Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[little_princess]

^^ old story na yan eh and it is also doe by pinoys who have foreign citizenship na. the laws are stricter na now so it's not as prolific as it was years ago.

and kita mo naman even just just doing a goggle search or sa smalls. you'd see girls in their 20's with foreign men na 40-50's. what can you say about that diba? it does paint a negative picture but what can we do? we just have to make sure that we can distinguish ourselves with those type of women.

[chicgurl]

sorry to say pero naglipana ang mga user na babaita sa internet! pera lang habol i swear.. kawawa naman din yung ibang "men" na seryoso na naghahanap ng relationship.. i am speaking for someone who is very close to me na naging biktima ng mga babaitang yan sabi ko nga sa kanya you wont find your queen/princess there if not all most of them are just after your money! so you have to be really careful.. no offense meant nagsasabi lang ng katotohanan.. maski here in dubai i see loads of filipinas with super old men parang minsan gusto kong hilain si ate at sabihing bigyan mo nga ako ng kahihiyan hahahaha joke lang.. napapailing na lang ako.. hirap maging judgmental pero in reality ganoon talaga ang nangyayari..

[tough_guy]

^ yes po yan nga nangyayari sa panahon ngayon, nagiging practical lang ang ibang babae na may karelasyon na foreigner pero may mga abusado rin talaga. Maging masaya nalang tayo s mga seryoso talaga. :-D

[angel_babyteen]

Hi sissies, I'm meeting the bf's family this Sunday for fathers day =\ he is Canadian, share naman how it is oh, i'm scared, dont know what to expect and how should it be, thanks =\

[kwang sun]

canadians are nice.. actually most foreigners are nice. depende lang.

[ilovejdy]

anybody dated koreans? hehe
wala lang..ang cute kasi, dami kasi k-pop.

i never had a relationship with a foreigner..
but I am quite amazed with people who meet online.
my tita is getting married to an american, weirdest thing
is unlike most foreigners.. who would treat out the whole family whenever they visit.. this one didn't even spent a dime
and my tita even bought his two-way ticket.. what-the?

[little_princess]

generally, canadians are nice naman. a bit more mild mannered than americans but still bubbly BUT it still depends on the person. like here in the philippines, may mabait and may bad.

koreans, i only know of a handful who intermarried. a lot of them would date other races but then would still marry within their own race.

re foreigners spending for the whole family, this isn't the norm and i find that tacky kasi parang pineperahan lang si foreigner eh we don't do that naman if local yung partner. but the woman spending for ALL of the guy's expenses is something that i don't agree with.

[ilovejdy]

^ what i meant by spend for the family is ..like dinner out. i dont think that's "pamemera" na agad. hehe

even mga pinoy naman would do this once they meet with the family lalo at ikakasal na sila. oh i dont know, maybe hindi nga... baka yung mga kilala ko lang yun. haha

cont.
i have friends na papalit palit ng foreigner na boyfriend. and one of them is getting married next year. sad to say.. eto talaga for the money, kaya niya sinagot. but last na nag usap kami.. seems like she has fallen for the guy kasi mabait talaga.

[Romina]

Hindi kasi ugali ng nga puti iyon. I've dated foreigners since i was a teenager since dito na ako sa US since I was 10. Usually pag may nga dinner na ganyan, separate bills. Meaning, kanya nanyang bayad.

[ilovejdy]

^ganun ba sis. haha. nasanay kasi ako sa mga american na jowa ng friends ko na sila yung gumagastos. i guess isolated case lang pala sila...and kaya pala ganun yung boyfriend ng tita ko..

 but kasi as you have mentioned, seperate bills, right? pero him.. wala talagang ginastos when he came here.. his 2 way ticket, food... even sa hotel, my tita paid for everything.
ganun ba talaga sila? parang sobra naman yata.

