Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

^yung una pambili daw ng ticket etc, so pinadalhan, susunod, kesyo nasa airport na daw at nadelay flight at re route susmiyo! Super gullible at shunga ng friend ko, so mga 50k pala sa peso naipadala, tapos maghapon sila nagabang sa airport.

[Shadow Angel]

^wow ha talaga pagkakagastusan ang lalaki hindi mo kilala o nakikita pa. Either gullible or desperate.

[three8one]

jan ako nanggigigil sa inis eh, pag na aargabyado mga pinay ng ibang lahi. minsan pumapasok na lang sa isip ko pag naaaawa ako, pag ako nagkaron ng pagkakataon mga kalahi naman nilang babae ang gagahasain ko total palagi nagagahasa mga kalahi kong pinay. hahahaha! sa isip ko lang naman yun malabo kong magawa... 

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

^^yun na nga, aminado naman sya gullible, shunga at desperate na sya. Nabanggit ko din twice ata sa posts ko above na talagang desperada na sya magka bf uli. Lol.

[The Lioness]

Joining the club.

I recently joined this dating site and it's a real jungle. I've read a few profiles, some of them are specific about not wanting someone who has kids. Of course I do have kids. Then I met this guy who doesnt seem bothered. He's single, a couple of years older than me, he seems like a very nice guy. I think I'm starting to like him because he's funny and smart (and I guess he likes me too). I told him though that he's better off finding someone he deserves and doesnt have so much baggage like mine. He said he wishes I have a different perspective in relationships and him. And that I was pushing him away 90% of the time. Yesterday, he told me he will try to work it out with the girl he was talking to before me since I am not "into" it. I admit I was jealous and sad because I guess I'm really starting to like him.

For our sisses who have kids din, how did you deal with it? What did u do to get the guy without having that "i have too much baggage, he's better off with someone else" thing?

[kvandenhaak]

^If he wasn't bothered by you having kids, why did you tell him to find someone else? Tapos magseselos ka?

[The Lioness]

Oo nga eh. baliw lang. haha. He seemed like a very nice guy kasi and I dont think na deserve ko sya, Bago lang din sila ni girl and he gave me his number and told me to text him because he will turn off his profile na (request ni girl). Sabi nya he really likes me and would've been me kung hindi lang ako maarte. na stress ko daw sya kaya sya pumayag na maging exclusive with the girl. and yet he wants me to text him. i feel like a side chic now. lol.. im still contemplating though kung itetext ko nga sya. but i really like him. what to do please?

[kvandenhaak]

^Eh kung sinabi na nya na he will pursue her then tabi ka muna...lol! Now kung available pa sya eh di go. Kasi naman, overthinking. Iwasan masyado ang overthinking. It's one of the number one relationship killer. If he said he is fine with the situation then who are you to tell him that it's not? Yaan...kasi!naman.

[The Lioness]

learned my lesson sis. thanks. lol. so i guess i'll text him one time lang just so he knows my number and he can contact me just in case things dont work out well for them? lol. or not necessary na? first time ko sa ganitong situation. so torn. common sense na dapat na hindi ko na sya i text dahil baka ma confuse lang sya, pero pano naman kapag hindi mag work out yung sa kanila, pano na nya ako ako contact? sayang naman baka may chance pa. hahaha

[kvandenhaak]

^Oh yan, overthinking na naman...lol! Just say hi one of these days and ask how he is doing and stuff. Wala namang masama dun. Then tell him that you'd still like to still in touch and be friends. That way, may paraan sya to contact you when they don't work out later. Then leave it at that.

[Shadow Angel]

Bakit di mo sya pabayaan mag decide alam naman nya from the start na may anak ka diba? May mga bagay na dapat go with the flow na lang.

[Apple1230]

@The Lioness sort out your issues first kasi kahit sinong guy pa yan kung may excess baggage ka no one will sign up for that. kung meron man hindi quality guy yun i'm sure you don't want that.

hindi naman issue ang may anak, it's just that may mga women who have kids na madaming drama sa buhay, walang tiwala sa mga lalake, needy, clingy, some naghahanap ng father figure para sa anak nila stuff like that. iyan siyempre ang ayaw ng mga guys. kahit naman mga walang anak may mga ganyan din issues. how do i know this? guys tell me themselves. lahat ng guys na nakausap ko iyan ang sinasabi.

so fix you first. there are no shortcuts here. took me a long time to figure it out, but i'm glad i did. hindi sa nagyayabang ako but i have never gone on dates in the last 3 years na hindi nila ako in-ask na maging gf. they pursued me and asked for a commitment ako lang umaayaw. may nagiging bf ako pero pag alam kong it is not working i don't force it i just leave kasi alam ko i can always find someone better.

[The Lioness]

Hello girls! So this guy I was talking about told me this morning na he slowed it down with the other girl. Sabi nya the girl was kind of rushing him daw and he isnt just ready for it. kaya friends na lang daw sila. and he asked me if i already made up my mind about him. so i said yes. i guess he was ready for me. im not sure what the real score is with him and the girl, but whatever. im not overthinking anymore! im just happy at kanina pa ako naka smile like it's glued already.

sorry, wala ako ibang mapag sabihan eh. i just want to let it out . happy love life satin lahat!

[angeljolie]

Ayokong maging kontrabida, pero marami talagang guys na ayaw sa babaeng may kids. There's this guy I met online and have been dating for the past 10 months at hanggang ngayon hindi nya pa din sure kung ready sya to have a big family (I have 2 kids, he has 1). We had some sort of a breakup for a week last November kasi gulong gulong ang isip nya. He didn't want to lose me daw pero hindi nya alam ang gagawin nya. We got back together after a week, nagsorry pero still wala pa din decision. Feeling ko nga naghihintay lang sya na ma fall out of love sya saken eh. I don't see us really ending up together. Ang masaklap nito, alam nya from the start na 2 kids ko. Tapos 7 months into the relationship nya lang naisip na baka hindi sya ready. Kasi daw he was concentrating on us muna, if we would be compatible. Since things were working out smoothly, and he was getting deep into me na daw, dun nya lang narealize na totoo na pala. Gusto ko sabihin "ambot!"

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

^Ay kaloka sya Sis haha!

[angeljolie]

^I know right! At 50 na sya nyan ha. Maganda naman ang career. I think takot sya mawalan ng pera. Divorced sya for 7 years na. Right after the divorce daw nasaid ang bank account nya. Hay naku ewan ko nga why I?m still sticking around.  Minsan gusto ko na lang mag disappearing act. hehe.

[kvandenhaak]

^Try mo kayang biglang mawala and no signs of you anywhere?

[angeljolie]

^wait lang hindi pa ako ready lol!

[kvandenhaak]

^LOL...parang ako lang minsan!

[angeljolie]

^Ako din eh puro salita lang ako madalas, di ko naman kaya gawin hehe. So ngayon iniiwasan ko na magsalita. I always get myself into trouble pag di ko napigilan sarili ko. Tapos later on pagsisisihan ko. Haaay buhay.