are u really over your ex?

[iCleverClogs]

I don't when it will be expired. Ang kulit niya talaga. Well let see what will happen this night.

[krnmprl]

2 years and 3 months later, hindi pa din talaga. hay naku antagal naman talaga.

[sexy_maldita0089]

I am not sure, pero parang di pa. Though more than a year na din kami wala and i have a new boyfriend now. Ang hirap kasi pala talaga kalimutan kapag first love. Tapos nagpaparamdam na naman sya, nalito na tuloy ako.. wahh!! Alam nyo yung.. ini-imagine ko na makasama ang bf ko panghabang buhay pero sya ang sumasagi sa isip ko.. Nakakapraning talaga! kahit ayaw kung isipin pero sya ang pumapasok sa kukuti ko.. 

[jpsv72]

yes & no.

yes from my ex bf's but no to the father of my son. anyway ala na nga palang father son ko since gusto nyang ipalaglag dati pa so wala na nga palang ama yung anak ko.

[graceriabel]

ako?!! Now I am confused!!! pero what I clearly know now is that ayoko na siyang mahalin pa ulit.
Pero di ako makawala sa mga memories namin.. sa mga masasakit na pinagdaanan ko kasama siya.
Na niloko niya ako. That the betrayed me!!!

[pinkberries]

not yet. it's always been him.   

[Gabrielle Andre]

Im a widow, but along the years I've been alone, I "fell in love" and was in a complicated relationship with this guy. Ex ko na siya ngayon. I am over him, but I'm not over the feeling of missing being in a relationship, of having someone.
Sometimes that guy would suddenly contact me out of the blue, so siyempre, being vulnerable, parang mahuhulog na nama loob ko sa kanya, tapos pag na-rerealize ko motives niya, i feel like vomiting =)) .... so i'm over the ex, but not over the feeling of being in a "relationship" . maybe tina-transfer ko din yung longing for my dead husband in other ways.

[ShoesAndTravel]

Thank God I'm over all my exes na. Dati hindi but I got over it. I'm friends with all of them. And I can say, wala na talaga ako nafefeel na love para sakanila, but i do care for them.

[krnmprl]

I just realized this, 2 years and 6 months after we separated, YES, I am finally over it. I am falling in love with someone else though. And hopefully I will not. I don't have another 2.5 years to spend just forgetting.

[rihito]

hmm..my first ex, took me wala pa yatang 1 month. i broke it up, he was a violent person so it was easier.

this second one is taking me too long to get over. though it's been only around a month, yun official breakup. kasi naman, we were doing fine until mid January, then things started to cool off. Wala man lang valentines date. Ngaun sa fb nakita ko yun new girl nya and her relationship status was updated; March yun anniv nila. gulo no? March naging sila pero nagbreak up kami April. How do I get over that? Kala ko sya na...

[BacMook]

Hay. Ganun talaga. Mas nahihirapan mag-move on yung mga iniwan/na-left out, yun tipong alam mong he's happy na with somebody else or with his life now without you, habang ikaw eto pa rin, picking up the pieces na nawala nung iwan ka nya..

Ako hindi pa. 2weeks palang naman kasi kami break.
Mababaw lang din dahilan ng break up namin. Simpleng awayan lang, pero nadadalas. Ayun, nakita kong umayaw agad sya. Baka nawalan ng amor, baka naisip nyang he don't wanna end up with a bratt girl like me na mahilig mang-away, effortless, not affectionate, not appreciative, and all. In short walang kwenta. LOL. Ewan ko ba, nasa genes ko na yata yon.  Kasalanan din naman nya kasi ini-spoiled nya ko.

I tried to fix it pero he keeps on telling me na he needs time daw. And so I decided to suggest a break up, akala ko pipigilan nya ko, akala ko after ilang days marerealize nya yung kawalan ko, pero hindi pala.

Sabi nya naguguluhan na rin daw sya sa sarili nya, feeling nya daw things wont be the same if ever magkabalikan kame, baka hindi na rin daw kami maging masaya. He said pa na we can still see each other and be best of friends. One of these days daw magkikita pa rin kami at pupuntahan nya ko pag di na sya busy. Sabi ko ayoko ng ganung set up, parang papahirapan nya lang lalo ako. Gusto ko na mag move on.

Although very short lang yung naging realtionship namin (lasted 2mos.) I can say na sya talaga yung minahal ko ng sobra at sobrang naging attached ako sa kanya. Sya lang kasi yung nagparamdam sakin ng ganong klaseng affection/love/effort. Siguro dahil after few bf's, ngayon lang ako naging desidido na maging mature, ngayon ko lang sinabi sa sarili ko na "Yes, it's gonna last..". Ngayon lang ako nagsama at nagpakilala ng bf sa friends ko at sa dad ko. Basta madami akong first time na sa kanya ko lang ginawa mula nung naging bf ko sya. Pero wala pa rin pala eh. 

