Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[badmonkey]

isabella, 3 dates in less than a month. excited kase ako I want to have a serious relationship with him kase I really like him. Bago ko sya i-meet I ask him if married ba sya or in a relationship he said no. So far I trust him naman. Wala pang reason for me to doubt him.

Wala kami sa Pinas. Both of us are based in the middle east.

[little_princess]

isabella, i hope i'm the only one! we're actually together now and i super appreciate it that he re-located to manila for me

do british guys have the reputation of being a babaero? 

[Kaichou]

I'm currently dating a pure blood Chinese guy although Filipino yung Nationality nya. We just got together last month. Ok sa family ko, pero as per Chinese tradition, sa kanya hindi ok. Yung mom nya kasi, mas preferred na Chinese din makatuluyan nya. Well, dahil dun kaya tinatago namin un relationship namin sa family nya. It's kinda sad din kasi this is my first relationship na legal (highschool ako during the "first" time and bawal ako magka-BF nun hehe). Hopefully, we can make this work in the future

[mayalogy]

ive gone out on a date with an australian guy, simple and nice. and he is soo hot! but i just dont like foreigners talaga.

[_ariadne_]

I'm currently dating an american man. We've seeing each other for 2 months and so far, so good.

I don't think there are dating rules. You just do what you want as long as you are comfortable. I didn't kiss him on the first date, but we hugged. We kissed on our 2nd date in the cab and in grand central to say good bye. We had sex on our 8th date (just after 1 month of dating).  I slept over in his place twice already.

I never paid for dinner because he doesn't want to. I think that's because I'm not working and he is. But I do pay the cab rides and tip.

His Christmas gift was cooking dinner for me. Pinapili ako kung ano gusto ko. Ang regalo ko, cotton na sweater & scarf. Naalala ko kasi na allergic siya sa wool. Hindi naman expensive niregalo ko.

We are exclusively dating because aren't dating/having sex with anybody else. But he isn't my boyfriend. It's ok if we don't have the title because I am happy with our relationship right now.

[badmonkey]

still dating the Turkish guy...

Mukhang matatagalan pa ito mag-turn into a relationship pero ok lang. Nakakalibang din naman! He is very nice. I appreciate that he is nice not only to me but to my friends also. I celebrated Xmas and New Year with him.

Haaaaaaay! Hoping that it will end into something special!

[luisacart]

i am currently dating a Macedonian guy. things are progressing nicely b/n us. i've noticed that he's really more attentive/more attached to me than the Americans I've dated in the past. Maybe it's a European thing, I dunno. Buti na lang, sanay din ako sa pinoy na hindi pa kayo mag bf-gf, nag-I I love u na lol. Kasi baka pag ibang kultura ang nakasanayan ko, baka I would have thought it weird and scary.

[judea16]

pa join...

it looks like must sis here is actually dating a foreigner...
share ko lang..

ako first boyfriend ko was an australian guy...
he was my classmate at highschool.. pero we only lasted for 3 o 5months (on/ of) din kasi.. we had to break up kasi i had to go back to pinas and his family was moving to new south wales.. both canberra kasi kami nun...
i still have contact with his little sister at fb, pero friend nalang kami...plus wala rin siya fb... HAHAHAHA!!!!  

[angeleyes]

i just want to ask, when did you finally know na mag bf-gf na talaga kayo?....for me kasi unless he asks me to be his gf i still would think na we're dating and we can still date other people...
medyo di ko kasi magets tong dinadate ko now...when i asked him kasi if he'll see me outside with another guy like dinner or night out what would he feel...sabi niya he will be upset daw...pero hindi naman kami....labo noh...

[little_princess]

^ some guys ask, some just bring it up when you talk about it. my guy asked me 3x before i said yes

hassle lang if you ask him what's the score already baka he'll get pressured.

