are u really over your ex?

[geminilady1984]

1 out of my 5 exes....i am still not over yet... he still haunts my sanity and fidelity. I am really wanting to spend kahit 24 hours man lang. I believe we have a lot to talk, discuss, and i want to unleashed my emotions....

[Bash]

^same here. 1 out of my exes (di ko na sasabihin kung ilan sila lahat). Though we've been together for only a few months wayback in high school, up to now, there are still these "what if..." or "could've been" thoughts. I also wanted to spend kahit nga a few hours lang eh. just to talk.  i remember way way back when he learned that I'm living in with my then fiancee, now my husband... sabi nya bakit ka pumayag? then the last time na magkasama kami (with other friends) narinig ko nasabi nya (pero hindi narinig nung friends namin)... bakit nga ba tayo nag-break? pero looking at him, he was not expecting any answer. so i just said... shrugged my shoulders and said i dunno...

I still dream about him. Pero hindi naman romatic yung scenes. He's just one of the main characters sa dream ko.

Pero I know na hindi na pwede. I'm married and have a wonderful daughter now. Happy? yes!

[yellowjice]

i'm not yet over with him. it's been a month pa lang naman.

i'm not scared that i'm not gonna get over soon. because he made a promise to me that "someday". i'm actually struggling on it. dreaming that day will come and imagining what will happen. our break up was clean, and everything was said... it's just a matter of "not now" situations that's why we broke up. he said he'll be the man i'll deserve when that time comes.

sana pala hindi na lang niya yun sinabi. haha!

i'm scared that i will not get over him.

[sweetestCORN]

hay napakahirap magmove on... 3years bago ako maka move on. and you know what? it feels great! hindi ko pinagsisisihan na i suffered and struggled so hard to be where i am right now. i am getting married. yes... i guess mas minahal ko pa din yung ex ko kesa kay h2b. but that doesn't mean i still love my ex. moving on is a part of my journey and it's one heck of a journey. i know that im stronger now. lahat na yata ng method ng pag move-on napagdaanan ko na. in denial most of the time... may time na nagmayabang ako na kunwari ok na ko. pinagselos ko sya thinking marerealize nya worth ko. but mga sis wake up! tanggapin nyo ang katotohonan na hindi na kayo mahal ng mga ex nyo. believe me... if there's a will there's a way. kahit ano pa kasalanan na nagawa nyo.. kung mahal nya kayo e mapapatawad nya kayo. tigilan na ang pagsisi sa sarili at pagdepensa sa mga ex kung bakit sya ganun. ganun sya kasi he's over you. hay 3 long years bago ko narealize yan. but it's a process... dadating na lang ang araw na marerealize nyo na iniisip nyo na lang na nasasaktan kayo.. pero hindi nyo na nararamdaman. help yourself to be happy. para mapabilis ang recovery nyo. wag na gumanti o anuman. i'm not gonna say that i don't love my ex anymore... i still do... but not romantically. i still love him for being a part of my life and thats it. for life na yung love na yun. 

[cosmochick]

when my ex and I broke up in 2008, it took me 7 months to move on, kahit 8 months lang yung relationship namin. He's my biggest heartbreak... Every night ako umiiyak noon and wala akong matakbuhan because I was living alone...It was really hard for me. Lahat na yata ginawa ko take my mind off him, I enrolled myself in bellydancing class, I resigned form my job (home based)  and work in a call center to gain new friends, may rebound guy din ako.. who in the end, nasaktan ko lang because he was serious about me and ako lagi ko syang inaaway. I was so bad!

In the end, the only thing that got me over him was when I found somebeody else to love. Now,after 2 years, I can fairly say that I don't love him anymore. When I remember him, parang wala lang... I remember the boy, but I don't remember the feeling anymore... LOL

[lesters_gal]

^sis same tayo.3months lang kami nagsama ng latest ex ko but he's my major heartbreak din.my rebound guy din ako.pero I dumped him din kasi I wasn't ready pa talaga to enter another relationship.

