are u really over your ex?

[dumpee.o13]

hi everyone
am a newbie

am not really over my ex.
i couldn't admit that he is an ex
when i speak about him,
i still refer to him as my "boyfriend"
some will correct me.

some have grown tired of my rantings.

parang ayoko din magmove on kasi ok na ko sa kahapon kasi don kasama ko siya

^ same situation here, sis. ganyan din ako sa ex ko just recently, we don't have any commitement. but we act more like we have one. we're like "friends w/ benefits". kahit masakit pinagpatuloy ko sis. pero that stopped kasi parang naawa ako sa sarili ko. kasi kahit wala kaming commitment, it's like para akong mistress or a spare tire. ngayon, mejo lielow kami. nanghingi ako ng space. di na kami gano nag-uusap. masakit at oo, i miss him. pero i need to be firm to help myself move on. goodluck sayo, sis! nakakapagod yung sitwasyon na yan. tsktsk' godbless =)

[Girltalker2]

parang uu na parang hindi....

I think. For almost 20 yrs or so naman kasi kami?!!?
Pero I am happy na without him, yun nga lang di ko maintindihan bakit affected pako tuwing may sinasabi sya?

[Foodict]

Nope and I will probably never get over her.

She was my 1st gf, 10 year relationship, and I was totally devoted to her.

A huge @$$hole messed up her head and led her to break up with me. Buti na lang her family was looking out for her and got the married guy stay away until he gets his annulment. I doubt he'll ever get it and if he does I don't think it will matter.

I'm working on making her fall in love with me again. todo suyo at ligaw.

Close pa din kami, pero there is this huge empty space inside. I can't bear being just a friend.

Bahala na, Either mauna ako mawalan ng gana or mabaliw.

[dumpee.o13]

^ @Foodict, i feel for you bro. ganyan din ako before. hihintayin ko na lang na ako yung magsawa sa ginagawa ko. eventually, nagsawa din naman ako at napagod (ako kasi gumagawa ng way e ako talaga yung babae! haha'). okay lang na gawin mo yan kase eventually, ikaw din makakarealize nyan kung tama na e' kung nagawa mo na ba yung part mo and all that. perhaps, 10 yrs is not a joke. ako nga, 4 yrs e ganito na. what more ka pa. so sorry to hear that, i hope maayos nyo pa yan. godbless, bro! =)

[bittermelon]

^^ same situation here, sis. ganyan din ako sa ex ko just recently, we don't have any commitement. but we act more like we have one. we're like "friends w/ benefits". kahit masakit pinagpatuloy ko sis. pero that stopped kasi parang naawa ako sa sarili ko. kasi kahit wala kaming commitment, it's like para akong mistress or a spare tire. ngayon, mejo lielow kami. nanghingi ako ng space. di na kami gano nag-uusap. masakit at oo, i miss him. pero i need to be firm to help myself move on. goodluck sayo, sis! nakakapagod yung sitwasyon na yan. tsktsk' godbless =)

nakakapagod [textspeak!]
almost one year na na masama ang loob ko
they say everything happens for a reason..
pero not all reasons are good enough!!
i want him back pero alm ko na napakaimposible mangyari pa un.
he is on heaven na

[dumpee.o13]

^^ @sis bittermelon, aww! that's sad, I'm so sorry to hear that. in time, you'll probably know the reason why he left you too early. be strong, sis. godbless..

[ettevyvi]

Not over over. Soon! ^_^

[Gabrielle Andre]

so over him, but not over the sex. =))

[bittermelon]

^^ @sis bittermelon, aww! that's sad, I'm so sorry to hear that. in time, you'll probably know the reason why he left you too early. be strong, sis. godbless..

thanks dumpee
been doing a good deal of thinking lately
but no reason will ever good enough
 
sometimes i feel like its some kind of punishment
imagine taking someone for granted..
and finding them gone after a certain amount of time..

[det060403]

Definitely! Totally over him! Whew!
Sobrang dami kong natutunan sa ex ko. I am really thankful and grateful for him, for what we had and what Ive become because of him.

[meisaia]

a big YES.

nung nagkita kami, i realized na wala na yung spark. wala na ko care if ever magtampo siya. tingin ko na lang talaga sa kanya is a friend. i can't say the same for him though.

[dumpee.o13]

so over him, but not over the sex. =))

^ hahaha' natawa naman ako dito. i remember, we became "friends w/ benefits" ni ex ko. kaso di ako nakatagal, soooo kabit kasi ang labas ko e' tsktsk' good thing, i'm finally moving on.

thanks dumpee
been doing a good deal of thinking lately
but no reason will ever good enough
 
sometimes i feel like its some kind of punishment
imagine taking someone for granted..
and finding them gone after a certain amount of time..

^ i understand where you're coming from, sis.. i know for now, di mo pa malalaman yung reason pero darating yung time na kahit di mo iask e malalaman mo din. i just wanted to let you know how much i admire strong girls like you, who loved and lost but still standing strong. i know you can overcome everything, just pray. take care!

[Foodict]

It takes a year daw to get over eh. hayz. Still a BIG NO. Kasalanan ko na din siguro kasi I see her everyday at her shop and spend an hour with her pa. My friend called me a masochist na nga.

[wife2be]

i think so.

siya ang hindi over sa akin.. to think, college bf ko pa sya! plus, may wife and kis na sya. nagpo-profess pa din ng undying love. haha.

[dumpee.o13]

It takes a year daw to get over eh. hayz. Still a BIG NO. Kasalanan ko na din siguro kasi I see her everyday at her shop and spend an hour with her pa. My friend called me a masochist na nga.

^ i think wala namang definite time ng pagmove on, siguro depende rin sa level ng relationship nyo kung gano ka kadali magmomove on. di mo rin naman pwedeng madaliin yan e' pero you need to help yourself. ako, i help myself in a way na di ko na sya masyadong kinikita kahit gustong-gusto ko and bihira kami magtext/mag-usap. gusto kong kahit pano mamiss nya ang non-existence ko. saka syempre to help myself na din. i have to focus myself to other stuff para di ko sya masyadong maalala. i go out w/ friends every weekend, i keep myself busy. kahit at the end of the day, namimiss ko  pa din sya and naiisip. at this point, i'm just holding on to fate.

[ettevyvi]

^ But we are secretly hoping for a reconciliation, we will never be able to move on completely. We should resign to the fact that s/he'll never come back and that breaking up is FINAL. Babalik tayo sa square one if we are still holding on to fate.

Que sera, sera. But you have to BE something NOW before hoping for anything. Kaya natin 'to girls/guys!

[Foodict]

I have to harden my heart again. Back to square 1 talaga.

[dumpee.o13]

^ hayyy! ang hirap neto sobrang namimiss ko na sya.. T_T

[bittermelon]

hi dumpee
try to read ITS CALLED A BREAK UP BECAUSE ITS BROKEN by Greg Behrendt

if you really want to move on its a good read.
they recommend not to see or talk to your ex within 60 days.

Its a very empowering book.

[jashy]

bigla bigla namimiss ko pa rin sya at nalulungkot ako. bakit ganun?!