Buti pa nga kayo sisses kino-contact pa kayo ng ex's niyo. Ibig sabihin lang nun their life aren't the same without you. Andun pa rin yung desire nila, hindi man to be with you, eh at least to keep in touch with you. Samantalang ako, ni blankong text wala. Though di na rin naman ako umaasang itetext/pupuntahan nya pa ko. Mukang happy naman na sya eh.

Pero siguro okay na rin yun. Mas madali ako makakamove on pag ganitong wala na kami communication. Pati sa FB binura ko na rin sya, bitter na kung bitter, if that's the only way na makakamove on ako. Besides, I can add him up naman ulit kapag everything's fine na

Ngayon, I have this new guy na nagpapasmile sakin. Although di ko pa rin nakakalimutan si recent ex, I'm looking forward to know this new guy more Ayoko madaliin. Ayoko rin kasi pumasok dun sa rebound relationship na tinatawag. I've been there and nahirapan lang ako kasi di naman ako naging masaya, tapos nakasakit pa ko.

Minsan di ko maiwasan ma-compare si new guy kay recent ex. Sobrang secured lang kasi ng feeling everytime I'm with my ex, parang everything seems to be perfect. Palagi syang on-the-go, palagi kami nagkakasama, hindi nya pinapalampas yung isang linggo na hindi kami nagkikita. Basta sa kanya ko lang naramdaman yung feeling ng totoong boyfriend. Ewan ko ah, ako kasi yung tipo na immature when it comes to relationships eh. feeling ko ang bata ko pa to enter serious kind of relationships, so pabanjing banjing lang ako, pero real love naman, hindi naman ako nakikipaglokohan. Lahat ng relationships ko tumagal lang 2-3mos. Wala nang hihigit pa dun. Minsan nga iniisip ko may sumpa eh, LOL. Kala ko si recent ex na yung makakapag-break ng spell. 

Pero I rly thank the Lord kasi mas gumagaan loob ko dahil alam kong meron kagad na taong handang mag-alaga sakin after the heart break na pinagdaanan ko 2 weeks ago.

I know, there will always be a rainbow after the rain.ü
GOD BLESS YOU, sisters!


EDIT: Eto na nga ba sinasabi ko. Tinatawagan na nya ko ngayon and telling me na he still love me. Ano gagawin ko sisters? Pano si new guy?

[angelme888]

1 week na kami walang communication, unti unti na ako nakakamove on. Siguro kasi tahimik na, wala ng gulo, wala ng sakit sa ulo, wala ng paghihirap ng kalooban. I'm not really over sa ex ko kasi up to now, I still think of him, I still talk about him, pero I don't cry na tulad ng dati na everyday ako umiiyak. In time, I know magiging ok na ok din ako. Soon.

[redzjhen]

nope, although i'm happy naman because i have my son with my hubby... but still cant let go the "what if" nagkatuluyan kami...yun lang po

[krnmprl]

akala ko okey na ko. 2 years and 6 months later, hindi pa rin pala.

[shegothim]

mukhang hindi pa rin kahit ilang taon na ang nakakaraan. nakakainis ang ganitong pakiramdam.

[tungek]

ilang araw na kaming walang communication... basta na lang kaming d nag usap... so walang closure... d naman sya nagpaparamdam sa akin... and ako naman ayoko rin namang magparamdam sa kanya na para bang naghahabol pa... well kung importante pa talaga ako sa kanya... ano ba naman yung i text ka or i email ka d b? samantalang nung nag sisimula kami, halos minu minuto naka text or call...

so nope, i haven't moved on... paano mag mo move on ng walang closure?

[jasive51]

ilang araw na kaming walang communication... basta na lang kaming d nag usap... so walang closure... d naman sya nagpaparamdam sa akin... and ako naman ayoko rin namang magparamdam sa kanya na para bang naghahabol pa... well kung importante pa talaga ako sa kanya... ano ba naman yung i text ka or i email ka d b? samantalang nung nag sisimula kami, halos minu minuto naka text or call...

so nope, i haven't moved on... paano mag mo move on ng walang closure?

ay sis..nakakarelate ako sa yo, ganyan ganyan din si ex ko noon...pero ok na ko ngayon eh..may konti selos pa din pero it doesnt meant na gusto ko makipagbalikan or whatever..

[purple_rain0721]

after 9 months... YES.    Finally!    When I remember him nowadays wala na akong pain na nararamdaman.  I also don't talk about him anymore at hindi ko na din inaalam pa ang mga whereabouts niya.  I do pray for him every night na sana mapatawad niya ang self niya (I know may guilt sa part niya) at maging truly happy na siya. 

[charmed30]

sis tungek. wala din kami closure. after more than 6 years of being in the relationship, natapos na lang siya ng ganun. bigla na lang din walang usap-usap. it was a very stressful relationship, tapos long distance pa. hay. it's been more than 2 weeks and of course im not really over him. i dont think i'll be on the next 2 years.

[purple_rain0721]

^ hi sis! I was also in a relationship for more than 6 years.  We almost got married last December.  I really thoguht aabutin ako ng forever to get over him and the pain he brought me.  Pero with the help of prayers nakaya ko naman.    I wish you luck, sis.  Good vibes to you.