Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences

[onefineapril]

he's been here for 2 weeks now... nakapag sleep over na rin ako sa hotel nya... without sex.. but lots of make outs..  we dine out if the time permits... we watched a movie together... para kaming mag bf... ganun... pero wala talaga kaming napag-uusapan when it comes to relationship...

ayaw ko namang sa aking magsimula ang topic na ganun... o baka dahil hindi ko lang din alam kung pano sisimulan na hindi naman ako magmumukhang "naghahabol".... sabi nga dun sa book na nabasa ko....

I particularly don't want asking a guy where the relationship is going or how he feels about me. Ew. It should be natural and easy and obvious.

sa ngayon go on with the flow lang ako... and hoping na sana sa sya ang mag initiate ng usapang commitment.... 

i don't know much about his culture, he's a swiss guy, ang best way lang na nakikita ko para malaman kung ano ba talaga is to ask him... pero i don't have the guts... so i'll just wait...

[lesters_gal]

How about dating an italian man?is there any rules?

[Bubblin]

I would love to date a French,German,Swiss,Brit,Brazilian, or Spanish... hay I want to experience dating foreign guys

[little_princess]

im currently dating a british guy. i used to be in a relationship with an american marine but it didnt work out or rather, he left me.

anyways, i'm taking it slow and enjoying his company and don't want to rush in a relationship. what i just noticed about him ( i dont know if it is a universal brit thing or not) is that he is very frank and is pretty much decided on what he likes or not. he isnt also very good at keeping touch in terms of text, chat or email. i think it is in their culture to be independent give space to each other? it kind of made me crazy confused during the start.

also, he has told me that i am a very special girl, i don't know what that means but i'm really kilig

[Frozen Toes]

I've gone out on dates with foreigners - German, Austrian, American, African, African American, Russian, Turkish, Australian, British, Korean, Japanese, Malaysian, Spanish, Indian, Lebanese, Dabawi, etc. Some pure, some mixed, a couple of half-Pinoys.

I think it's my color -- my ever perennial tan, which results from the fact that I frequent the beach. Anyway, it's fun hanging out with them because I learn new things not only about their culture/people but also about how they perceive the PI.

I haven't had a foreign boyfriend though. And I probably won't go there.

[SaraDavid]

Err.. what about the uncut thing for Europeans? Is that mostly true? Nakakagulat ba? Haha, just curious. I haven't dated a foreigner yet.

[evilfreak]

Update regarding my saudi bf..sad to say after more than a year,we finally broke up..sobra rin kasi seloso and close minded.iniisip kasi nila na once may kausap ka na ibang guy e kayo na.they want their women na sa kanila lang.ganun sila ka-possesive.it was a mutual decision though.we still love each other and still see each other at work but its not the same as before..siguro mabenta lang talaga beauty ko sa mga saudi coz meron ulet nagpaparamdam.this time e mas open minded na although saudi parin siya pero i explained to him na di pako naka move on.he understands naman..at least eto e lam ko na mas matino although malapit talaga sa pinay.he loves the philippine culture and plans to come with me to pinas next summer..wish me luck guys!

[Pink_Sugar]

just want to share kung ano nangyari sa bff ko na nasa New Zealand:

may bf sya sa NZ (kiwi man ata tawag nila) for 3 years. na-discover nya na this week lang na may dine-date itong lalaki na HK kasi lagi sya napunta sa HK for work purposes. kasi naiwan cp ni bf nya sa car ayun binuksan nya at na-discover nya. ayun tinawagan nya yung girl at inaway nya tapos inaway din nya bf nya. ang masama ni-report sya ng bf nya sa pulis kasi "harrassment" kuno.

ang tanong ang sabi sa kanya ng bf is "dont harrass my gf in HK!" tama ba yun? eh sya ang legal na gf? nakakainis lang kasi napaka-unfair ng nangyari sa best friend ko tapos nagka-record pa sya sa pulis.

[beautiful lady]

it must be hard in general to date a man especially from an arab country because they seem so mysterious.  who knows if they are telling the truth about themselves etc.

reading through the thread, i notice a lot of sisters here are dating them...

somehow, it seems like a fearful thing to enter ...

[evilfreak]

@beautiful lady-yes you are right.it really is a fearful thing to enter kasi nga e bawal pero still we involve ourselves in such kasi mahirap pigilan ang puso..

[beautiful lady]

^ hi, when i said fearful, what i meant is that i have heard stories of how controlling they are, how they just want filipinas and chinese for sex, etc.

also how they just date filipinas and chinese just until the one they are really going to marry is ready... someone who is also arabic and a virgin. 

is that not true.  it's just saddening how the ladies will fall for them and only to be left in the end.

: (

[mooncake and leaves]

My bf is only half-Filipino but since he's born and raised in the US, he's more American than anything, I suppose.

BUT

Interestingly, he's more Pinoy than most Pinoys I know. At least the ideal Pinoy or what we are if we stop molding ourselves after the bad patterns of other cultures. He tries to learn Tagalog and knows a bit na. He's very respectful and forms close ties with his older relatives (making him the favorite among all the grandkids and nephews/nieces). He's big on families. He's proud of his Pinoy heritage and he loves to travel in and around The Philippines. He loves Pinoy food. He's conservative without being judgmental.

And he has a great sense of loyalty.

I'd like to think that's who we really are. I'm not saying he's perfect ha. But this is the first time in my life that I'm actually so darn proud to be someone's girlfriend.

[angeleyes]

i've been going out with an American guy for more than a month now...and Christmas is coming. I want to give him something for Christmas...is it okay or is that off....We're just dating and nothing official.