After 4months of non stop crying,sleepless nights.now I can say I'm totally over him.prayers works a lot.thank god.

[ysa.belle]

it took me years to get over an ex of mine. we were together for almost 4 years and after we broke up tapos i had 2 bf's after him eh sometimes i compared yung current bf ko nung time na yun sa ex ko. so it shows na i wasnt over him yet. i got over him nov 2008. maybe i just really needed to hear the truth from someone who does not know him at all. it took me halos 2 years din to get over him

[ashleyhan]

pinapakita ko sa mundo na im over him na but in reality it hurts just the same, as in day 1 of the break-up. but i know someday somehow I will be healed.

[peaceinsolitude]

Proud to say that I am.

Pagnasasabi siya sa akin or naaalala ko siya, it just feels like a distant memory. Wlang sakit, walang kilig. Okay lang.

Last month he e-mailed me and asked me if he could meet me. Sabi ko sa kanya if doing so would make him move-on then yes. Unfortunately gusto niya makipagbalikan. He was thankful though that I entertained him.

Then a common friend saw me with a date in a mall a month after the said email. Next thing that I know is nabalitaan ko na lang na tinanggal na niya ako sa facebook friends niya. Wow 8 months na kami hiwalay bitter pa din siya?

Hay I had loved him a lot dati. I had no regrets whatsoever di ko na lang talaga matagalan kayabangan niya.

Masaya din ako na wala na kami at l;east ngayon alam ko na kung ano hinahanap ko.

[kettlekorn28]

yes na yes! 

[lablab002]

finally, after 2yrs, nakamove on na talaga ko ang tagal nya talaga dito sa utak ko.hahaha dati kapag ol siya or kapag nag message siya, sobrang kilig. ngayon,dedma.hehe kahit ganun katagal, ok na rin ako

[purple_rain0721]

I am positive that I am getting there.    I'ts been almost 3 weeks and it was one hell of a rollescoaster ride.  Minsan ok ako, minsan nasasaktan, minsan indifferent.  But I'm happy na I can already go to our favorite spots without crying.  I can watch TV again and not feel anything pag napapanood ko yung mga pinapanood namin dati.  Naaalala ko siya, it's hard not to, but I don't miss his presence anymore.  His birthday's coming up.  Pag nagawa ko na hindi siya i-greet, then feeling ko dun ko masasabi na I am really over him. 

[BAISANAN]

7 years kaming hindi nagkita, sa fb muling nagkatagpo.....married nako with 2 kids pero i admit may times na naiisip ko sya till i meet him nga sa fb from then nagtetext ulit sya at tumatawag. i would prefer not to see him in person kasi i dont want to regret and bitter. good thing lang nasabi ko lahat ng sama ng loob ko sa kanya.

[purple_rain0721]

now I can truly say that I am! grabe! tama pala ang hinala ko all this time.  So I deleted him from my facebook, I deleted all our pictures hindi lang sa facebook pati sa hard drive ko.  later I will burn all the letters that he gave me.  Ayoko na siyang maalala at makita kahit kailan.

[reivee]

pag ayaw ko nang maging kaibigan ang ex ko, does that mean i'm not over him yet?  kasi sa sobrang sakit ng mga ginawa nya sa akin, i feel he doesnt deserve even my friendship anymore...

[misao]

yes! i haven't seen him in 8 years. the other day i saw his fb profile and he just got married! bakit ganun? parang nasaktan ako hehe.

[yellowjice]

what if you really want to move on but your ex still wants to see you, talk to you, text you? this is hard... especially when you're not fully recovered.

[purple_md]

no 

[trizh]

what if you really want to move on but your ex still wants to see you, talk to you, text you? this is hard... especially when you're not fully recovered.

  -- sis parehi tayo. ganyan ex ko.. kaya lalong na prolong yung pagmove on ko. until now, meron parin akong hope na magkakabalikan kami kasi lage siyang nagpaparamdam. hay.
 

[PinKisH_23]

I guess not.