are u really over your ex?

[ettevyvi]

^^ hayyy! ang hirap neto sobrang namimiss ko na sya.. T_T

sis kaya mo yan. isipin mo, ano ba talaga ang nami2ss mo? sya o ang relasyon na akala mo eh perfect? the companionship? minsan we get confused with things na akala natin sila namimiss natin pero hindi pala.

i do miss him because i thought he's nice and all that. but every time i think about why he's not good enough for me, especially he cheated on me, i told myself why should i? instead of exhausting my energies to think about the guy who cheated on me, i use that energy to think about me.

bigla bigla namimiss ko pa rin sya at nalulungkot ako. bakit ganun?!

syempre sis, kasi minahal natin yung tao. we all get that occasional "what if" and "i miss" him moments. the key thing though is not to dwell on it and tell yourself that no one will loves us because someone really would. its just a 360 change of perspective.

[jashy]

tama ba ang desisyon ko? we broke up dahil wala ng passion ang 8yrs relationship namin. were very magkasundo naman, were like bestfriend.

[Foodict]

^jashy

Thats very similar to my situation.  She said she doesn't feel romance or passion with me anymore and she looks at me like a bestfriend and a brother.

I hope you have a less messy process than we did.

[pinkberries]

Yes. Definitely!    Thank God! 

I think God gives us chances to weigh things.  Ex contacted me again and wanted to start anew, but I've come to my senses and realize that I don't deserve to be treated that way.   So all his efforts mean nothing to me now.  That's how I got convinced that I'm over him. 

[ettevyvi]

hi dumpee
try to read ITS CALLED A BREAK UP BECAUSE ITS BROKEN by Greg Behrendt

if you really want to move on its a good read.
they recommend not to see or talk to your ex within 60 days.

Its a very empowering book.

SUPER!

Binasa ko to nung kami pa nung ex ko. That was 4 years ago... unbelievably, I used it. Hahaha! Grabe 3 months ago, everytime na gigisng ako yan agad hawak ko. Kaso hirap na humanap nyan sa national or bookstores eh.

[Serena.]

YES. Lalo na kung someone better came along.

[beevere]

Akala ko dati naka-move on na ko, pero ngayon hindi pa pala. Naiisip ko pa rin siya araw-araw. Minsan nagde-daydream ako na makasalubong ko siya. Pero kung babalik siya, parang di ko na rin naman siya tatanggapin ulit. Gusto ko lang magsisi siya sa ginawa niya.

[angelee]

I think I am over him (ex-hubby) already. Hindi ko na siya naiisip everyday. Hindi na din ako nasasaktan pag naiisip ko na kasama nya yung ipinalit nya sa akin.i Dati maloka loka ako ng wala siya sa tabi ko but now hindi na. Kaya ko na balikan lahat ng painful past namin without crying . He's like  a brother to me already. Kaya ko na siya makita ng walang malisya. lolz.

[ettevyvi]

^ i want to feel that soon, too! To feel indifferent towards him. Congrats! Im getting there!

[annd]

no, im not yet over him. i dont know if i can ever move on, but i hope someday, the pain will lessen. i thank god everyday for waking me up because it means that i still have a purpose.

[queendi]

my friend forwarded me this in an e-mail way back 2006. she said, sakto daw sa akin. i have already forgotten it.
and now, 6 years later, kung kelan saktong sakto talaga, timing naman na na open ko ulit...


It's official then. I will never get over you. Ever.
Contributed by ironangel (Edited by alteredbeast)   
Sunday, April 23, 2006 @ 12:00:11 AM
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I had no intention of reading your profile once again. The last time I did, it hurt so much it drove me to theorize on the art of letting go. I was confident while typing away my sentiments into an essay that ultimately revealed my eagerness to forget you. I had no other choice. Getting over you became an obsession. But I realized now, five minutes after I unwittingly opened your profile that getting over someone could never be a matter of choice. How I have managed to author that letting go theory is beyond me. We can’t choose to forget someone. Time does that for us.

Obviously, time hasn’t decided for me yet. Hurt, every time I hear something about you and her, isn’t exactly new anymore. I have tried countless times to cover it up in letting go theories, or I-don’t-love-you-anymore songs and yet, reality still bites. The toughest thing about it is that the sting lingers long after the wound has supposedly healed.

I thought seven years were enough. Seven years of no significant communication. Why is it that every time I hear something from you –anything, I get this insane feeling of sadness as if everything else in the universe is useless because I don’t have you? Why is it that my heart could not break away from you when everything else has? Why is it that I feel as if time has no intention of giving me my due? I want to forget you. I NEED to forget you. And I cannot wait forever for that.

