POV: 1st girlfriend OR nth girlfriend?

[newatdislyf]

it's not really a personal issue but my friend brought it up a few years ago...

would you rather be in a relationship with a guy who:

1) never had a girlfriend before and you're his first girlfriend? OR

2) a guy who had some girlfriends before (assuming REASONABLE ang reason for breakup nila and not cheating, etc) and who is also serious about you?

[sweety_paige]

Kahit sino basta mahal ako =)

[newatdislyf]

ako mas gusto kong nagka-ibang girlfriend na siya before so he'd know the do's and don'ts of being in a relationship.

i know girls who want to be the first girlfriend ever since they get to teach their guys stuff pa.

[aquacharly]

When I was single, I didn't care whether I was No. 1 or No. 1thou.  Basta kelangan ako lang, kelangan ako ang last.

Pero, ako mismo then, hindi ko sinisunod yang requirements ko.  I double-crossed 2 of my BFs (as in, uhhh btw, hindi na pala ikaw BF ko... pinalitan na kita as of last week...)

Am I proud of such immaturity?  Nope, yon nga nagawa ko, so immature... learn and grow. 

[mooncake and leaves]

i'm scared of guys who never had girlfriends eh so i have to go with number 2.

[Ragi_mace]

it doesn't matter as long as ako lang and ako din ang last... 

[cherub.rock]

doesn't matter as long as we're compatible and he's LOYAL and faithful to me.

bf ko now, i'm his first serious GF, though i believe he had a fling before. and honestly? he handles our relationship better than my ex-bf. with my ex-bf, i was his second, but i never felt as special as the way my current bf treats me.

[miss_sissy]

I would go with No. 2 kasi siya di eh di magiging 1st para sakin, para lang fair

Pero di naman talaga issue un sakin, basta mahal ako, honest, loyal at faithful sakin.. Kahit ako pa ang pang 1M na GF nya or 1 na keri lang 

[meowculture]

Sure, okay lang na may "some girlfriends before" basta wag super dami. Like double digits? I think kung hindi naman serious yung relationship, hindi binibilang as ex. So if he says that he has had 23 girlfriends before, yung dating sa akin nagyayabang siya eh. Ex fling =/= Ex girlfriend.

I'm the first (and hopefully last!) of my current boyfriend and we've been together for almost four years. Yes, I had to teach him some things pero he's almost perfect, attitude wise. He's really caring and I can sense he loves me more than I know.

Fine, I'll say it. First ako ng lahat ng ex ko and ng mga naging ka-MU ko, lalo na nung high school. Haha, weeeird.

[newatdislyf]

i remember one of my friends complaining since siya [textspeak!] first girlfriend ng current boyfriend niya, wala man lang daw concept of giving flowers and walking her home [textspeak!] guy! the guy made her walk to her place at 11pm because he was going to play a pc game pa daw! ang reasoning ng friend ko kasi wala daw girl figure [textspeak!] guy before so wala daw nagturo how to actually act like a boyfriend. na-sad ako kasi halos 7 years na sila tapos gusto ng mag-giveup ng friend ko on the relationship because of this issue.

[frankikay]

maybe number  2. hindi naman talaga issue sa akin kung ikailang gf na niya ako, basta ang importante sincere siya sa akin and he knows how to handle the relationship.

[Joycy]

It doesnt matter kung sino as long as mahal ko. But to be honest din, im a thinking person now when it's about my relationships. I confess na importante for me to know the guy's past before ko siya sasagutin. If it's just a normal (like we all have) past, then walang problem.  Now if his past includes drugs, fraternities, physical violence, cheating.... naku!!! Huwag na.

I love myself more. 

[luisacart]

at this stage of my dating life, i'd rather be with someone who have been in relationships. because that way marami na syang natutunan about himself. what he needs/wants in a relationship. para mag work sa amin.

[sun_spiced]

it doesn't matter for me as long as we both have the same understanding of the kind of relationship we want to be in 

[krisle703]

dati gusto ko first ako kasi selosa ako.. pero yung hubby ko pang nth gf na ako so okay na lang sakin.. mas feel ko maganda ako kasi sa lahat ako lang ang super minahal.. 

[bleudskymd]

i'm the nth girlfriend (& his ONLY girlfriend at present. haha!).

did it matter to me? no. if i was the 1st gf, mas magtataka ako bakit ngayon lang sya nagkaroon ng girlfriend. was he uber choosy or picky or torpe?

anyway, POV ko lang naman.

[isobel]

ideally, i would have wanted to be his first everything, because he is mine. but i think he needed the training wheels before he was ready for me plus, i get to tease him about his ex and hear him insist that i wasn't only his first crush, but his first love, which i will never believe but which is still fun to hear 

[clueless_girl]

well as for me it doesnt matter as long as mahal ko at mahal din ako.

yung current bf ko ngaun 1st gf niya ako and yes tama nga yung ibang sis natin dito na yung mga lalaking hindi pa nagkakagf dont know how to be a bf and how to treat a gf. 1-1 1/2 years din namin naging issue to ni bf in fairness to him aminado naman siya sa mga pagkukulang niya pero ngayon sanay na siya. nakapagadjust na siya. 

[loveavenue]

Ideally, if i coulf control fate...i want to be the FIRST and LAST at the same time...in short...the ONLY ONE in his life.

Yung tita ko, first and last nila isa't isa.  Ang sweet!  They've been married for 10 years now, and until now, para silang mag-bf-gf lang, sa sweetness.  Perfect match talaga!  At ang advantage daw ng first-last love according to them both...wala kayong issues with the EX (na pwedeng pag-selosan, ika-insecure, kahati si puso, kasi diba yung iba, they still leave a small part of their ex in their hearts). 
First nila isa't isa. First kiss...first holding hands, etc.
And they are both virgins when they married.  So, first sex sila din.  No one to compare with, when it comes to bed.  Pareho sila ng LEVEL OF INNOCENCE.

I admire that couple. 

Share ko lang.

[loveavenue]

Ideally, if i coulf control fate...i want to be the FIRST and LAST at the same time...in short...the ONLY ONE in his life.

Yung tita ko, first and last nila isa't isa.  Ang sweet!  They've been married for 10 years now, and until now, para silang mag-bf-gf lang, sa sweetness.  Perfect match talaga!  At ang advantage daw ng first-last love according to them both...wala kayong issues with the EX (na pwedeng pag-selosan, ika-insecure, kahati si puso, kasi diba yung iba, they still leave a small part of their ex in their hearts). 
First nila isa't isa. First kiss...first holding hands, etc.
And they are both virgins when they married.  So, first sex sila din.  No one to compare with, when it comes to bed.  Pareho sila ng LEVEL OF INNOCENCE.

I admire that couple. 

Share ko lang.

let me add pala dun sa na-share ko.  sabi ng tita ko, isa pang advantage ng First and LAst love, mas tumitindi and depth and intensity of love ng couple kasi sa isang person lang ang attention at experience ng heart mo.  the concept of ONLY ONE / ONLY YOU is given true justice. ang ganda.