Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[bangs29]

^ di ka naman nahirapan adjust sis?? kasi ive heard mahirap daw talaga pag chinese.. lalo na pag ayaw ka ng family kasi dika chinese.. ganon pa din ba sila?

sis nung una ayaw sakin ng parents niya kasi nga di chinese, later on yung mama niya nagustuhan din ako. eto yung tatay niya lagi ko kaaway, buti nalang lagi kampi sakin si hubby. ask ko din siya nun una, sabi ko, di ako chinese malamang issue to pag dating ko sa china, ang sagot niya i decide not them. this is my choice, so they have to face it. sabi ko sige na ako na long hair lol. nahirapan ako mag adjust buong family niya walang alam sa english, ako tuloy napa mandarin. he he 

[chicgurl]

^ good for you sis na gusto ka na ng mama niya kahit paano diba? aral ka na nga lang ng mandarin para din maintindihan mo sila.. at dapat ganon talaga ikaw ang kampihan niya ikaw ang asawa! hehe

[little_princess]

bangs29, marunong ka na mag mandarin? wow, baliktad tayo.. i'm chinese and fiance is brit naman pag traditional chinese mahirap talaga. filial piety is very important even for daughter in laws. ligawan mo na lang through food and your kid

[bangs29]

sis little_princess  medyo okey okey na rin yun tatay niya kasi binigyan ko sila ng first grandson bonggang bongga diba. ayun, kapag mainit ang ulo ko di na siya eeksena and vice versa para wala ng masyadong awayang nagaganap. he he he. ang mandarin ko hindi beijing hua, shandong hua. medyo nakakapag converse na ako kapag tinatanong nila ako, pero with action and body language pa rin!!! lol!! 

[jan888]

^I don't think this American guy is worth your time..  you've given him another chance and still you're in the wait and see situation..  I feel you're just wasting your time and energy baka pati ikaw maging depressed.. move on ka na sis.. you're still young I'm sure there will be a better guy for you out there..  I don't know if manic depression is curable, I just know people who suffered from it take meds for it but I think it is just a tentative solution, and if they go off too long without the anti depressive drugs parang nagwawala sila basta I know parang medyo nakakatakot to be around them when they are not being themselves and to think you have a kid pa..   

[crazy_krizsa]

Dated a European guy and now dating a Chinese guy. Super mag kaiba sila and super iba din sila sa Pinoy guys. Euro guy was really aggressive at iba ang trip so almost 2 months lang kame. Now this Chinese w/c i've been dating for almost a year now eh so far so good. Yun lang, di ako bet ni mommy nya which is given, part ng culture nila eh, though I'm still hoping na maging okay ako sa mom nya, hirap din kasi, siguro unti unti lang. Since only child and wala na syang dad so super focus ang attention ng mom nya sa kanya. To be honest i still prefer a pinoy partner, walang issue regarding sa culture difference at di ako ma nose bleed sa kaka english. hehe

[honeylet04]

^I don't think this American guy is worth your time..  you've given him another chance and still you're in the wait and see situation..  I feel you're just wasting your time and energy baka pati ikaw maging depressed.. move on ka na sis.. you're still young I'm sure there will be a better guy for you out there..  I don't know if manic depression is curable, I just know people who suffered from it take meds for it but I think it is just a tentative solution, and if they go off too long without the anti depressive drugs parang nagwawala sila basta I know parang medyo nakakatakot to be around them when they are not being themselves and to think you have a kid pa.. 

Thank you so much sis. Tama ka he's not worth for my time i've just received email from him sabi nya things wont work for us hindi daw nya kaya LDR. Buti nalang hanggat maaga nalaman ko kesa umasa ako sa wala. Akala ko pa naman love is sweeter in second time around akala ko sya na talaga kasi after 6 years naghiwalay kami i dont expect na makikipagbalikan sya then after thaqt sya narin ang sumuko. Hindi ko pa talaga nakikita ang para sa akin. Thank you so much sis!

[angel_babyteen]

Sissies hows the first date?or hows the dating?ill be meeting a canadian this sunday,dunno how things works,should we split the bill?or should I ask him beforehand?

[Girltalker2]

^No need to ask him. Just bring enough cash to pay for your share. Pagtapos ng dinner, at kinuha nya ang bill, make sure you offer to pay your share.  If he accepts, ok lang, if not, then ok lang din.  I always make it a point to offer to pay my share and not ask him to pay for everything especially kung first date palang. Kasi ayoko nang mamaya aasa sila ng kapalit.

