Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[sweet21]

I've dated a Canadian before, hindi nag work kasi masyadong liberated for me. Spontaneous sila, straight to the point. Pero one thing na hindi ko kasi kaya gawin is to have sex before marriage haha. (Kasi gusto ko muna kasal bago may baby) At sa western culture medyo weird yata yun. So ayun, nag let go na rin kami.

[three8one]

^ kahit praktis lang muna ayaw talaga? haha.. biro lang... well, nakaka bilib naman yang stand mo and good for you.

[sweet21]

^ tinanong ko nga kung kaya ng one year? 😂 I guess for a foreigner  weird yun. For them kasi when you do it parang binigay mo na yung trust sa kanila. Which is ibang iba sa culture natin.

[Shadow Angel]

^di ko lang alam sa ibang province pero may makikita ka pa rin na willing na magwait madami pa rin conservative sa kanila.

[three8one]

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 marami pa rin naman talaga willing to wait. pero siguro tulungan din between a man and a woman na achieve yung ganun goal.

[hotsie_pink]

^ totoo! haha! pero yun nga, pag may alak talaga may balak ! 

[three8one]

^ haha! applicable din ba sa mga foreigner yun? alam ko lang mga gumagawa nun mga pinoy din eh.

[Shadow Angel]

Napanood ko sa youtube un magandang buhay na guests sina Ina, Patricia and Cristalle about their foreigner husband totoo lahat sinabi nila. Lalo na sabi ni Cristalle na di mahilig sa barkada ang karamihan sa kanila. Un tipong ako pa nagsasabi kay hubby na lumabas with friends pero ayaw nya mas gusto nya ako ang kasama. Sa ilang taon namin magkasama 2-3 beses lang sya lumabas without me kahit sinasami nya ako.

Di lang ako agree sa comment no Karla na walang mali sa pagpapalaki sa mga bata kapag hindi ginagawang independent. Kaya karamihan lumalaki na palaasa kahit may asawa na o kaya naman pag may anak na may work nagreretire agad. Kaya di naprapractice un discipline.

Si Cristalle naman over independent ang anak. 6 months pa lang solo na agad kahit gumigising sa gabi di nila pinupuntahan. Kami kasi kahit na sa crib si LO kasama namin sya sa room 1 year old na sya ng binukod namin sya ng room.

[Nejmeili]

Hi! I just wanted to share my experience. I met this French guy from Couchsurfing. He messaged me because of my videoke picture that I posted on CS. We chatted for 3 months until his trip to the PH just this month. He was really sweet and he would say that I am pretty and he loved my smile. He said he also liked me. 

So we finally met. We really enjoyed each other's company. Naging tour guide niya talaga ako. We spent 4 days together. Nag beach kami. He was really respectful towards me. We were in the same room for 3 nights and he never attempted to do something else.  Before his trip yung nag bobook oa nanag mga hotel kasi i told him to book 2 beds kaya he agreed naman. When we were in the beach, he would try to hug and kiss me pero ako yung parang umayaw kasi i was so conscious on how other Pinoys would think. Now I know why foreigners grabe mag PDA... Kasi they dont care.. They are happy so kebs... Then he asked me why and I told him about Filipina stereotyped with foreigners. He said if he was just going for just any Filipina, he could always do that but he is not interested in that. Sabi niya."you are not jumping on me.. I am jumping  on you" ... When we were in the room... He would just stare...  tapos sabi ko what? Sabi niya... I like you.... Tapos tumawa lang ako... Hahaah.. Tapos he would stare and touch my cheeks and smile at me ....

When we were travelling in the bus... The first 2 days he would try to hold my hand pero ako deadma lang kasi.. Haler! Bago pa kami nagkasama hahha.... One thing that's holding me back is the filipina stereotype kasi it's myfirst time travelling with a foreigner. So one night i tried reading confessions from filipinas dating foreeigners, so after that i Let Go..... On the 3rd day that we were traveling in the bus i would hold his hand na....

On our last night, we were both lying on our separate beds....off na yung lights.. Both of us just stared at the ceiling...  Tapos di kami makatulog.... I asked him. What's on his mind. He said he doesnt want tomorrow to come kasi last day na namin together and he asked me if do i really have to go to work the next day.... Huhu... Tapos sabi niya... "now that there arent peopke watching... Can i hug you?".... Huhuh diba napaka romantic... 😭. Tapos i asked him to just sleep beside me that night hahaha but guys walang nangyari...takot din ako hehe. Nag french kiss lang kami.... 😁 french kissing a french guy...  tapos we hugged each other to sleep... Tapos nag holding hands din kami natulog.....

During our last day.... He said he doesnt want to go din..... He was going to siquijor tapos ako uwi na ako nang city.... It was so painful when we parted ways that day... I can see it in his eyes na parang hurt din....

