Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[Pink_Sugar]

I remembered when im on my teens, i dreamt of having a handsome japanese boyfriend. So mysterious. :-)

[molybdenumstudios]

Pangarap ko talagang magka-jowa ng Hapones. Dunno why. LOL.

[candygrenade]

^ ha-ha, natupad ko na dreams ninyo na magkaroon ng Japanese boyfriend

Almost two years na kami

[mochistar]

Wow ang tagal nyo na. sana ganyan rin kami but back to ldr kami. Maybe may pagka mysterious nga yung iba sa kanila. Kahit yung iba kong friends na madaldal na hapon parang kahit ganun, may feeling na may tinatago parin sila. Haha

[yellowvessel]

Gusto ko magkaroon ng Japanese boyfriend, but how? Hehe need pumunta sa Japan?

[molybdenumstudios]

If I can snag a Nihonjin, that'd be kakkoi.

[cecilydee]

Dati pangarap ko rin magkaroon ng 100% hapon na bf. Kakapanood ko ng mga j idols lol...pero ang binigay sakin ni Lord is half pinoy and half japanese. Ngyon narealize ko na mas gusto ko ang half kasi mukhang japanese pero nakakapagtaglog kami so no language barrier lalo na pag nag aaway. Ang hirap kaya makipag argue sa hindi mo ka same language hehe.

[oshiawase]

@candygrenade, if i may ask, paano kayo nagkakilala?

I have Japanese friends and I never had any Japanese boyfriend. I'd like to be in a relationship with a decent Japanese guy someday. Or a british one. hehe

[candygrenade]

@candygrenade, if i may ask, paano kayo nagkakilala?

I have Japanese friends and I never had any Japanese boyfriend. I'd like to be in a relationship with a decent Japanese guy someday. Or a british one. hehe

I used to work in Japan and still come back every year. Like mochistar, back to LDR kami until April

[spacemonkey]

my boyfriend (American) and i have been together for about 6 years now, i think.

never really understood how some people think nationalities have anything to do with people's dating attitudes. same can be said of Filipino men.

i don't know, just never experienced a vast difference with our cultures, i guess. my boyfriend and i are together exactly because we have so much in common.

[molybdenumstudios]

Has anybody ever dated a Thai or a Vietnamese? Wala, curious lang.

[smua2014]

Dating a swedish guy right now. Magkasing age lang kami and yeah you're right mga sis they are not so expressive as we Filipinos are but they compensate naman through their acitons. 

[jhaney]

I dated a Jordanian guy before. He's also Canadian citizen kaya medyo westernized na siya. He's a Muslim pero di ganun ka-religious. I almost liked him na kaso gusto niya agad agad intimate na kami sa isa't isa kahit hindi ko pa siya boyfriend. Siguro di niya pa masiyado alam ang Filipino culture like yung getthing to stage or yung panliligaw. I like him because he's very honest in everything at straightforward siya. Kaso di kami nagwork out. I guess it's because of our differences specially sa culture.

[Pink_Sugar]

Yung german bf ng best friend ko for 2-3 yrs na eh medyo kuripot to think na maganda naman ang trabaho nung guy at bawal mabuntis yung best friend ko.  50/50 sila sa bayad sa apartment at sa lahat ng bagay, live-in silang dalawa. Sabi ni best friend eh hindi nya kayang iwan kasi ayaw nyang mag isa? Wtf.

[spacemonkey]

^ bakit "WTF?" anong kuripot dun?

i don't see anything wrong with pulling your weight in a relationship. you're living in the same house, give your share of the rent, share with the groceries, sometimes, offer to pay for the movie or dinner. even if the guy has money and is earning more than enough.

ano ba expected mo, dahil ba foreigner eh gagastusan ka na palagi?

