Author Topic: Would you fall for someone younger? (Read 66138 times)

isabella · « **Reply #120 on:** December 11, 2010, 11:19:44 pm »

i used to like, date older men. pag younger na sakin, wala na akong interest. feeling ko alagain sila. eh ngayon, im getting older na so wala na akong karapatang mamili, puro younger men naman available at nagpapa-cute sakin. masubukan nga. mukhang ok naman sila.

arianaleigh · « **Reply #121 on:** February 18, 2011, 04:59:13 pm »

It never crossed my mind that I would fall for a younger man... BUT I did. I've been through relationships before, but never as good as this

rics · « **Reply #122 on:** February 19, 2011, 04:15:32 am »

My hubby is four years younger than me. Age is not really much of a problem, though there was a stage in the relationship where i thought he was a bit slow to pick up on the emotional level, or probably also that im quite way ahead in terms of maturiy in most aspects. now, ok naman. he is very responsible family man, kaya naman nya handle my moods. though pansin ko, he doesnt seem to age, while me, since we live abroad and life here is different from the kind of life i got used to when we were back home in the phils., medyo kunsumido, i somehow neglected myself so medyo mukhang haggard. i should keep-up with his looks baka mapagkamaln na ate nya ako.

but in all, i dont mind falling for younger men. at this point in my married life, there is actually someone i met in my distant past that i re-acquinted with again through social networking, he is way younger, and he is somehow hinting he is still interested in me, grabe mag flirt. im flattered, but i have to tell him im happily married.

muahmuahmuah · « **Reply #123 on:** February 21, 2011, 10:32:16 am »

i'm a bit of an ageist and i have certain qualities in check. what's important for me is to not lose respect for the guy i'm with but then if it's a good match and he's someone who wants to go that extra mile with me age won't matter..i'm all in.

ShoesAndTravel · « **Reply #124 on:** February 21, 2011, 12:29:24 pm »

Wow. Well I'm dating someone right now and he's 3 years younger than me. he's only 21 and I'm 24, turning 25 on July. We're okay naman. Except for the fact na yeah minsan alagain nga sya. But he's not childish or anything. But I'm sorry pero minsan naiisip ko I want to get out of this situation. Because mahirap nga talaga. Kasi by the time na I want to settle down na, 24 palang sya. Sobrang hirap actually. We're happy naman and all pero when I'm alone na, naiisip ko yung mga ganyang things. Hay. We're dating palang naman.

angeleigh · « **Reply #125 on:** February 21, 2011, 12:38:09 pm »

By bf is 4 years younger than me. Yeah, minsan may pagkachildish, but I enjoy hanging out with him. And madalas, mas mature pa siya magisip kesa sa akin. Lalo kapag may misunderstanding kami.

Dati ayaw ko rin sa younger, kasi feeling ko desperado effect. Pero mukhang okay naman. Let's see.

iCleverClogs · « **Reply #126 on:** February 21, 2011, 02:15:43 pm »

ito ang pinakaayaw kong mangyari. before na-link ako sa guy na 5 years younger than me... malapit na siyang bumalik sa place namin. ewan ko kung may spark pa sa aming dalawa pero ayokong maging bf siya.. tingnan ko lang kung hanggang saan ang pride ko..

rics · « **Reply #127 on:** February 23, 2011, 03:14:52 am »

Before, one of my beef about this issue was the reaciton of his family. His oldest brother is the same age as me, so in a way, i was thinking then that his family might have this negative reaction. pero, later i found out that his mom, my MIL now, is 3 or 4 years older than my F-I-L. joke ko tuloy maybe it runs in hubbys family.

iCleverClogs · « **Reply #128 on:** February 23, 2011, 09:07:24 am »

di ko yata kaya to...

okay lang sana if 3 years and below... kahit pagbalik baliktarin ko man ang sitwasyon, ang awkward iisipin... siya pa naman yung tipong smart, gwapo, edukado at maginoo, religious pa... $:-\$

miss resilient · « **Reply #129 on:** March 01, 2011, 11:02:15 am »

why not...kung karapatdapat naman sha..