[broken_heart]

Ako din, I'm dating a Caucasian ..first bf ko pa! Taray!! Medyo mahirap, bago pa lang kami eh.. And I am so conservative, he's sooooo liberal. We are opposites in sooo many ways yet we try to work things out. Sa ngayon, we're working on our differences but we don't let it stop us from being together. I don't think I can call it compromising but we try as much as possible to adapt to each others preferences. Ang swerte ko lang coz he's very understanding and patient. i'm loving every minute with him 

[little_princess]

^ sis, congrats! where are you based?

basta stand your ground on what you believe him, just like with any other guy.

[broken_heart]

sis little princess: dito ako sa california..very diverse naman dito. He's my first caucasian, im his first Asian Ang hirap magstand ng ground coz minsan iniisip ko i need to be open minded din...like what I said, he's very understanding. He doesn't force his idea to me, he explains them well. He's a psyche major...smooth talker and expresses his opinions in a very nice manner In one month of being together, i already met his family He's so sweet and a good cook

[broken_heart]

Funny rin story namin coz since I never had a bf before, I boldly asked him what our status after he abruptly kissed me while we were dancing. Sa aming 2, ako [textspeak!] nagfreak out ng sobra while he was just cool about things. So at first he said, we're not bf/gf but we're exclusively dating. So ako, naman relieved sobra. But when I asked him if I could date other guys. Ayun, he asked me to be his gf na! hahaaha! And mind you, our anniversary date was not the day he asked me to be his gf but the day that he first asked me out...so all this while, i have a bf without even knowing it LOL!

[badmonkey]

I'm happy to find this thread. I really need help.

I'm dating a Turkish guy and hindi ko alam kung saan patungo ito.

Nag-dinner kami for our first date and ok naman. The following day, he went to my place and I cook for him. Hindi sya pala-text at pala-tawag. Nung una bothered ako pero nung napansin ko naman na tuwing magkasama kami as in hindi nya talaga hinahawakan phone nya, naisip ko na baka hindi talaga sya ang tipo ng tao na "maka-cellphone".

Ang communication lang namin is email and chat if parehas kaming online. We can't see each other everyday due to our location and the nature of his work. Pag tinext ko naman, nagrereply naman sya. Kaya lang ayaw ko naman itext ng itext baka mahalatang atat ako. 

We spend christmas day together considering na he doesn't celebrate christmas because he is a Muslim. He even gave me a gift. Sa tuwing nagkikita kami lagi syang parang may gift or something to remember. 

Now, I don;t know kung saan patungo ito. Wala pa kasing "sweet" moments even sa emails. He is very nice and gentleman. Hindi pa nga hinahawakan ang kamay ko.

Last christmas, nung nagpaalam na sya na uuwi na sya, I want to hug him kase sobrang saya ko talaga sa ginawa nya for me. Kaya lang hindi ko naman na-feel na gusto na nyang lumevel-up. Ang pinakaclose na position na namin is when we are inside his car: his driving and I'm on the passenger seat.

Haaaaay! So far three times na kami nag-date and I'm still hoping na madagdagan pa. I really like him and enjoy the times I spent with him.

Nakakatawa kase yung friends ko ang tawag sa kanya YILMAZ. Later on nalaman ko, alam na pala nya si YILMAZ kase yung mga pinay na na-meet daw nya online laging ang tanong sa kanya si YILMAZ.

still dating the Turkish guy...

Mukhang matatagalan pa ito mag-turn into a relationship pero ok lang. Nakakalibang din naman! He is very nice. I appreciate that he is nice not only to me but to my friends also. I celebrated Xmas and New Year with him.

Haaaaaaay! Hoping that it will end into something special!

Hello mga sis! Musta na ang mga date nyo? Lumevel up na ba?

I'm still dating the Turkish guy. More than 2months na kaming magkakilala pero still wala pa din major progress. Eto yung mga progress namin:

-I spend the night in his place for a movie bonding. Hindi nya ko kiniss ni hawakan ang kamay ko wala. He treated me like a princess talaga and he was extremely nice to me. He let me sleep on his bed while he sleep on the couch. The following day, he took me out for breakfast and bought me A LOT of plants.

