are u really over your ex?

[dumpee.o13]

tama ka, billion liked :=) 

^ thanks, sis! *wink*

[carmilina]

im back, ako kasi ngyn binabalikan ng ex bf ko, tinitimbang ko pa feelings ko, kasi sobrang sakit un ginawa nya sa akin, babawi daw sya, we'll see... dahil dpt bumawi sya ng bongga bonnga

[HoldingOn]

paano ba talaga malalaman if you're over your ex?

[pret_ty68]

^
Pag wala nang kirot sis. Yung kahit makarinig ka nang news tungkol sa kanya wala nang epekto saiyo. Di ka na apektado kahit anong gawin nya sa buhay nya. Pag nakita mo sya uli wala nang kaba parang dating kakilala na lang.

[Gabrielle Andre]

I am soooo over my ex(we were 'together' for 2.5years). We recently broke up.

BUT I am NOT over his utang! Kung mababasa niya man to " Hoi kumag magbayad ka ng utang mo!!!!!"

[Foodict]

I'm over being in the old relationship. I don't really know where I am in our present entanglement.

[rhapzdee]

hi im new to femalenetwork.one of my friends referred this site to me so i can seek advice from supportive females. me and my bf broke up last saturday morning.it was a really bad break up.he ended up breaking all the things i've invested on.yes nagwala siya.he's always been doing that every time he gets mad.before he used to beat me up.even if he's really mean, i've always always found a way to forgive him because im not the type of person who bears grudges against other people.even if eversince we started,ako lang may work and siya sa casino lang dumidiskarte but i never complained.i tried to help him find a joib. now he walked out of my life.he's gone and im alone in this place with no relatives nearby.my family is in cagyan de oro city.right now i want to look for him.i want him back but i don't know if that's the right thing to do. im on the verge of wanting to look for him in every casino he goes to. should i look for him?should i ask him to come back?what should i do?

[mishyewarians]

nope.and i guess i never will

[dumpee.o13]

hi im new to femalenetwork.one of my friends referred this site to me so i can seek advice from supportive females. me and my bf broke up last saturday morning.it was a really bad break up.he ended up breaking all the things i've invested on.yes nagwala siya.he's always been doing that every time he gets mad.before he used to beat me up.even if he's really mean, i've always always found a way to forgive him because im not the type of person who bears grudges against other people.even if eversince we started,ako lang may work and siya sa casino lang dumidiskarte but i never complained.i tried to help him find a joib. now he walked out of my life.he's gone and im alone in this place with no relatives nearby.my family is in cagyan de oro city.right now i want to look for him.i want him back but i don't know if that's the right thing to do. im on the verge of wanting to look for him in every casino he goes to. should i look for him?should i ask him to come back?what should i do?

^ sis, if you think he's worth it then do it. but you should know when to stop. goodluck!

[Dacian]

yes.  actually ako na yung naiinis sa kanya when he calls me.  married na ako nun and sya naman may gf.  kaya i didn't answer his calls na.  hanggang sa nagstop na sya, finally na gets nya na din.  now, we don't have any communication kahit sa fb.

[dumpee.o13]

nope.and i guess i never will

^ aww! same here sis..

[bangs29]

1st ex: after  5 years, tinatawanan ko nalang siya nagyon pero nuon marinig ko lang name niya naiiyak na ako lol.
2nd ex: oo. ewan kasi talagang wala na, ubos na yun love nun nagbreak kami (nasakal ako sakaniya, pano ayaw ako bigyan ng time sa mga friends ko)
3rd ex: over na over na talaga ako dun sa hayop na user na yun. kumukulot bangs ko pag naaalala ko siya, tulad ngayon. lols.

[jeninajenina]

i'm not really sure if i am okay,

I mean, Oo wala na i stop trying to reach him, i stopped being this pathetic girl whose always up for the chase, I stopped bargaining, I stopped everything there is need to be stopped for i to get over it...

pero kagabi naparami ako sa tequila, i started crying kasama ko mga guy friends ko, and i always say that I really made the right decision, and still saying that giving my virginity to him was a waste.

ewan ko kung ok ba ko, o nagpupumilit lang maging ok. Pero sana ok na lang talaga ako kasi alam ko na wala na rin naman talagang pupuntahan ang efforts ko, and tama na, i've fought a good fight.

[dheive]

 paano mo ba masasabi kung over ka na sa ex mo? hahha.. ako hindi ko alam... i cry less na or should i say halos hindi na... i dont call / text him anymore.... kaso pag may memories akong naaalala parang kinukurot yung heart ko na ang sakit talaga..... and hindi ko talaga hanggang ngayon mapatawad yung barkada nya na naging way para magkahiwalay kami.. until now i still hate that girl like i did a year ago... my instincts kept on telling me before na she's upto no good but ex kept on telling na she's kind and good and all.... pero ang ending tama ang hunches ko..... hahahhaa
 i dont know if i can forgive her.. but as of this writing i know i definitely can't

[rhapzdee]

i guess i was never over him the last time he left even if he destroyed most of my things. when he came back, everything was fine but he gets angry more often for no reason at all. i endured those times.then i started getting to know someone else better and that guy always made me smile. when my ex found out, well it turned out really nasty to the point that i have to report him to the authorities. now i live in a hell hole.every time i go to sleep there's always this fear of my ex coming back and barge into my house.it felt like he drained out all the life in me.
so i guess before you wish someone to come back to your life, think it over and over.not only the good times you both shared but also the struggles you've been through being with him

[dumpee.o13]

i cry less na or should i say halos hindi na... i dont call / text him anymore.... kaso pag may memories akong naaalala parang kinukurot yung heart ko na ang sakit talaga.....

^ same here, sis.. feeling ko naman, we're almost there na. ako, i'm almost back to my old routine ang good thing yung mga di ko nagagawa dati nung kami pa e nagagawa ko na ngayon. in time sis, it will happen. goodluck saten!

[Filipinasadhart]

I don't know, I cant sleep bigla ko sya naalala yun    memories namin dalawa. Kaya ko to!

[dheive]

@ dumpee oo girl kaya natin itey! Hindi naman sya oxygen para ikamatay ko pagkawala nya lol

[zieaja]

i don't know if naniniwala kayo sa fate mga sis, ako lagi ko pa din tinatanong kay god na bakit napapanaginipan ko pa sya, kung bakit may mga oras na naalala ko pa siya, hindi kasi third party reason nang broke up namin, ayaw nang family niya sa akin kasi siguro mahirap lang kami. well thats life! minsan iniisip ko one day kaya pag ngkita kami what will be happen kasi until now kahit may asawa na ako di ko pa din siya nakakalimutan. 1 year later nang broke up namin nakikipagbalikan na siya, kaso sa time na yun may gf na siya at may bf na din ako. kaya talagang malabo na babalikan ko siya noon.grabe yung nangyari sa amin whole family side namin involve, everytime na nakikita ako nang father ko at sister ko na umiiyak napapaiyak din sila kaya sila yung nagbibigay lakas sa akin para mag move on. nagyon pinagdadasal ko nalang na sana nga hindi kami kasi ayaw ko saktan hubby ko. mabait siya kaya niya gawin lahat para sa akin lahat nang family members and relatives ko gustong gusto siya. siguro naka get over na ako sa pain because i already moving on my new journey in life. pero in my heart andito pa din siya, kaya unfair talaga.

[phoebe1811]

yeah  oo naman. 
coz whenever i think of him napapasmile nalang ako. no hatred (hatred talaga?!).
at hindi na masakit sa dibdib hahaha