Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[annd]

yung sakin, hindi siya pinoy pero dito na kasi siya lumaki sa philippines, so may pagka pinoy pa rin. =)

[_ania_]

^what i meant, sis, is that there is such a thing as casually dating. yung hindi seryoso pero mag bf-gf kayo. you're not in love with each other. hindi kayo nagpalitan ng i-love-you's pero "in a relationship" kayo sa facebook. so don't assume kaagad na he loves you kung mag bf/gf na kayo.

tapos meron ding "dating" na committed.

sis pano kung bf/gf na pero di pa din nag-iloveyou? ibig sabihin di pa sya committed sa relationship?

[Romina]

I agree with you, skyrimgal! I dated this dude for about 4 months but I was never his girlfriend. Kumbaga, getting to know each other. I also dated this other guy and in a couple months, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I jokingly told him that I thought I was already his girl. Some guys dont say I love you unless they are really sure with their feelings. Sometimes, those 3 words even scare them pa.

[little_princess]

i love you kasi for westerners is a big deal, it's not something that they say basta basta lang. my hubby told me that he loved me quite early but he was drunk so i just shrugged it off. it took a while for me to tell him that i loved him pero we were constantly dating na. it's just how it is, some kasi can have relationships pero not for forever.

[kwang sun]

 I really don't understand him!!! argh.. can't take it anymore... one day he's hot then another day cold nanaman siya . nakakainis!

[_ania_]

I really don't understand him!!! argh.. can't take it anymore... one day he's hot then another day cold nanaman siya . nakakainis!

sis i can relate ((

[kwang sun]

^they're kinda crrazy lol

[Chantzy]

saying I love you talaga sa mga Kano is a big deal, they don't say it until they mean it

[paulina19]

Hi sisses, I dated a german long time ago in the Philippines 4 years ago...he is very bossy when we were in he philipiines. But aftersometime, ako naman visit sa Germany..wow I was surpirsed kulang na lang lumakad ako sa carpet..as in feeling Queen ako even for a short span of time   They are so  ncie even the family..

[MrsKolca]

I dated an Indian guy I met in HK once. He was a restaurant manager. Nainis lang ako sa kanya cos we started talking online before meeting in person, then saka nya lang sinabi sakin na may asawa at anak sya sa India nung nagmeet na kami. What an a****le!

Second guy I dated was American. We also met in HK pero friends lang kami that time. Nung makabalik na sya sa States at nakauwi na'ko sa PH, that's when we started a romantic relationship. Sayang din kasi di pa'ko tapos ng college (sya din) at super daming kailangang i-sacrifice for the sake of our relationship. Ayun.. ang ending ay wala. Huhu. Iniyakan ko talaga yun ng sobra!

Anyway, I am now married and hubby is Turkish. Over 7 years na kami and we have a daughter plus another baby girl on the way!

[ullala]

i'm in a weird situation with this Swedish-Swiss boy. he's a few months younger than me and super bachelor lifestyle. athlete siya but not bigtime, he still has to work part-time on the side. no girlfriend since birth, because he never felt it was necessary to have a relationship.

our first date was an open air concert and parang it was so random lang. then the next date was a dvd/pizza night at my place. may konting momol, but I said that I didn't want to do the deed (actually when I invited him, I told him he shouldn't get a wrong idea that my invitation was code for a booty call). he was very okay with it. he even jokingly said that he was serious enough with me to not come armed. that's when we had the talk. I said, because of my upbringing i'm not as liberal as the girls he probably knows and for me to proceed any further there has to be a commitment. sabi nya, he can't promise anything and he is so busy he can't see where a relationship would fit but he is open to the idea of our thing progressing to something. parang take it day by day. sabi ko naman, I wasn't rushing things, basta importante for me to know that i'm not a plan b or just one of many while nadedevelop ako. I just wanted to lay everything out on the open, para no one feels dejado.

two days after the talk, we've been texting, no talk of a follow-up date. pero he texts me what he's doing and he asks me about my day. dunno what's really going on. so confused. ayayayyyyy!

[Shiecg]

^ kilig ako sis sa inyo, hehe. I have 4 relationships and lahat yon sa english guys, well ewan ko ba bakit attracted ako sa kanila :-) my last one ended 3 years ago and wala pa kasunod, ako ang kumalas kasi naman we were together for 6 years, eh walang balak magpakasal nor magka-anak, hello, kamusta naman yon.  minsan ang hirap intindihin nila, ayaw kang pakawalan pero ayaw ka rin naman panindigan!

