Break ups after 3years in relationship

[iCleverClogs]

hirap naman... pwede matulog ako forever... dun ko lang kasi siya di maisip.. gusto kong magka-amnesia. hay naku, walang kwentang lalake tapos ako naman iniisip...


hayyyy... tumahimik ka korina sanchez, huwag mo ng banggitin yang chinese new year.. naiisip ko ang taiwan. grrr....

[xxcheiyexx]

i feel like i wanna break up with my bf of three years and some months.. parang nakakasawa na kasi, we do same things na lang, sometimes i feel like pang booty call lang ako

[_AiaH_]

^ have you talked to him about this sis? ganun talaga kapag long term relationship, nakakaboring. Kahit ako, naranasan ko yan after our 3rd year anniversary, LOL. Mahirap din at times, pero hinayaan ko lang naisip ko most likely phase lang talaga yon and now, ok na ulit. Bumabalik na kami sa honeymoon phase haha.

[SweetieNela]

sabi nila pag umaabot ng 3rd year is nasa stage daw ng break ups yan.marami akong girlfriends na ganyan nasa 3rd year saka nagbbreak. kami ng bf ko 3 years ang 6 months na kami. pero feeling ko 2 months palang kami  depende kasi yan may kasabihan nga na It's not how long you've been together, it's how you both enjoy your moments together. 

[Serena.]

IMO, Wala naman sa number yan e. Nasa pagsasama yan.

[greenangel]

ako just broke up w/ 6 years bf.. but no regret.it hurts but im coping up.. moving on..

[Ms. Undecided]

Mt 3rd ex was almost 3yrs.. 2yrs & 11 months to be exact. My recent ex (3 weeks palang T__T) 3 yrs and 4 months. Akala ko nun pang 3years lang ako hahaha. Sasabihin ko next bf ko na 'Oyy pang 3yrs lang ako' char! hahah

[barbillie]

My 3rd ex was 2 years and 9 months (almost 3 years) and took me long to move-on because I dwelled on it too much. Sabi nga ng iba, masyado kong inaalagaan yung sakit at bitterness. When I started going out for sports, travels and a lot of exciting activities, I became that strong independent single woman. Took me 4 years to enter again in a relationship.  We've known each other since grade school. We got married in less than a year. Now happily married, 3 years and counting. 

[simang]

My ex and I were together for 7 years! Nagbreak kami over the phone lang. lol. I cried a few nights tapos I was okay na. Started dating several months after, and was in a serious relationship two years later. after 2.5 years nagpakasal na kami and we now have a beautiful daughter.

[bea31]

How do you guys coping and handle your breakup? Lalo na kapag nagtatanong yong mga friends, relatives or family nyo nong kakabreak nyo pa lang? Please share some. Tia.

[Ms. Undecided]

Finally broke up with my bf for 4yrs. Sobrang mahal ko pa siya pero wala, hindi na daw siya masaya. Imagine, we celebrated our 4th year last October 29 and broke up October 30, funny hahaha.
Kagabi nagwalwal ako hahaha, may video pa ako sa cp ng friend ko, bwiset mukha akong Ta-nga hahaha. Panay lait ko sa ex ko. Kung ano ano pinagsasabi ko

[Girltalker2]

^ hugs sis
In time, you will be alright. Don?t worry too much.

4 Year?s of your life is nothing compared to a lifetime of misery.

How do you guys coping and handle your breakup? Lalo na kapag nagtatanong yong mga friends, relatives or family nyo nong kakabreak nyo pa lang? Please share some. Tia.

At that time, I minimise attending gatherings.
I tried to make new friends na Di kilala ex ko para walang tanong tanong.
I travelled more, spent time with my kids more, shopped more, went spa/salons more. Gastos but it healed me in the long run.

Then I try to look my best also. Especially pag may gathering so when people ask, Mas mukha ako happy at Di kaawa Awa (pride ko siguro)

Sa friends mas madali kasi puede ko naman sila imeet individually or by groups, so mak-kwento ko and Di Na nila itatanong in big gatherings.

[Girltalker2]

Tapos may mga chismosang kawork ka pa na puro tanong about personal or relationship. Ayaw kong sabihin na break na kami kasi magtatanong sila ng sobrang dami at hindi ka talaga titigilan. What to do?

Ah ako kasi dati lagi busy. So pag lunch time, I do errands or go to the gym. Walang oras talaga para chumika.

And at some point, you need support from close friends na di chismosa, friends that you know who cares about you. Why not set a girls night out with her or them, kung carry mo ba magkwento to more than 1-2 gal friends.

Basta rebuild yourself, kasi that's the only way to move on. Look beautiful, be beautiful!