After that movie date, ang tagal na namin hindi nagkita kase he is really busy. He constantly send me sms, email, and call me.

-Almost a month after, he took me out of the country. I was really surprise. He is so busy that he couldn't even visit me at home and yet he took me out of the country. We slept this time in one bed. Still, nothing happens. May progress kasi now may kulitan portion na kami, may hawakan na sa arms, may kulitan pero still walng sign na may something.

Sinabi nya yung preferred nya sa gf and all qualifications, pasok ako. I'm confuse kung ano ba talaga status namin.

HELP!

[muahmuahmuah]

^tipong to be determined if you really are at par with his qualifications. just relax and enjoy dating putting too much thoughts into it will just frustrate you ganun din naman kahit mag bf/gf you gauge each other until you decide whats next. pero isipin mo rin how worthy is he of you so it's not just him or the title your are waiting on.

actually intimacy isn't just whether you've had sex on the first date or not. mas mahirap pa for a lot to talk about finances/money matters and to topics that count in building the relationship and what kind of partnership you want to develop with him. how does he handle serious matters, how is he pag galit. sa ngayon best food forward lahat yan. just make sure you're not setting your sights on him just because he's the only one around. since he's not giving you the time of day yet, shop around maybe or just don't get too hooked.

 

[Carte Blanche]

^^I used to have a Turkish co-worker. Yung mga Filipinos sa work ko they were calling him Yilmaz din, they were calling me Ruffa since I'm tall kaya inaasar din nila kami. He is actually far more good looking (and seems nicer, lol) than Yilmaz.

^Thanks for answering on my other post. Parang sinusundan tuloy kita!:)

So I'm seeing this French guy, I know they are not the type to call or text you all the time and I don't but lately it has been me who initiates the call or text. I've only done it twice but so far he hasn't checked up on me. The last time I spoke to him, it was a really good talk, he was telling me how he feels like he knew me from way back, he opened up to me about how he just quit his job and how it's hard to find one. Basta he was very open about his life. He was actually inviting me to come to his house few days ago, he's going to prepare food daw for me but I begged off as I got home really late from work. I was telling him we could meet up the next day but he had a job interview. Haven't heard from him since. I wanted to know how he is doing but I don't want to give him the wrong impression. It's been days since the last time I talked to him. Is it normal for us not to constantly talk or see each other (it doesn't have to be every day)?

[little_princess]

^ my bf who is British isn't big on calls and texting as well.. he'd text or call me later in the day to check up but it's like a few messages lang.

you might want to call or text him just to make paramdam wouldn't hurt to try

[Carte Blanche]

^ I'm quite torn kasi I don't want to come off as being too clingy, and if ever this is going to be the third time na ako ang nag che2ck sa kanya. On our last conversation, I told him he's been silent. He said he doesn't really text, then he told me how hard it is not having a job. I'm thinking lang na maybe nahihiya sya sa kin because of his situation? But I told him he'll be fine and that's how it's been anyway, bagsak talaga ang economy. He's only been here in the US for 3 years so basically he just started his life here. So far naman, he has job interviews, hindi ko lang alam if he landed on any of it. Gusto ko nga mag advice na lumipat ng apartment eh hello ang mahal naman kasi ng place nya, lol.

I thought I was okay with him not calling or texting, but as the days go, it gets to me.

[shopaholic18]

^ ang hirap naman ng situation mo sis, but i don't think its clingy naman. pero learning about your guy and all i think its normal na between the two of you yung may ganyang space. pero its not us who really can tell if its normal or what, kasi if you two are like that eversince and you don't want that maybe you can both meet halfway. not too clingy type and not super no text or call. clear things with him, pag usapan niyo what'll work for you both. hope everything goes well.