bergal · « **Reply #130 on:** March 01, 2011, 02:04:27 pm »

i did, he was 3 years younger. while we were happy at first, masyado syang immature at we didnt want the same things. siguro pag around 27 na ang guy at 30 ang babae, ok na kasi the guy should be mature enough by then to handle a serious, caring relationship. pero ang ex ko, masyado pang narcissistic.

biikq · « **Reply #131 on:** March 02, 2011, 09:43:38 pm »

maybe. anyway, age doesn't matter.

jpsv72 · « **Reply #132 on:** March 03, 2011, 12:16:04 am »

ayaw ko diko pinangarap, ako ang mag aaruga sa kanya? no way...
kahit pa sabihin na mature na sila lalabas at lalabsa ang pagiging immature nila at female are more mature than males kaya mahirap.

raven03 · « **Reply #133 on:** March 03, 2011, 01:03:40 am »

Hindi mo din ba naiisip that he might get jealous that guys your age, more mature and stable than him can snag you too? If you start thinking that your partner is better than you, it normally breeds insecurity and nagkaka-trust issue, it's all downhill from there.

Maybe your age is even one of the characteristics na gusto niya sa'yo at 28 maybe he sees your confidence oozing out, guys normally equate confidence to sexiness (especially if the guy is not shallow) and its one of the things he finds irresistible about you, tapos ikaw you are letting it go.

chaichikay · « **Reply #134 on:** March 03, 2011, 04:41:13 pm »

hay pramis di na talaga. fallen in love with younger guys twice. disaster. di na ako uulit. mas okay talaga if older ang guy kaysa girl, say 3-5 years older (ideal). just my two cents

ShoesAndTravel · « **Reply #135 on:** March 04, 2011, 11:21:01 am »

@ chaichikay -- why disaster? Need to know.. ano details and kwento about your experiences? I'm currently dating a younger guy kasi. He's 3 years younger and I'm really confused. He's 21 and I'm 24. Turning 25 on July... the problem is, by the time na i want to settle down na, 24 or 25 palang sya non. I'm happy with him but when I'm alone, dun sakin nagsisink in lahat! Hay.

lilmissprettydiva · « **Reply #136 on:** March 04, 2011, 12:56:34 pm »

I agree with chaikikay... disaster sya in the making!

i mean they are immature and selfish pa especially if bago palang makikipag relasyon... hayyyy fault ko rin kasi dahil nagpadala ako pero grabe ang sakit nya sa ulo. Di marunong mag handle ng situation at sobrang walang sariling decision.

Ito pa makulit... I'm 2 years older than him, ayaw ng tita nya sakin kasi daw baka the guy see me as his mother figure! For God's sake!!! kaya ayun maigi wag nalang.

chuvaeklavu · « **Reply #137 on:** March 04, 2011, 06:07:58 pm »

Quote from: chaichikay on March 03, 2011, 04:41:13 pm

hay pramis di na talaga. fallen in love with younger guys twice. disaster. di na ako uulit. mas okay talaga if older ang guy kaysa girl, say 3-5 years older (ideal). just my two cents

I agree with you sister...masarap ang nagaalaga ng bf pero if sobra naman pamper nagiging dependent na yung guy...

How i wish mainlove ako sa mas matamda naman sakin...
sakit sa ulo talaga yang mga binatilyong yan.. tee hee!...

tska isa pa mas madali taya nagmamature sa guy talaga.. kaya lalo tayo nagaadvance ng pagiisip pag dumating tayo sa point na we want to settle down na...

pinkberries · « **Reply #138 on:** March 17, 2011, 02:03:44 am »

no, for so many reasons.

graceria07 · « **Reply #139 on:** March 17, 2011, 11:15:58 am »

hes 33 and im 35 -we are happy... wala sa age yan .. nasa maturity ng isang tao at nasa ugali

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