He went back to Cebu city... Kasi dito siya nag fly out.... We met during his last day... Nag city tour lang kami.... Eto na yung masakit..... I asked him about us..... Sabi naman niya when he said he liked me he meant it....sabi niya lets see how e it goes and he doesnt eant to promise anything... Traveller kasi..... Tapos sabi niya he is 31 happy and single..sabi niya he wouldnt want to be in a relationship just because everyone is doing so...

I told him one time... It was his last day in cebu... He said for this trip yes.. But i will need to come back... We'll see how it goes.... Lets see what the future holds.... He also mentioned he could live here in th ph.....

Grabe when we were in the airport.... Parang na sa movies kami huhu we hugged and kissed each other goodbye ( i didnt care about the people in the airport na) ... Sabi ko sa kanya i dont know if i will still see u again or if i will ever see you again... I justed wanted to say that I like you.... Huhuhu sabi niya really?
hehe hindi pa oala ako obvious? Or foreigners just dont assume? Hehhe

Sissies, since meron kayo experience dating a foreigner.. Ano yun summer love? Or merong chance? Huhhu

Salamat sa oagbasa..... I need yiur expert opinion....

[Shadow Angel]

^Hi, IMO bata sa kanila ang 31 mostly likely 35 and up ang ideal nila sa serious relationship. Hindi naman lahat pero madalas. Lalo na traveller sya kaya hindi sya makakapag commit sayo. Kapag gusto ka talaga nila at ready sila madali sa kanilang mag commit. He is honest with you hindi nya priority ang magkaroon ng gf more on gusto nya lang ng companion while traveling. And yes ma respectful sila.

[Nejmeili]

^thanks sis. Sigh. He mentioned naman din before while we were atill chatting na he is not actively looking for a gf. If it happens, it happens daw. Pero ba't sila ganun.. Ganun bah talaga sila? He swept me off my feet.... Or ganyan lang talaga tayong mga Pilipina.. Sighmnnn

[kvandenhaak]

Hold off muna sa feelings, if I were you. Medyo malabo ang situation considering the circumstance. If he wants to take it to another level, you will know and it will be clear as day. Just think about how many girls he is meeting wherever he goes. Keep your options open.

[Bridgette*]

^^^ Awwe, kinilig ako. Pero alam mo na, di sapat ang kilig lang dapat praktikal din. Were there no exchanges of numbers, email or social media accounts?

[Nejmeili]

^hi sis... Meron naman... Before we met naman we chatted thru instagram and watsapp.... Pero ngayun parang limited na yung chats niya.. Baka busy pa sa pag tour niya dito....

How do i deal it mga sissies.....? Like if he changes the way he chats... I will let him be lang? As if meron naman akong magawa......

[ninabhel]

Hello Girls,

meron na bang naka encounter sa inyo na in a relationship with Indian, pero medyo complicated dahil nga they practice arranged marriage? Napaka complicated kasi ng pinasok ko. We are in a relationship, pero hindi kami makapag plan ng "future" dahil nga they practice arrange marriage.

[kvandenhaak]

^Meaning, meron nang naka-assign for him to marry? If that's the case, then what's the point of the relationship?

[eischied_21]

^^ Mostly Indians lalo na yun mga hindi pa nakaka-travel out of the country, they are still very tradionalists. I have Indian officemates and even up to now that we are in digital world, they still practice their old traditions like they don't let their kids eat meat, mostly veg (depends on religion), women should stay at home only and take care of the kids, at maraming pang iba. Good luck sis

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

ninabhel Sis Im based in the Middle East, melting pot 'to for the working class mataas population ng Indians dito and I know some Filipinas who are married to Indian men, honestly mahirap pero may mga kinakasal naman sa ibang lahi, depende sa "caste" or parang province nila and family mismo. So case to case basis pa din, kung kaya ka nya ipaglaban why not. Example Priyanka Chopra hehe.

[ninabhel]

wala naman naka assign for him to marry. Pero ang practice sa family nila is arranged marriage. Like his brother, arranged marriage din. yung family niya is nag hahanap ng girl for him to marry, pero yung mga girls na nahahanap dinedecline nya. Nakaka stress na nakakak praning kasi hindi mo alam baka pag gising mo kinabukasan may nahanap na pala yung family nya for him. I dont know if I should go on and fight, or let go nalang ang look for love somewhere else where there's no such culture or thing. He is base here in manila and hindi kami LDR. Hindi ko alam if ipag lalaban nya ako when the time comes, but he has stories where some of his cousins were disowned kasi they married someone from another caste. take note, another caste lang ha. Hindi pa another nationality or another religion.

[kvandenhaak]

^Alright, so it really goes down to what's your BF's plan for your future. You have to make it clear kung may future ba kayo or for whatever lang kayo.