigue por que sya nawawala???

[ms.gemini]

sis thanks...yup kasi may times na malau sia.and yet dont know kung totoo ba [textspeak!] sinasavi nia

[menice]

give time. prove to yourself na sakto siya sa hinahanap mo.. wag yung banat lang ng banat. hehe isa pa may kanya kanya tayong standards. pasok na ba sa standards mo? edi go na.

[ms.gemini]

mahirap pa kalkulahin kung ano ba talaga [textspeak!] nararamdaman ko para sa kanya

[aquacharly]

Ms G -- you aren't sure what his intentions are, neither are you sure of how much you want him into your heart... so, let it be.

Take it a day at a time,  live in the moment, ika nga
Do not project or go into relationship trending... coz if you fling yourself into Great Expectations,  baka ma Big Let Down ka.

Live in the moment, and learn more about each other.  That is the basic issue of courtship. 
IF you do not end up as a romantic couple, you will be at the very least, friends.  Some men are not okay as BF material, but sure make good BFFs.

[ms.gemini]

thanks mga sis:)

[orangerain]

According to my Theology professor, when two people are in the courtship stage, they both put their best foot forward. Thing is, when we do this, we withhold who we truly are. I guess if you want to see the truth about the other person, you will have to show your true self as well. Kung moody ka, ipakita mo sa kanya. Kung maarte ka, go lang. Pag nagstay yung person, then he really has a thing for you.

[ms.gemini]

Hi Ms. Orangerain,

Thank you for the advice that you've given to me,and to all the sisters na nag reply.Now i Know d lang pala ako ang gurl ni binibigyan nia ng special na attention.I hate all of the man in the world

[West_Iceman]

This is easy. I'm a guy. Sagutin mo na, then if he shows his true colors that you think you really don't like and will make your life miserable, cut him. Dating and courting are just "best foot forwards" and kinda superficial. my 2 cents.

[ms.gemini]

  he did not deserve my tears..........

[babypowder99]

eto din gusto ko malaman kasi minsan mga guys dimo alam kung serious ba or lolokohin ka lang super unpredictable nila hirap intindihin mga lalaki guys speak up ano ba signs if interested kayo sa girl na nililigawan nyo kindly share so magkaroon kami ng idea

[menice]

^ courting hindi na dapat uso to. kase pag nanligaw ka puro good side lang papakita mo. pag kayo na saka lang lalabas tunay na kulay mahogany nyang balat. hehe so para sakin invalid yung tanong na to. unless nagsimula kayo bilang friends as in matagal. hehe

[yujin]

sagutin mo agad. dun mo lang makikita yung kung sino siya talaga.
i admit almost of the guys dont show their real color when courting

[xxpetitexx]

^
disagree ako sayo bro. syempre kailangan din ng girl na manigurado. sa case mo siguro in short period of time sinsagot ka, di mo rin siguro na try na pahirapan ka ng girl sa panliligaw.
di masisisi ng guy kung di pa siya sinasagot ng girl. gaya ng sinabi mo most of the guys dont show their real colors, yun ang delikado, kala ng girl malaanghel ang guy, pero kalaunan pangit pala ng ugali.

para saken, get to know better muna. hirap kasi baka tumambling nanaman, hirap magmove-on..

[kittypowerranger]

^ agree din ako sayo sis

[quiksilver_19]

^ i agree din sis....for me get to know the guy muna, if during the courtship period may nakita ka na mga di mo like or di pasok sa standards mo pero tolerable naman pwede din sagutin then see if he'll change if he doesn't he's not worth the chance that you've given him

[bolitas]

Ipaharap mo parati sa parents mo at isama mo parati na andon din sila..

at pag kayo [textspeak!] try mo e compare style nya..

[anir]

actually no guy is bad when courting...

coz they show all the best in them...

so malalaman mo lang talaga if true yong lalaki if kayo na... but don't worry, coz doesn't mean na kayo na you'll be together forever... if it doesn't work... you could still change your mind and broke up with the guy... so ang pagpasok sa relationship is a risk... and also a discovery of the real person in your BF/GF...

but i'm not implying na sagot ka lang ng sagot... syempre trust your instinct din... after all ikaw lang ang nakakaalam ng taong best para sa yo...

Good luck

[bravo86]

talk about marriage. talk about having a dozen kids. if he flinches, get out.