[Pink_Sugar]

^^spacemonkey: yes, sinisingil talaga sya as in 50/50, kasi yung last bf nya na ibang lahi eh hindi ganun sa kanya, i mean nagkukusa yung ex-bf nya since yung bf ang nag ask sa kanya na mag move with him, siguro para may ka-share sa rent at expenses. LOL

[shegie_285]

^ I have German clients, i think they are masinop but not necessary kuripot. May mga German groceries dito sa amin, ang mura ng mga bilihin because they know how to keep their costs down and efficient din sila, kung work work talaga.

I guess live-in is common here (europe) dahil young adults move out from their parents place once they start working. Hindi kagaya sa Pilipinas na hindi umaalis sa magulang hanggat hindi mag-aasawa. Kahit kami ni husband we lived together before we got married. 50/50 din kami sa gastos dati. We didn't want to have babies din nung hindi pa kami kasal. Also marrying age is older din sa mga Europeans so baka hindi pa ready ang guy.

My Irish husband knows the word kuripot because i tease him na he's one. But he's not, masinop lang din.

[spacemonkey]

^^spacemonkey: yes, sinisingil talaga sya as in 50/50, kasi yung last bf nya na ibang lahi eh hindi ganun sa kanya, i mean nagkukusa yung ex-bf nya since yung bf ang nag ask sa kanya na mag move with him, siguro para may ka-share sa rent at expenses. LOL

well, dapat lang. i don't get why you think its so new, or funny, or strange that some women can share or contribute to expenses.

[120515]

there's nothing wrong with sharing in common expenses - both of you live there, use up electricity and water, eat food. for me, i would rather share the load because being in a relationship (dating, living in together, or currently married) is a partnership between 2 people. it's a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one.
i always share in the expenses with my husband, even when we were just dating.

[Shadow Angel]

Just share my experience lang baka mapahaba hahaha

I always follow my instinct kahit sa online ko pa ma meet i have this feelinif ok o mpagkakatiwalaan si guy o hindi. Saka ang gusto ko same or close age ko lang.
1st date experience ko with a foreigner India ang gwapo ang tangkad  businessman, solong anak. Gusto nya ako sinasabi nya yun kasi lagi sya busy at walang time. He asking for marriage then after a year
Kaso feeling ko magiging trophy wife lang ako kasi ang piority ny business nya ayaw ko ng ganun.

What i like about him:
gentleman as in to the point na parang nakakainis hahaha
Kung ano sya instinct ko sa kanya ganun nga sya
Hindi kuripot

Ang ayaw ko lang
Demanding
Dominant masyado ang gusto submessive type ako
Walang time

Then i have chatmate na greek grabe dito talaga ako na fall everyday kami magkausap almost nin stop hindi naman sya sobrang gwapo parang i feel soulmate ko sya. Magkasundo kami sa halos lahat ng bagay. Ang gusto nya kung ano nasa isip mo sasabihin mo kaya nya ako basahin kahit sa message lang alam nya pag may topak ako. Kaso hindi sya for marriage or having a child. Ayaw din ng LDR hanggang sa choose na lang na unti unti lumayo na nakahalata naman kaya wala na kami communication although friends pa rin kami sa viber at skype.Iniyakan ko sya grabe. Dumating pa sa point na sya taga gising ko sa umaga tatawagan ako ganun.

Then i have this guy na French Canadian nun una hindi ko masyadong pinapansin kasi lagi kaming magkainitindihan kasi hindi sya ganun kagaling mag english pero ngayon improving na sya. Sabi ng iba hindi sila ma text at macall pero eto kagaya ni greek everyday ko rin ka usap kacall at pag may time skype lalo na ngayon almost non stop tulog lang pahinga hahaha..Open sya sa akin alam ko na agad about his background sinabi nya at nararamdaman ko na fa-fall na sya sa akin ako naman natutuwa lang sya kausap. Parang ako ang clown nya more in serious type sya dati ngaun natututo na maging makulit kagaya ko. Fast foward we getting married. Alam mo yun feeling na lagi ka nakasmile paggising mo. Basta nag saya ko lang period.