[Romina]

Baka naman tita mo narin ang nag offer. Mga Pilipino kasi minsan masyado ng galante, pakitang gilas. Nasa tita mo at bf na nya yun. Kung gusto naman nung guy, pero shinoulder ng tita mo lahat, then ok nalang masasabi nung guy. Not because he's a foreigner ibig sabihin marami ng pera. Maraming losers sa mga Internet dating sites. My guy's family, they pay for everything when it comes to going out for dinner and such. When I first started dating my husband, I insisted na I pay for my own. And depende rin kung San part lumaki yung guy. Iba ibang upbringing, ibat ibang influences. Mga itim, pwede kang maging bilmoko. Mga Asian, galante rin. Caucasians medyo iba.

[little_princess]

caucasians kasi are not the type na kunwari will say no. pag nag offer ka, they would either accept agad or say no.

when me and my husband goes out, maski na nun nagdadate pa lang kami, i sometimes offer to pay or we go dutch. he accepts this and appreciates it kasi hindi ako bilmoko and would expect him to pay for everything, even sa friends and family ko.

[ilovejdy]

^ ahh ganun pala yun 
thanks guys for enlightening me about this issue.
now I understand him better.

siguro nga ganun siya.

[_ania_]

Hi sissies, I'm meeting the bf's family this Sunday for fathers day =\ he is Canadian, share naman how it is oh, i'm scared, dont know what to expect and how should it be, thanks =\

sis what happened sa meet the parents? tips naman:)

[angel_babyteen]

^ oh hi sis, they are very nice, they're sensitive too, they know when i am being shy, they would just let me, i met all bf's family, and we're just more than a week together, was scared at first but then they didnt asked a lot of questions so i guess that worked for me too.

[angel_babyteen]

^ And really being yourself, being polite and helpful helps

[skyrimgal]

@oshiawase, there is "Dating" and then there is "dating".. mahirap i-explain. kahit nga ipa-explain mo na yan sa American hirap din sila mag-explain eh. there are some guys who would ask your permission first if they can call you their girlfriend meron ding wala nang tanong-tanong girlfriend ka na kaagad. but most of the time (ewan ko lang din baka nagkataon lang din na mga naka-date ko eh ganoon) they will not say, "would you like to go out on a date?" they will just ask you to hang out with them. the only way to tell if they are interested in you romantically is if they try to flirt with you.

@tough_guy, siguro meron ding mga nag-aasawa ng foreigners to get a green card pero meron ding true love ang reason. in my case, filipino immigrant kami ng buong family ko sa USA. and I met my husband here. I've dated both pinoys and americans pero karamihan ng naging bf ko is americans. but that's because konti lang ang pagpipilian kong pinoy dito. if i lived in the philippines baka pinoy rin ang napangasawa ko today. anywayy.. true love ang reason ko for marrying my darling darling husband. mas magaling pa manligaw ang husband ko sa pinoy to be honest. hehe talagang minaria clara ko pa yan at okay lang naman yun sa kanya. may pagka-country kasi eh. hehe when i say country i mean medyo liblib yung hometown niya. hehe..

kapag sa america nakatira ang pinay eh it's not unusual for her to marry an american. ang magtaka ka ay bakit karamihan ng pinay na nagasawa ng amerikano ay caucasian ang asawa lol eh marami namang races na american. may african-american, may asian-american, may native american, may latino american, etc.. o di ba? nakakawindang. hehe...

[skyrimgal]

^what i meant, sis, is that there is such a thing as casually dating. yung hindi seryoso pero mag bf-gf kayo. you're not in love with each other. hindi kayo nagpalitan ng i-love-you's pero "in a relationship" kayo sa facebook. so don't assume kaagad na he loves you kung mag bf/gf na kayo.

tapos meron ding "dating" na committed.

[kwang sun]

^what i meant, sis, is that there is such a thing as casually dating. yung hindi seryoso pero mag bf-gf kayo. you're not in love with each other. hindi kayo nagpalitan ng i-love-you's pero "in a relationship" kayo sa facebook. so don't assume kaagad na he loves you kung mag bf/gf na kayo.

tapos meron ding "dating" na committed.

how will I know he's committed?

[skyrimgal]

^if he tells you he loves you and he doesn't want you to see anybody else meaning ayaw ka niya makipag-date sa iba. "exclusively dating" na kayo niyan.