Reasons for breakup

[brandi]

^paano mo nasabi na he's too good for you?

[eilegna]

never cheated, family man - good brother, good son, spiritually connected to God..
For five years never niya akong sinaktan emotionally, physically.. never akong umiyak
ideal husband to be sana.. basta whatever trait na gugustuhin for a man, nasa kanya..

I have cheated on him twice..
1st, instead na magalit or awayin ako.. hinug nya ako, sabay sabing "I love you" and forget everything.
2nd, nabuntis ako ng ibang lalake.. nagpropose siya na akuin yung bata..
   Di ko kaya.. di ako pumayag.. and yun tuluyan na kaming naghiwalay..

He's too good and I'm so stupid 

minsan lang makatagpo ng ganyang guy.. based on this thread..

[Pink_Sugar]

^omg. :-( sana dimo na pinakawalan sis at bumawi ka na lang sa kanya na maging mabuti ka na sa kanya.

[brandi]

^ay grabe, oo nga. If you're meant to be naman magiging kayo pa din talaga. *hugs*

[Frozen Toes]

^^^ Napakahirap maghanap ng ganyan. Sad naman.

We don't love people for their merits but we don't un-love them either for being overqualified.

I think you deserve to be loved the way he loved you. Don't put yourself down because nagkamali ka. Pwede pa namang bumawi.

[brandi]

^maybe she wasn't able to look at the brighter side kasi she felt that she has too many shortcomings na. Pero eilegna you were so lucky to have him

[eilegna]

Yes.. I'm so blessed and thankful..
I'm afraid of hurting him all over again and he deserves a better one.
sobra ko na siyang nasaktan..

Anyway, got my karma already...

[brandi]

^sis alam ko OT na tayo but how are you guys today? Did you marry someone else?

[lovely_carrot]

The usual suspects in my case: jealousy nya sa ex ko (who's the father of my daughter), insecurity nya sa buhay, doesn't want to open up, nung nagshare na ng feelings, its too late na to do anything about it. We lasted for 5.5 years ng puro ganito. mabuti rin at natapos na

[eilegna]

No communication...

He's now in a relationship..
Mukha naman siyang happy kaya ok na din...
ang dami ko nga lang what ifs and if only...

I'm with the father of my daughter...
Kung happy ako... safe to say yes..

lessons learned..

[brandi]

^you're each other's the one that got away i bet. Everything happens for a reason. God bless u both!

[Frozen Toes]

He cannot forgive.

[chai88]

I dont wanna elaborate the reasons for breakup with my past relationships prior to my most 3 recent relationships...  Parang masyadong marami e... lol

Anyways...

With the father of my 4 year old child
* Napagod sa kakadrive. Ewan ko ba, walang sariling disposisyon sa buhay. Nagiisang lalake sa magkakapatid pero parang napakahina at walang kadrive drive sa buhay. Siguro dahil sa lumaki at sanay sa buhay mayaman, pero hindi rin e... Mabait, oo. Pero aanhin ko naman ang bait kung wala namang plano sa future. Nakakapagod mag drive. Yung tipong parang de-remote. Hindi kikilos at didiskarte ng sarili without my final say. I'm like, ano ba?! Wala ka bang sariling utak?

With the guy I hooked up with after i broke up with the father of my child
* Sobrang gulo namin at first. Actually, siya ang magulo. We just lasted for 3 months, I guess. Ewan ko ba dun, maya maya nagiiniate ng break up. Natatakot daw siya saken kasi baka daw saktan at iwan ko lang daw siya. Kasi daw sa personality and looks ko possible daw na iwan ko daw siya sa ere. Well, we're able to pass that on-and-off stage of our relationship... Papunta na kami sa mas malalim na stage. Na lessen na yang mga ganung drama niya. Masarap siyang maging boyfie. And sweet niya at napaka thoughful. Kaso noong nag start na ulit ako mag work (BPO), doon na ako nawalan ng gana sa kanya. Well, let's just say, na turned off ako sa kanya. Kasi ba naman, he's living in Cainta tapos I was staying at Las Pinas that time, tapos ang work ko is Buendia. Wala naman talagang kaso doon kaso, ang problema since kaka start ko lang ulit sa work, under training palang ako, I have to hit the goal for me to be endorsed sa production. That time sobrang pressured ako. With my current situation sa bahay (that I dont wanna elaborate) and sa trabaho. Kailangan na kailangan ko talaga maendorse sa floor. Kainitan ng pressure ko when he ask me to meet him which I said okay. after shift I met him at Shaw. Okay naman, kaso kinagalit ko yung he asked me na mag CI for 3 hours. Me, I was like seryoso ka??!! Like hello, may pasok pa ako noon kinagabihan (graveyard shift) not to mention Las Pinas pa uwi ko noon. Nainis ako, ending nagaway lang kami. Well, hindi niya ako maintindihan... Ayun, nawalan ako ng gana... Tuluyan na akong nakipaghiwalay.