I will not make this into another essay about finally letting go. This will not be about me getting over you and putting to rest all feelings I have harbored for the longest time. This will not be about sweet lies, but of bitter truths. I was never over you yet. Plain and simple. The hurt I felt moments ago was nothing new because it never really left me. It’s still there painful as ever.

It’s official then. I will never get over you. Ever.

[Foodict]

I will never get over the only person in my life who meant more to me than the whole world. Im hoping and praying we will get back again together soon.

[dumpee.o13]

sis kaya mo yan. isipin mo, ano ba talaga ang nami2ss mo? sya o ang relasyon na akala mo eh perfect? the companionship? minsan we get confused with things na akala natin sila namimiss natin pero hindi pala.

^ sis, i agree with you. minsan di ko talaga alam kung sya ba yung namimiss ko, yung gestures nya or yung moments nameng dalawa. minsan naiisip ko din na baka namimiss ko lang yung feeling nang may someone special yung feeling na may bf ulet. nakaka-confuse talaga. hehe! ayun, right now dina-divert ko nalang sa iba yung attention ko. di na muna ako makikipagcommunicate sakanya. mahirap pero i have to help myself. and i know kaya ko to. thanks pala sa pagsuggest ng book, sis. i'll try to look for that. meron bang e-book nun or pdf file? hehe' i'll download it nalang kase sana, just like nung Why Men Love Bitches. hehe' helpful din saken yun, in fairness. thanks sis!

[ettevyvi]

^^ sis, i agree with you. minsan di ko talaga alam kung sya ba yung namimiss ko, yung gestures nya or yung moments nameng dalawa. minsan naiisip ko din na baka namimiss ko lang yung feeling nang may someone special yung feeling na may bf ulet. nakaka-confuse talaga. hehe! ayun, right now dina-divert ko nalang sa iba yung attention ko. di na muna ako makikipagcommunicate sakanya. mahirap pero i have to help myself. and i know kaya ko to. thanks pala sa pagsuggest ng book, sis. i'll try to look for that. meron bang e-book nun or pdf file? hehe' i'll download it nalang kase sana, just like nung Why Men Love Bitches. hehe' helpful din saken yun, in fairness. thanks sis!

pareho tayo ngayon.. i'm still sort of in a limbo. alam ko na na i'm not the girl anymore pero still the longing is there. pero nirarationalize ko ang sarili ko... dahil alam kong i don't want to take back a cheater. it's against my rule in life.

may ebook version kaso you have to buy online. try mo pa din maghanap sa bookstores. swerte lang talaga at nakakita ako. sabi ko na nga ba magagamit ko din yung book pagdating ng araw eh.

[angel.of.mine]

hay nako! kahit mag 4 years na kameng hiwalay at may boyfriend na ako siya paren naiisip ko bago ako matulog, his smile, yung mga jokes niya, lambingan waaaa lahat lahat sakanya naiisip ko at namimiss ko  ang drama namin parang ONE MORE CHANCE na movie ni bea at JL, kaya kame nag break kase na fall ako sa ibang guy and choose to leave him na kahit may baby pa kame. pero ngayon juskoooo kung pwede ko lang ibalik lahat lahat ginawa ko na! ay ewan ang labo 

[chinkywinky]

Yes! Totally! I can't imagine myself to be with him forever, that's miserable! 

[dumpee.o13]

pareho tayo ngayon.. i'm still sort of in a limbo. alam ko na na i'm not the girl anymore pero still the longing is there. pero nirarationalize ko ang sarili ko... dahil alam kong i don't want to take back a cheater. it's against my rule in life.

may ebook version kaso you have to buy online. try mo pa din maghanap sa bookstores. swerte lang talaga at nakakita ako. sabi ko na nga ba magagamit ko din yung book pagdating ng araw eh.

^ hayyy! ako naman sis, feeling ko kaya ko pa syang tanggapin if ever na babalik sya, love ko pa e' pero natatakot na ako what will happen after that. ayun, pero sa ngayon di na kame nag-uusap so malabo na. kaya just living my life to the fullest, w/o him. ganun talaga e' someday i know marerealize din nya kung ano yung nawala sakanya. =)

[klengmorales]

tama ba ang desisyon ko? we broke up dahil wala ng passion ang 8yrs relationship namin. were very magkasundo naman, were like bestfriend.

Pareho [textspeak!] sis.. 8  years.. na parang ako lang ang nagmamahal at umiintindi. to the point na ako na nagsawa. pero until now, umiiyak pa din ako gabi gabi.

[dumpee.o13]

YES! I should be over him. Kung sya nga nagpapakasaya edi dapat ako rin.

[Filipinasadhart]

YES! I should be over him. Kung sya nga nagpapakasaya edi dapat ako rin.

tama ka, billion liked :=)