are u really over your ex?

[iamfab]

i don't think so.. 

[queendi]

getting there.

last friday, monthsary date namin, ni hindi ko namalayan, even before that day. kahapon ko lang naalala. milestone it is!!!
 

[viellemacey]

certainly.
when i enter to a new relationship i always make sure that i have no excess baggage, things of the past, simply because i don't want my new partner to think that i just diverted my attention to him to get rid of my past. but it's not easy, it took me a long time to finally moved forward. it's ok, i'm not crying naman the whole time that i'm looking for my way out. 

[faithful and loyal]

bakit puro girls nalang ata ..ang laging need to m0ve on ang mga guys already m0ve on na with new gf na..bakit? Pansin ko lang..dahil ba nature na natin dahil babae tayo at lalake sila?

[tungek]

i'm afraid not... been over 2 months since he last talked to me... and now we are both working here in SG... i'm always on the lookout baka makasabay ko sya sa train or makasalubong somewhere... takot akong makita ko sya dahil baka marealized ko na niloloko ko lang pala ang sarili ko thinking i moved on even a bit...

[a.k.a. HELGA]

I know I have moved on already. Accepted the fact that we are really over and wala na future for us. But there are days when I will suddenly remember everything we had gone through and I will still feel the pain all over again.  It's been 4 years ago but I would have to admit that its still a working process on my side. Maybe, what's bothering me most is wala kasing naging closure. We were not able to talk to end it. We have no communications. But just recently, I was able to see him in FB, and I don't know what to feel.

[queendi]

I would like to believe so pero lagi ko pa rin syang naaalala. Though like helga, accepted ko na rin na wala ng chance for us to be together again someday at wala rin kami closure, may mga times na nami-miss ko pa rin sya. Yesterday, nag hi pa ako when i saw him on-line pero dedma nya ako. lol. Ang saken lang naman is gusto ko na maalis yung hate feeling namin sa isa't-isa (kung sino man sa amin ang may hate) besides its been 6 months already at may kanya-kanya na kaming buhay.
Pero sya yung nawala na talaga. Maybe, talagang umiiwas na lang din sya. i don't knowww...

[cleverjerk0717]

i would say somehow, i'm over with the pain that i felt before, its just been a month since he brokeup with me...they said ang bilis ko daw nakarecover pero sobrang sakit yung naramdaman ko dun, kasi tingin ko ganito lang yun, we feel the pain then we panic dahil baka wala ng ibang magmahal sa atin, if mahal talaga tayo ng ex natin babalik at babalik sila, if were meant to be, we're meant to be, in GOD's TIME EVERYTHING WILL HAPPEN. just believe in HIM, mas magiging madali. for as long as alam mo na you didn't do anything wrong para saktan siya, ok na yun, pero minsan kelangan din natin tingnan sa sarili natin ng mabuti, san nga ba tayo nagkulang? minsan kasi, iisipin natin 3rd party pero hindi naman talaga ganun yun, mas may malalim na dahilan bakit bigla na lang nagffade yung love na dati eh naguumapaw....

[Maldita AKO]

Don't think so.

[purpleblush18]

Oo.  Iniisip ko na lang na super complicated ang buhay nya at di bagay sa desenteng tulad ko buti na nga lang at nakawala ako sa kanya at naging honest din sya.  Masakit, oo, pero mas inisip ko sarili ko kaya mas madali akong nakapag move on.  Sabi nga ng sis ko,  in every failed relationship, its a one step closer in meeting the right one.  Kaya mga sis, lets love our self because we should be ready if the right one comes along

[j-z]

I don't really know. He still crosses my mind everyday but whenever I remember him, the pain is not that intense anymore. It's been 3 months since we broke up pero yeah. I think I have slightly moved on already because moving on means you have moved forward already right? I'm back to my normal life, no more crying to him before I sleep. But, I still have feelings for him..

[ginevria]

No, definitely not.

One of the reasons why I joined the forum yesterday is because... I'm trying to heal the pain of the break-up and I figured maybe talking or interacting with other women who have gone through break-ups also can be therapeutic. Or entertaining. Or whatever. Maybe it could make me understand more, and accept eventually that our relationship ended just like that after years of promising we'd grow old together, build our home together, have kids, etc.

It's messing me up, and I can't seem to function well at work. It's been only a month after the break-up and I think it is just normal for me to feel like I've hit rock-bottom. I don't know if I can ever move on, but I'm hoping the pain will fade away someday.

Cheers to all those of you who have finally, finally, moved on!

[lovely_chic]

I think I am since hindi na ako nasasaktan everytime naalala ko siya unlike those past few weeks na feeling ko magiging lukaret na ako dahil sa pain but I'm happy dahil nakaya ko lagpasan yun.. I just keep on praying and the support that I got from my family is helping me a lot. Acceptance is the key lang talaga.

[swedish_berries]

sometimes yes, sometimes no. he kept coming back in my mind. sa nangyari, it's a MUST na magmove on ako na maging over ako sa pain kc di naman na mababalik ang buhay nya. may mga times lang na talagang naiisip ko sya at ang lahat lahat. mahaba habang time pinagsamahan namin kaya di basta basta makakalimot. 

[lovely_chic]

^ What you mean hindi na mababalik ang buhay niya? Is he dead already sis?

[chimei_17]

it took me 3 years, but yes. OVER na talaga

[aerish_anne]

yes and no... yes because nagkaroon ako ng boyfees after nila.. one after the other.. no bacause i still try to get as much info about their updates as much as i can.. hahaha..

[TFMismyname]

Ako, masasabi ko na move on na ako. Pero there are times na sana nakipagbalikan nalang ako sa kanya. pero ayos lang, masaya naman na ako sa current stat ko ngayon

[Filipinasadhart]

For me hindi pa kase may kirot pa sa puso ko lalo na i saw his pic sa common friend namin sa fb. Ilan months pa siguro bago ako makamove on. Pray lang ako ng Pray kay God to take away all the pain & heartaches.

[krnmprl]

after more than 3 years, after getting involved with 2 other people pagkatapos namin. Kanina nakita un family photos nya sa FB. Ang sakit pa rin. ewan ko ba.