With the man I am with now...
*Ewan ko... Napapagod na ako. ang dami nang sakit. Parang sa 2 years namin, mas marami pa yata ang pait kaysa sa tamis. Ito actually ang current dilemma ko. Kaso hindi ganun kadaling kumawala. Masyadong maraming dapat iconsider though i feel like its no longer healthy to be with this man. I am emotionally, verbally and physically abused. Believe me, kung kayo nasa sitwasyon ko, maloloka rin kayo. For now, I don't wanna elaborate more on this kasi para akong sabaw. Okay naman ako. Strong naman ako e. Maayos pa ang state of mind ko...  Hindi ko lang feel na mag open masyado about my current situation, ewan, parang... alam niyo ba yung pakiramdam na sa sobrang dami mong iniisip para ayaw mo nang magisip?   

[psyche29]

Third party. Was dating another woman he met thru ym. 6 years rin tumagal.

Honestly, super bait sya and was super loyal. But i was too immature. Dominante and controlling. Hindi ko sya sinisi. The breakup was a turning point in my life. Kaya siguro naka get over ako in one month kasi i know na he was not happy anymore. decision nya yun. Did not take it against him.

[riasalvacion]

cheating is the first  reason of breakup!

[cassey14]

Gusto nya daw magisip. So binigay ko yung space and time na gusto nya. No third party involve or what. Siguro pag matagal na talaga kayo sa relationship dumadating talaga sa point na makoconfuse ka sa feelings mo. Sad. Lasted 4 years. Medyo mahirap magmove on ah. Pero I know kaya ko to.

[hedonista]

First and last ko si hubby but there were breakups in between

1st break up - 2010 - nasakal daw sa sobrang selosa ko turned out may pinormahan iba - DALAWA pa
2nd break up - 2011 - buntis ako; - isa sa girls na pinormahan nya in 2010 break up

Buti nasa ibang bansa na yan babaeng yan muntik sinira buhay ko haha buti di ako nakunan noon. lol

itinapon ko na grudge ko pero pag nakasalubong ko sya sa mall or anywhere if she will be in Pinas, I am not sure what to do hahaha

[princessyuri]

1st bf: reserved soldier kasi siya and noong nagkagiyera sa afghanistan ang tagal namin nawalan ng communication.. hindi naman siya nakapagpaalam sa akin whatsoever na ganoon ang nangyari so akala ko lang basta nawala na lang.. noong bumalik siya may bf na akong iba and saka lang niya inexplain sa akin bakit siya nawala

2nd bf: di naman kami nagbreak, namatay nga lang siya

3rd bf: 7 years na relationship namin when I decided na tapusin na lang. Parang wala naman siyang plan na magpamilya eh nagsisitandaan na kami.

4th bf/hubby: family niya

[falls_mc141]

^Third party. nagpakasal sa iba habang naghihintay ako sa pagbabalik niya. nalaman ko nalang sa kapatid niya.

[Red Rack 21]

Third party...
Found a new girl...
He's hurting me..as in physically...

good riddance yan gurl...

with me we were too young then. i was 18 he was 20. i was still immature and he still wanted to play the field...  the vanishing ang peg nya and i was left hanging so wala kaming closure. 25 yrs after i got a friend request from him last month in fb. haha it's pay back time i kept him hanging hindi ko kino confirm ang request nya. and besides what for?... we have each others lives to live now.