Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[lesters_gal]

Sis aya are you in pinas ba?share mo naman how did you guys met?anyway malay mo exception yan italian na ka date mo basta enjoy mo lang yung moment nyo together.wag ka nalang masyadong mag expect para hindi ka masaktan para kung hindi mag work out,carry lang di ba.

[little_princess]

sis paulina, as vain chiq said, don't expect too much na. generally, westerners are pretty upfront with things.. if they just want a hook up or a relationship, you would know. i think he likes you but it's not deep enough to be love or pursue you miles away. maybe he has limitations or other priorities. don't force yourself to like other guys, concentrate on your kids and don't make your ex bf a panakit butas love will come when you are least expecting it.

shoppe.ashley, met a couple of arabs during my travels and all say the same thing - they are good lovers but great enemies as well. could be true but your bf can be an exception good luck and be careful!

who's from manila here ba? me and bf are manila based

[aya_chan]

Sis aya are you in pinas ba?share mo naman how did you guys met?anyway malay mo exception yan italian na ka date mo basta enjoy mo lang yung moment nyo together.wag ka nalang masyadong mag expect para hindi ka masaktan para kung hindi mag work out,carry lang di ba.

hi sis.. ai naku, eto lang ang masasabi ko.. hindi siya kasama sa exception. looool lakas mambola tapos palyado naman yung mga sinasabi. seryoso daw pero hindi naman.. alam mo yun.. siya yung tipo ng lalake "pa-fall" effect!:P haha hahayaan ka nilang mahulog sa kanila pero di ka nila sasaluhin which is a big BS.. wala ako sa pinas. and this is my first time dating someone na hindi pinoy.. well, it didn't go well, so let's charge it to experience..

[lesters_gal]

I'm sorry to hear that sis... Ganun talaga sila,ang lakas mambola.pa fall effect talaga..kaya nga yung ibang italian na nanliligaw sa akin hay naku sinasakyan ko nalang sa pambobola at nakikipag bolahan nalang din ako... LOL..tapos sis kapag makikipag hiwalay ka na sa kanila hindi sila papayag,tapos pag ok na ang lahat sa inyo,sha na ang makikipag hiwalay sayo..LOL..

[aya_chan]

I'm sorry to hear that sis... Ganun talaga sila,ang lakas mambola.pa fall effect talaga..kaya nga yung ibang italian na nanliligaw sa akin hay naku sinasakyan ko nalang sa pambobola at nakikipag bolahan nalang din ako... LOL..tapos sis kapag makikipag hiwalay ka na sa kanila hindi sila papayag,tapos pag ok na ang lahat sa inyo,sha na ang makikipag hiwalay sayo..LOL..

at eto pa sis, yung italian na naka date ko, iisa lang ang gusto.. haha:D ang gusto lang niya is "boom boom" ai naku ha.. ayoko ng ganun.. my god! looool minalas lang siguro talaga ako ng napuntahan.. gusto niya pa "special friend" daw kami! mukha niya noh! kairita talaga! haha:D kaya ayun, tinxt ko siya, sabi ko im sorry pero di ako ganung tipo ng babae.. angs agot niya lang sa akin ay isang mala-nobelang "OK"!! pagtapos nun naglaho na siyang parang bula! hahaha

[ms.alicia]

hi! im currently dating someone whi is not pinoy...
i need your inputs.

he is french and he is 3 years yonger than me..

ano ba ang do's and don'ts?

help!

hi.. ive dated a lot of foreigners na.. lol i dated french guy narin i think ang maadvice ko [textspeak!] if u like him pakisamahan mo [textspeak!] and just be urself

[lesters_gal]

^lol.kaya ako pag umpisa palang ng date tinatanong ko na sila agad kung ano gusto nila.para umpisa palang malinaw kung ano ang stand namin sa isat-isa.mahirap kasi mag expect di ba.tapos mababa pa ang tingin nila sa mga stranieri...kaya tama yung ginawa mo sis.expect mo sis in two or 3months magtetext sayo yan.mangangamusta.LOL

[carmilina]

sa akin namn Mexican-American Pinoy based on Texas, super attracted kmi sa isat isa...pero as today slowly but surely uwi sya dito by July, excited na kinkabhan ako eh...

gusto ko kasi pag sa lovelife ko, [textspeak!] talagang nakikialam khit friends..kasi in the end sino ba magsasama?kaming 2 di b>>>

[shopaholic18]

^good luck sis, wag ka masyadong kabahan, yan din naisip ko noon pero ngayon la na, more on excitement na lalo na may mga plans nadin kasi kami. basta advice ko lang, get to know the guy well. tama din yung slowly but surely and wag pakampante masyado.

[yellowkitten]

My boyfriend is French and I love him to bits.
Well, I think that we can't generalize mga sis. There will be always good men and bad men, no matter what race. I have been incredibly lucky to find one of the good ones.

[shopaholic18]

^good for you sis and you're right lahat yan may flaws, ngayon lang ako nagka bf ng half american-half pinoy and i've never been this happy. goodluck satin mga sis and stay in love. 

