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GD

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #220 on: February 18, 2013, 09:07:15 am »
With my recent ex.

1. Walang plano sa buhay. I mean, hindi naghahanap ng trabaho. Nawalan kasi siya ng trabaho tapos hindi ko man lang siya makitaan ng interest na maghanap ng bagong trabaho.
It's a major turn-off for me.

2. Lack of communication. Ni bihira na siyang magtext. Tapos parang wala pang planong makipagkita saken. He's too happy spending his time with his so called "tropa" na nakakalimutan na niya ako bigyan ng time niya.

3. He's not  supportive with what I want. Nandun pa yung pagtatawanan ako at sasabihing maghanap nalang ako ng iba kong makakasama.

4. Ang dami niyang dahilan hindi man lang gumawa ng paraan.

NiceAcey

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #221 on: February 18, 2013, 09:58:37 pm »
Reason is:

Di ako pinayagang mag work sa ibang bansa, (hala baket susuportahan mo pangangailangan ko?). mag break na lang tayo!  :P

rastagurl11

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #222 on: February 18, 2013, 10:12:32 pm »
We don't share the same values and principles.

unwantedP

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #223 on: February 18, 2013, 11:52:01 pm »
different expectations from each other (diff meaning of love)
too much fighting.

babymeow04

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #224 on: February 20, 2013, 05:52:52 pm »
ginayuma :|

pinkberries

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #225 on: February 23, 2013, 03:18:58 pm »
Lost of Trust 
Womanizer --- sobra!  pati mga kaibigan ko, niligawan!  >:(

praise164

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #226 on: February 24, 2013, 05:29:09 am »
We are our now in a cooling off period... I have lots of reasons why I should break up with him but the only thing that holds be back is becuase I love him so much. After 4 years, I realized, the reason why I am unhappy, and depressed even though I tried na everything is because he cannot provide me my emotional needs. I told him about it. Walang initiative.. Puro sya reactive ... kaya tuloy mukha akong laging may favor at sya lang ang mag oo or hindi. I need him to meet me in the middle but I guess iba tlaga ang love language namin. I know he loves me but he shows it in a way na I can't see it as his affection towards me. Right now,  I let him think muna, I told him my concerns. If he will meet halfway, we are good, but if he is not that kind of man for me, at naisip nya yun, I'm just waiting for him to say "give up."

watergirl

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #227 on: March 04, 2013, 11:46:54 am »
We both didn't want LDR so goodbyes :)

we're both going to different countries, sayang opportuniting magexplore hehe. Still it was heartbreaking. We lasted 2yrs 2mos

ozttiksi

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #228 on: March 25, 2013, 12:21:04 pm »
Sobrang kasinungalingan at kaplastikan nya :( Di na kinaya ng pag-iintindi ko.

Inabuso nya kabaitan at love ko sa kanya to the point na after ko malaman nambabae sya, I gave him another chance pero ganun pa rin.

Kaya kahit I'm having a baby na sya ang ama.. Nakipagbreak pa din ako :)

And I strongly believe its the best decision I made :)


angelzero

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #229 on: March 25, 2013, 01:42:42 pm »
nasungkit ng malandi :p

babymeow04

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #230 on: March 25, 2013, 04:59:00 pm »
daig ng maharot ang maganda hahahaha

Filipinasadhart

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #231 on: March 29, 2013, 01:55:06 am »
Manloloko
Paasa
Babaero
Boring
Walang pangarap
Tamad
Gusto Nya ayoko, gusto ko ayaw Nya.
Womanizer
Too much fighting

Chinito

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #232 on: March 29, 2013, 05:09:50 am »
To sum it up..

Lost of love..

kasi lahat ng mga nabanggit sa taas will be disregarded or will not happen at all  kapag strong ang LOVE sa bawa't isa.. :D

brandi

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #233 on: March 29, 2013, 09:08:31 am »
^bro, kahit gaano mo kamahal ang isang tao dumadating ang point na mapapagod ka na lang kahit gusto mo pa magpakatanga kakamahal sa taong yun.kaya nga dapat nagmmeet half way. hindi pwedeng isa lang ang umiintindi at yung isa ang laging kailangan intindihin na lang. Ako mahal na mahal ko yung ex ko. Matagal na kami at matagal na din may problema pero i kept on holding on.mahal ko kasi. pero dumating yung time na iniisip ko eto ba ang lalakeng pakikisamahan at makakasama ko habang buhay?nokn lang ako nagisip para sa sarili ko. hindi ko kayang kumuha ng batong ipupukpok sa ulo ko. tama na yung bapakaraming taon kakaaasa ko na magiging ok pa din kami kahit madami siyang hindi magandang ugali. sana naggets mo.  :D

and love isn't lost. it just fades kapag hindi napapahalagahan.

heaven_charm

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #234 on: March 29, 2013, 03:14:16 pm »
i initiate the breakup as soon as I realize that I dont have a future with a guy. In other words, maghihirap lang ako pag siya nakatuluyan ko

Chinito

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #235 on: March 29, 2013, 04:37:53 pm »
^bro, kahit gaano mo kamahal ang isang tao dumadating ang point na mapapagod ka na lang kahit gusto mo pa magpakatanga kakamahal sa taong yun.kaya nga dapat nagmmeet half way. hindi pwedeng isa lang ang umiintindi at yung isa ang laging kailangan intindihin na lang. Ako mahal na mahal ko yung ex ko. Matagal na kami at matagal na din may problema pero i kept on holding on.mahal ko kasi. pero dumating yung time na iniisip ko eto ba ang lalakeng pakikisamahan at makakasama ko habang buhay?nokn lang ako nagisip para sa sarili ko. hindi ko kayang kumuha ng batong ipupukpok sa ulo ko. tama na yung bapakaraming taon kakaaasa ko na magiging ok pa din kami kahit madami siyang hindi magandang ugali. sana naggets mo.  :D

and love isn't lost. it just fades kapag hindi napapahalagahan.