[showermist]

^ sis, it's okay. actually they are, or most of them nga, expect something    just make thegift 'non-committal'

[angeleyes]

^thanks sis...tshirt lang naman bibigay ko...not a ring...lol

[badmonkey]

I'm happy to find this thread. I really need help.

I'm dating a Turkish guy and hindi ko alam kung saan patungo ito.

Nag-dinner kami for our first date and ok naman. The following day, he went to my place and I cook for him. Hindi sya pala-text at pala-tawag. Nung una bothered ako pero nung napansin ko naman na tuwing magkasama kami as in hindi nya talaga hinahawakan phone nya, naisip ko na baka hindi talaga sya ang tipo ng tao na "maka-cellphone".

Ang communication lang namin is email and chat if parehas kaming online. We can't see each other everyday due to our location and the nature of his work. Pag tinext ko naman, nagrereply naman sya. Kaya lang ayaw ko naman itext ng itext baka mahalatang atat ako. 

We spend christmas day together considering na he doesn't celebrate christmas because he is a Muslim. He even gave me a gift. Sa tuwing nagkikita kami lagi syang parang may gift or something to remember. 

Now, I don;t know kung saan patungo ito. Wala pa kasing "sweet" moments even sa emails. He is very nice and gentleman. Hindi pa nga hinahawakan ang kamay ko.

Last christmas, nung nagpaalam na sya na uuwi na sya, I want to hug him kase sobrang saya ko talaga sa ginawa nya for me. Kaya lang hindi ko naman na-feel na gusto na nyang lumevel-up. Ang pinakaclose na position na namin is when we are inside his car: his driving and I'm on the passenger seat.

Haaaaay! So far three times na kami nag-date and I'm still hoping na madagdagan pa. I really like him and enjoy the times I spent with him.

Nakakatawa kase yung friends ko ang tawag sa kanya YILMAZ. Later on nalaman ko, alam na pala nya si YILMAZ kase yung mga pinay na na-meet daw nya online laging ang tanong sa kanya si YILMAZ.

[pinkberries]

mga sis, where did you first meet them? 

recently kasi I started chatting again and those foreigners who are now in the country wanted to meet me.  natakot naman ako... 

[badmonkey]

pinkberries, nakilala ko sya online although we are both in the same country.

Yes, sa una nakakatakot kase baka kung anong gawin sayo. Just do the safety measures. Sa public places lang kayo pumunta. Tell your friends/family about it para alam nila kung sino ang mineet mo.

[isabella]

 

do you girls offer to split the tab on a date? who usually pays?

eh halos lahat na date ko mas may pera sakin. 1st, 2nd date i tried to share ayaw nila. pag small bills, naki2pag unahan na ako. bawi na lang ako sa pagpa2-ganda, nice outfit & madaming baon na jokes!

he's been here for 2 weeks now... nakapag sleep over na rin ako sa hotel nya... without sex.. but lots of make outs..  ...

2weeks is too early to demand a relationship or ask where are u going BUT u have to ask his real status. eh baka married na pala yan then u have time to run & stop seeing him already.

How about dating an italian man?is there any rules?

they are very malambing, romantic & touchy. ready ka ba sa mga touching touching na ang dating sa atin nag-mamaniac i love u sa kanila parang hi n hello. so hindi mo alam kung totoong i love u na yun.  fashionable people so fr head to toes tinitignan ka nila. they love to dine! wine ang water nila. ayaw fastfood or instant food 

I would love to date a French,German,Swiss,Brit,Brazilian, or Spanish... hay I want to experience dating foreign guys

go! dont waste your time w/ nonsense pinoys! habang bata ka pa try mo silang lahat. i find foreigners better than pinoys. once u meet the good one, stop & concentrate w/ him na.

im currently dating a british guy.

ilang months na kayo? ask mo nga kung ilan kayong special

I've gone out on dates with foreigners - German, Austrian, American, African, African American, Russian, Turkish, Australian, British, Korean, Japanese, Malaysian, Spanish, Indian, Lebanese, Dabawi, etc. Some pure, some mixed, a couple of half-Pinoys...

I haven't had a foreign boyfriend though. And I probably won't go there.

sis if u dont mind me asking how young are u na? arent u wasting your time w/ foreigners instead of dating pinoys? coz u dont want them to b your bf pala.

Err.. what about the uncut thing for Europeans? Is that mostly true? Nakakagulat ba?

yes nakakagulat nga! lalo na pag 1st time mo. feeling mo tutuklawin ka na ewan!

[isabella]

^thanks sis...tshirt lang naman bibigay ko...not a ring...lol

LOL. huwag nga ring at baka hindi mo na makita ulet! simple gift lang sis.

I'm dating a Turkish guy and hindi ko alam kung saan patungo ito... So far three times na kami nag-date...

sis 3x dates in how many weeks? baka less than a month lang. kilig ka muna. is he staying longer? pag yes, [textspeak!] kilatisin mo muna. dont forget to ask if his married or single sya sa turkey. eh baka sa pinas lang single. after 3mos saka mo na lang ask if he wants u to date only him or u should entertain others na.

pansin ko nga mga middle eastern men very possessive n controlling. mga early 20s ako, i dated pakistani n turkish me ugali silang ganito. naku dina ako umulet lumabas w/ them! ayun parang asong ulol kulet ng kulet after. til now i still chat w/ them n sabi nila ang strong ng personality ko n na challenge sila. eh ako yata unang nag taray but malambing pa rin sa kanila kaya di nila ako makalimutan choos!