[molybdenumstudios]

My friend's friend (my newfound friend) has a fiance who is African-American. Grabe kung ma-inlove, but anyways, she told us that she would rather date a foreigner because of personal experience. Pinabasa ko pa nga sa kanya ang thread na 'to via iPhone eh.

[Romina]

I, also would rather end up with a foreign man to marry and have kids with than with a pinoy. Call me whatever you want but I really think Filipino men are not good looking at all. My parents are Filipinos but they both have strong Spanish blood in them, thats why no one would believe me whenever I tell them i'm Pinoy. My mom warned me about guys who are oportunistas. Those who only wants me because of my advantages of being a us citizen.

[Pink_Sugar]

^picture?

[freeswan]

I am in a relationship with an Australian now. laid back and mahilig sa adventure kaya click kami.

[chinablue]

I had a "relationship" with an Egyptian man. Sikreto lang para iwas tsismis sa workplace. Saka bawal kasi dito sa bansang kinaroroonan ko ngayon. We talk in English. He is fun to be with, may pagkapossessive nga lang. I didn't expect us to last long because of the cultural and religious differences. Akala ko nga tapos na kami eh, until he proposed marriage. Eh one month pa lang halos kami. Kailangan agad-agad talaga? Hehe. Pero naisip ko na di nga pala uso sa religion nila ang courtship at boyfriend-girlfriend thing.

Gusto ko din matry dating an Italian. ;-)

[Romina]

I have a friend who's married to an Egyptian, and boy she is spoiled! Very romantic and he loves her dearly. They have 2 kids na and they left Egypt when the revolution started. Italians naman, according to my friends, ake ok.. Possessive, sweet and they appreciate beauty talaga. And may raincoat sila lol. I mean they're not circumcised. Ive always wanted to date and Indian, like from India talaga and not just someone who was born and raised here in the US. My cousin works for a big corporation and laging may Indians na pumupunta dito sa US to work under her, and they're so good looking. Most of them at least.

[annd]

im dating an indian guy right now, he was raised here in the philippines. so, with regards to culture, yes, they are very traditional. but when im with him, sa totoo lang, nakakalimutan ko na indian ang kasama ko kasi he's very pinoy in some ways. im just so happy na kami na, he's my classmate when i was in my first year college then (2004), come second year, he transferred school na sa uk. so, nagkita na lang kami year 2009, kasi umuwi siya dito ng philippines. (btw, nasa UK na sya kasi naging exchange student sya dun, then nagbusiness na lang sa UK for good, then umuuwi na lang dito sa philippines para magvacation kasi andito ang parents nya.) come 2010, nagkaroon ako ng bf. umuwi din sya that year and nagmessage din sakin through fb. pero hindi ko nakita kasi i think, that time, dinelete ng bf ko yung message nya. same din nung 2011, nagmessage din daw sya pero wala ako nareceive, instead, nagreply daw ako na may bf na ako at busy ako. which is not true, na i think yung exbf ok nagreply that time. year 2012, break na kami ng bf ko that time, and hindi na sya umuwi ng philippines kasi wala naman daw sya namimeet na friends. come 2013, nagmessage ulit siya sakin kasi uuwi daw sya at sabi ko, sige magkita kami. nung first meet namin, sobrang okay namin. as in, hindi ko alam kung bakit naging super okay pero ang saya lang nung first meet. wala naman malice that time pero im just so happy na nakita ko sya. the ayun, sunod sunod na kami nagkita. madalas na rin nya ako sunduin sa office. tapos ayun, one month lang sya stay ditto sa philippines perl almost everyday kami magkita. and then after 4months, umuwi ulit sya dito sa philippines. kasi birthday ko naman, ayun, 6weeks din siya andito. and kami na, going 3mos as bf/gf =) next year, plan na namin magpakasal, civil muna then 2015, sa church na. he's not yung typical indian na nakikita dito sa philippines. ang gwapo lang nya. sorry naman, in love na in love ako. haha =)

[kwang sun]

ang hirap makipagrelasyon pag foreigner .haai.. parang ang layo ng pagkakaintindi niya sa "relationship" dito sa pinas at sa kanila...