POV: 1st girlfriend OR nth girlfriend?

[snix]

i am my boyfriend's second, he's my first.. wala ako issue sa ex niya and happy dahil natuto sa kanya si bf kaya mas maingat sa relasyon namin..

he's had several wild flings thiug which he used to pick up fom the club.. eto yung kinabbwisitan ko

[jtansanco]

Well, I'm a guy and I prefer my first to be my last.

[angelzero]

i prefer nagka gf(s) na sya. para hindi na sya trial-and-error.

basta wala syang cheating history, he's fine.

[patchi2012]

i'm his 3rd or 4th ata and he's my 2nd. but we both admit that we're each others 1st love, we've been to a different relationship coz we're searching for that love that we've been longing to and we both found it in each other's arms.

for me it doesn't matter if di ako yung nauna, basta ako yung huli and i'm carrying his surname. wala na sigurong mas sasaya pa thinking na sa dinami dami ng na gf ng isang guy, ay eto sya, reciting his vows in front of you and to God.

my parents are 1st nila ang isa't isa, they married young and they're married 32yrs na.

[blackgreen]

Yun bf ko ngayun 1st gf niya ako. May takot ako na baka gusto pa niya mag-try ng iba. Hehe..
Pero sana ako na ang first and last.

To answer TS question, wala sa number yun. Nasa inyong 2 na kung paano niyo papatakbuhin yun relationship.

[det060403]

Sa dati ko, we were each others first! Ayun, awa ni God, break na kami! LOL! I prefer to be the "last"

[bliss15]

I prefer being the 1st. 

In fact yun reason why I tried so hard to make my first relationship work and it took me 5 years to realize that we're incompatible talaga.   But, I guess the break up opened my mind na okay na rin kahit hindi ako first kasi ganun rin siya.  Hindi ko na first if ever.

[devilish_einjel]

yung 1st bf ko pang 4th na niya ako kaya alam na talaga niya pano mag handle ng relationship at sanay na siya sa mga moody na babae..  kumbaga alam na niya ang kiliti.. pero wala din nag break din kami.. haha

yung next boyfriend ko 1st niya ako.. kaya hindi niya alam pano ihandle, kapag nagtatampo ako hindi niya alam paano maglalambing.. clueless talaga siya, kasi pag hindi na ako umiimik hayaan lang din niya ako.. tapos parang habang tumatagal bored na ako sa relationship namin.. kaya ayun awa din ng dyos 4 months lang kami.. haha..

right now im currently single.. gusto ko yung next boyfriend ko hopefully siya na din magiging husband ko.. it doesn't matter na kung 1st niya ako basta importante ako ang last..

[jamila_19]

2nd girlfriend

[jaymejorrol]

When I was single, I didn't care whether I was No. 1 or No. 1thou.  Basta kelangan ako lang, kelangan ako ang last.

i love your message here kaso baliktad tayo, gf ko ang maraming naging bf, ako naman sya yung 1st gf ko. I'm hoping na ako na yung last nya. and syempre sana sya na din yung last ko.

ito na yun eh. ano silbi nung number 1 at 2 kung sa huli hindi parin naman ikaw yung last na karelationship nya?

[Awesomecakes]

For me, it doesn't matter as long as my boyfriend is mature enough to handle our relationship. He knows how to love and respect a woman, that would be fine with me.

[jaymejorrol]

^ agree.. love, respect and appreciation lang kelangan para tumagal ang isang relationship.. no matter kung pang-ilan ka pa sa naging gf nya.. the feeling of contentment ba..

[heaven_charm]

im his 10th gf pero okay lang naman kasi super okay kame. his family is very welcoming kasi ako palang yung girl na pinakilala sa kanila ni bf. so i guess ok nadin yun.his family is medyo upright kaya alam nila na serious na talaga si bf sa pagsettle down someday

[emilyenchanted]

im his first and hopefully last c: pero i agree, it does not really matter. what's important is the commitment that both parties make para mg.work ang relationship.

[sassymyangel]

For me, it doesn't matter if pang ilan kang girlfriend, what matters most is that ikaw ang pinakamahal nya.

[jaymejorrol]

^ true!

[roxy14]

i'm his second now. 3 years ago pa yung last girlfriend nya okay lang naman kahit ano. yung ex ko ako kasi yung first nya, ayun hindi nya alam na ganito ganyan pala dapat. naka 4 years kami nun.

[Len0523]

For me, it doesn't matter if pang ilan kang girlfriend, what matters most is that ikaw ang pinakamahal nya.

Paano ka makakasiguro na ikaw ang pinakamahal nya? Basis ba na ikaw ay present partner?
Kase ako di talaga ako naniniwala na kung sinong present sya yung pinakamahal o minahal.
Pwedeng mas mahal nya yun ex nya, pero hindi lang talaga naging happy ending sila.
Or pwedeng iniwan sya. (may pinaghuhugutan lang. hehe)

[ayami]

technically second nya ko pero he said na hindi daw serious yung first nya-- 13 years old lang kasi siya non. personally kilala ko yung girl. batchmate namin nung high school e. Well, I was his last na kasi di na kami nagsplit since 4th year HS. happy na ko dun knowing na mukhang short MU lang talaga sila nung kabatch namin. married na kami so last na nga ako. happy na hehe

di ko ata keri kung pang 3rd onwards na ko tas seryoso masyado yung previous relationships, baka ma-feel ko na di ko kayang tapatan yung first love etc or panakip butas lang ako haha.

[Len0523]

di ko ata keri kung pang 3rd onwards na ko tas seryoso masyado yung previous relationships, baka ma-feel ko na di ko kayang tapatan yung first love etc or panakip butas lang ako haha.

Naku sis, pinagdadaanan ko yan. Actually di naman mahirap higitan o pantayan kase alam ko lang
marunong ako at masipag sa gawaing bahay. Yung kaya kung alagaan yun partner ko.
Pero yung mga tao sa paligid di maiiwasan na magkaron ng comparison, like
mas maganda yun ex, sabi nung mas maganda ako. Diba magccause lang ng insecurity tapos kelangan mo pa patunayan na higit ka dun sa ex.
Kaso pag mahal mo na, itatanong mo pa ba kung pang ilan ba ako? dba hindi na?