^ Sis, my apology if i confuse you.. IMO kase is this. i said "STRONG" & "LOVE".  ang ibig kong sabihin  kaya nag be break up ang isang couple ay sa kadahilanan  sa mga nabanggit sa thread na to.
pero ang base ng lahat ng yon is the absence of "LOVE".  love has it's own level kaya ko nabanggit na "STRONG". pede naman na may trust ka pa sa tao, may respect etc. but without LOVE itself walang mangyayari. pero kapag may LOVE ka pa sa partner mo, kahit gaano pa siya ka walang hiya, ka baho, ka pangit, ka walang kwenta; you will always make excuses for yourself na gusto mo pa din siya. Despite of all the bad sides on him you will always choose to love the person right? kaya nga may tinatawag na martyr's because they always follow their heart over mind.
Ngayon sa isang banda, sabi mo dumating na yung time na naka pag isip ka na.. nagising, namulat, napagod, nagsawa or kung ano pa. This is the time that your mind is stepping over your heart.
Kung dati LOVE na love mo siya at ang tingin mo sa kanya ay siya si Brad Pitt,  ngayon hindi na.:)
Kase yung nararamdaman mo towards him is  hindi na pure love kung dati 100% ngayon 50% na lang. baket? kase napasukan na yan ng FEAR, ANGER, HATRED and you felt disappointed sa course ng relationship niyo. trust is gone, no more kilig moments, boredom , hopelessness , no assurance etc etc.
these are the factors that will surely weakens the  level of love in a relationship...
Now my point is, Everyone. Literally "Everyone" has their own threshold when it comes to love.   darating at darating talaga yung time na mapapagod ang puso mo magmahal sa taong hindi nagbibigay sayo ng joy and satisfaction.  so, ibig sabihin mahal mo siya dati ng 100% and it goes down to 10% saan napunta yung 90%?  sa sarili mo. ngayon pag dumating yun time na yon siyempre ayaw mo na mag stay sa relasyon. kase bakit pa? e mas matimbang na yung 90% siyempre doon ka ngayon mag fo focus. tama ba? hanggang dumating yung point na 0% na or -0% yung Love mo sa partner mo ang maiiwan na lang maybe "Awa" , "memories" , "lessons". :D

Kapag nakakapag isip ka pa ng matino over a battle between your Heart and Brain ibig sabihin may participation pa ang utak mo over your heart and that's what i called a partial love, When your Love is strong! damn. Kahit addict sa shabu at halimaw yang BF /GF mo. sarado ang utak mo at bulag ang mga mata mo sa katotohanan... still you wouldn't choose to let him/her go because you were trapped in the game called LOVE.  :)


I agree that love fades and sooner will be gone completely.. so ibig sabihin nawawala ang Love..
Hindi ako naniniwala na hiniwalayan ka ng partner mo dahil lang sa sinungaling ka, tamad, walang trabaho etc etc. This is all a lie... hiniwalayan ka dahil LOVE is not that STRONG or Love is completely gone. no other excuses.  ;D

Love should always be a satisfaction not a contentment else, it will fail.  :-X


« Last Edit: March 29, 2013, 04:40:26 pm by Chinito »

Mrs.T

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #236 on: March 31, 2013, 12:28:33 pm »
because of my immaturity, emotional and sensitive.. haaay.. napagod na siguro siya intindhin ako :'(

Chinito

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #237 on: March 31, 2013, 01:05:29 pm »
because of my immaturity, emotional and sensitive.. haaay.. napagod na siguro siya intindhin ako :'(


possible!  ;D

ozttiksi

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #238 on: March 31, 2013, 09:52:03 pm »

eto nangyari sa akin. napagod na ako. dumating na sa puntong di ko na kaya. ilang beses ko ng inintindi. tinanggap ko mga pagkakamali nya pero ganun pa rin :( mahal ko pa rin hanggang ngayon sa totoo lang.


pero parang hindi sya worth it. so focus na lang ako sa magiging baby namin :D


makakamove on din. tiwala lang :)
« Last Edit: April 01, 2013, 11:55:13 am by mama squeak! »

carla27

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #239 on: April 02, 2013, 01:05:55 am »
i ended my 6yrs 3 mos relationship because i caught my bf added this girl again na naging cause ng break up namin 2 yrs ago. For him mababaw daw because he added lang naman daw, but what I cannot accept is the fact na he add her kahit alam niyang pagaawayin namin. Actually its his last chance na but he doesnt change. I also felt that our relationship is stagnant , nakaasa lang sya sa business parents niya and what he prioritize are his friends basketball barkada. Sometimes feeling ko na outgrow ko na sya esp when I work here abroad, nag iba priorities ko , siya the same padin. Now its the 3rd day since I broke up with him Im so hurt I have no one to cry on since Im living independently whenever  naiiyak ako super bigat nararamdaman ko I just pray and talk to God to give me strenght. I know I can surpass this trials. I dint want to be tied forever to someone na puro lies and lagi ako sinasaktan. I felt nasayang ang 6years ko with him. I hope God will make my scars heal faster :(

Another thing now I dont feel any anger . Even pag trashtalk sakanya wala. Ewan ko ba maybe dumating na sa point of acceptance na kahit ano gawin ko di ko sya mababago and ayoko nadin magaalita anything against him since may pinagsamahan din naman kami. I just want to move on with my life and kayanin tangapin na tapos na. i just hope and pray to God na he has better man for me. I want a God fearing man.
« Last Edit: April 03, 2013, 07:46:20 pm by carla27 »

 

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