In general, except for Chinese, foreigners na na-date ko Malaysian, European, and Indian, are a cut above from the Pinoys and Tsinoys I have dated. They are upfront and more romantic din.

[angel_babyteen]

^thank you sis, i'll see if we're gonna meet tomorrow,but im having  some thoughts,he doesnt look like that into me, im the one who is more eager to meet him now,didnt like him much before,i'll see when we meet.thank you =)

[jccastro15]

I'm open for this.. But I never experienced it yet.. I really want to date a non-Filipino guy.

[prettychestnut]

i was once dated a canadian guy but based in davao but umuuwi ng makati tuwing weekend.

He's friendly but not my type. siguro hindi para sa akin ang foreigner =)

[i_v_y]

i had a dated a Bahrain born Pakistani before. I insisted to split the dinner bill and he was like "oh thats rude" but in a nice way. He was impressed at naiba ang tingin nia sa mga Pinay. And then we went to Starbucks, sabi nia " please let me pay this time" and I did.

I was head over heels with this guy kasi sobrang mapagmahal, kinain nia lahat ng pinoy food na niluto ko except for pork siyempre. Sensitive din sia feelings ko. Lagi niang nasesense na bad trip ako or na hurt ako tapos hindi sia mapapakali until mapag usapan namen yun. Ang haba ng hair ko.

Until now may communication pa din kami, for the past 10 years.

[maigrichonne]

Had a very short, yet memorable affair with one.  Best moment of my life. Mabait, understanding at creative. Nagmula siya sa kontinente ng Europa. Guapo pa at magandang katawan hehe!

Serious LTR? Not yet.

But I have many foreign friends and acquaintances, both male and female. Mahirap mag-generalize. Iba-iba sila eh. Merong sobrang kulit na sinabi ko na na kahit may tsino na nanirahan dito, iba parin tayo sa mga intsik, ipagpipilitan parin na lahat ng mula sa kontinente ng Asya ay intsik. No big deal naman pero pag-paulit-ulit at ilang taon mo na inuulit, maiinis ka na. Tapos magtataka sila bakit ka nainis. Duh. 

Meron sobrang tahimik. Pag may argument, isang sorry lang kala nila ayus na. Di ka aamuin. Bwisit.

Meron din naman, babae ito. Grabe gusto lagi diskusyon. Mainis ka, gusto niya talk about it. Konting misunderstanding, let's talk about it. Parang lahat problema na kailangan i-explain. Parang, teh, gimme some space. Hindi tulad nating pinoy na tumatahimik at pinalilipas muna mga bagay then saka natin assess kung kailangan ba talagang pag-usapan o palampasin na lang.

Base sa karanasan ko, may tampo at lambing/pag-amo din sila pero hindi gaano kalakas at kaimportante tulad sa kultura natin na may halaga talaga ito.

I guess, yung iba nahihirapan din sakin kasi mataray ako. Sa kanila walang konsepto ng taray. B*tchy ang tingin sayo. Satin kasi mataray is not entirely negative. Positive and negative and in between siya. Yung konsepto ng kung ano ang rude at impolite ay maaaring naiiba sa kung ano ang bastos at di kagalang-galang sa atin. Ito ay maaaring maging dahilan ng hindi pagkakaunawaan.

[maigrichonne]

Just read Girltalker2's uber long post (« Reply #269 on: February 11, 2012, 08:00:58 am »).

No offense sis, no offense seriously. Pero medyo creepy lang all the stalking, investigating, analyzing and head games you are playing. If a man would do the same to me, I'd totally freak out. Just play it cool. Chill out. No drama. Good luck!

[mimilusciouss]

Dated an American guy, didn't work out! because he's too possessive and has family issues. Now dating an Indian guy & i'm loving it. family likes it too! very sweet

[chicgurl]

just want to update everyone my foreigner bf proposed to me last month we are getting married next year   - he is way sweeter than ever. sana hindi magbago

[potpotpo]

^ Wow congrats sis!! best wishes sa inyo ng fiance mo

[little_princess]

^^ congrats to you and your fiance i recently hot married and it has been bliss. Best wishes!

[kwang sun]

My boyfriend is an english guy.,..expected na ba na aggressive yun? we haven't met in person yet