[carmilina]

^thank you sis, aja lang tyo! slowly but surely..

ang nagusthan ko sa knya matured, walang paligoy ligoy, unlike other guys na nakilala, daig pa ang mga babae sa arteh eh...

tsaka minsan bina balewala ko sya, then he let me enjoy my thing...khit daw tandah ko na hilig ko pa sa stuff tee hee!

[shopaholic18]

^halos same ng ugali sila ng ugali ng bf ko, if i may add nakakatuwa pa kay bf no pretensions, super bait and sometimes you'd think its too good to be true but well eventhough he was born in the US he was brought up the filipino conservative way, he introduced me to his family, actually asked their blessing nadin for his plans on his upcoming vacation this november. ang maganda pa, he's trying to learn how to speak tagalog, which is really nice. and most of them matured and responsible kasi karamihan sa kanila lives on their own na, stable and knows what they want. di yung iba na happy go lucky and live for today guys around. i can truly say that he's one of the few and i'm glad he's my guy. 

[f4y3]

i'm seeing this guy online for a year and a half. (counted ba to as dating? lol ) at first okay kami, he's like, sooo into me. we chat 3x everyday, and pag weekends talagang from friday evening to monday morning walang patayan ng laptop at kahit walang pinaguusapan basta magkaharap lang kami. as in sobrang na-fall ako talaga. 

hindi ko alam if its my fault na naging sobrang selosa ako at yun ang lagi naming pinag-aawayan.. baket? dahil nafeel kong sobrang dami nyang secrets. ni ayaw nya ng tinatanong.. which is unfair naman diba? its just sad na madalas nahuhuli kong nagsisinungaling.

at madalas feeling ko, at napapansin kong may ka-chat na iba kahit habang magkaharap kayo.. nakikita mo naman un diba? of course deny to death sya. and one time nag-away kami kc i caught him blowing kisses eh wala naman ako sa harap nya! (fyi nga pala, possible yun na mag-multiple webcams ka) shempre deny to death pa din at lumabas pang yung connection ko ang may kasalanan, (well mabagal naman kc talaga ang conn ko) at marami pang bagay na napapagod na kong isipin *sigh*  several times na din kaming nag-away and lagi din syang nanghahamon ng breakup at pag nag-agree na ko sa gusto nya, saka naman ako hahabulin.

he's sweet naman whenever he wants to, esp pag walang sumpong, lolz  my problem now is, hindi ko alam how to handle this guy anymore. i know i should just treat this like.. i dont know, internet love maybe? may mga plans naman sya before to see me pero ewan ko.. haaayyy grabe.. sana pala di ko inaallow na ma-fall ako ng ganito. ni hindi na nga ko nageentertain ng iba dahil sa kanya..  

pasensya na mga girls ha, i'm just pouring out my rants here since walang friends ko na gus2ng makinig sakin LOL. they're all saying na forget that guy, etc etc.

[shopaholic18]

^sad naman nung story mo sis, siguro wag ka magparamdam muna and kapag hinabol ka niya yun malalaman mo at least kung ano ka sa kanya. tell him to go see you or what are his plans for you two. if he really is serious about you uuwi at uuwi yan just to see you. and about sa pagseselos mo, gusto ko sanang sabihin na it annoys them kaso kung may dahilan naman tama ka nga naman, ala nga namang deadma. if you can, try to confront him, ano ba kayo? what are his plans? kung nakikita mong hindi siya seryoso, don't waste your time on him. masakit kasi you put your hopes too high pero di pala. mahirap kasi may feelings ka na for him, best way nalang diyan is alamin mo if he feels the same way and from there you know what to do.

[f4y3]

thanx for the advice, sis shopaholic. he keeps on saying naman that he loves me kaya daw napagtyatyagaan nya ang mga kaluka-lukahan ko at ang kakulitan ko. i can say na pwedeng oo kc like u said, ayaw nila yung makulit.   

madalas kong gawing [textspeak!] magparamdam esp after a fight.. ang gagawin nyan ide-delete ako sa lahat ng IM list nya then pag nagsubside ang galit after a day or 2, ia-add naman ulit ako. para kaming mga bata. lolz dugong arabo kc kaya grabe magalit.  

[shopaholic18]

^is he a muslim, kasi diba pwede sila mag asawa ng marami why not gf ng marami din. not really that sure kasi i've only dated one and he's my curreng bf, not so much of a difference kasi half pinoy half american naman. same din kaming catholic so yun. naisip ko lang kasi kung muslim siya probably acceptable sa kanila polygamy.

[f4y3]

i think he is pero ayaw lang aminin. basta everytime i ask him about his religion, ang lagi nyang sinasabi na agnostic sya. he wont even tell me his real muslim name

[little_princess]

sis, if he really likes you, hindi tatagal ang online relationship ninyo for more than a year without him coming to see you. people are so different online and in real life so you might not know the real him. there are so many suspicions and lies and this may sound bad but you are wasting your time. walang patutunguhan yan if it is like that.

[f4y3]

u'r right, sis little_princess.. i admit na medyo in denial lang din ako sa mga red flags na yan becoz of my strong feelings for him. sana lumakas na ang loob ko na magtanong kung ano ba talaga kami pagbalik nya from his deployment.