Lesson learned after the breakup

[merchee]

^oh wow. ang dami sis!

ako naman hindi naman ako mashado mapagbigay ng gift. love na pinaka-precious na mabibigay ko hahaha. corny!

[mariacadie]

hindi mo naman ma su summarize lahat ng matututunan mo kasi its a slow and painful process. you continue to grow to learn to accept to hate to forgive....
but one thing is certain
after the heartbreak ... you will never be the same again
be it in any aspect
you will never be the same again.

[GD]

Wag mag assume na hindi ka niya iiwan. Expect the worst. Para if ever na iwan ka niya hindi ganon kasakit.
Hindi naman sa pagiging nega 'to huh. Mahirap lang kasi mag assume na siya na talaga, na hindi ka niya iiwan.
Tapos one day iiwan ka rin pala niya.

Wag masyadong mabait. Yung kung anong gusto niya GO ka lang.

[NiceAcey]

Wag magpadala sa emosyon porke gwapo! 

[babymeow04]

hayyy ang cliche na: magtira sa sarili learned it the hard way.

[elreen14]

People change. Ngayon mahal na mahal ka niya bukas ibang tao na pala siya at ikaw tong umaasang babalik sa dati lahat pero hindi na mangyayari. You just have to learn to accept anything that happens.

Kapag ginawa na niya dati asahan mo uulit at uulit yan.

Maraming nagmamahal sayo at wala kang dapat panghinayangan sa taong hindi worth ng pagmamahal na ibibigay mo.

Ang walang kamatayang darating din ang taong magmamahal sayo ng totoo at hindi ka iiwanan.

[pinkberries]

hindi basehan ng pagmamahal ang itsura.... hindi porket gwapo, mabait agad.  hindi porket pangit, walang silbi agad.  hindi porket may problema siya, kailangan ka niya.   wag magpakamartyr.... hindi siya Dyos para sambahin.   

mahalin ang sarili higit sa kanino man.   

[Foodict]

Love is absolutely fricking better the 2nd time around.

[momentum]

picked this up from the net:

If a guy/girl understands your bullsh1t,
sticks around through all your mistakes,
and smiles even though you've done nothing for him/her
than it's obvious he's/she's a keeper,
but it's also obvious you don't deserve him/her

[break_free]

OMG sis klengmorales same na same tayo! can't believe it!

[snow25]

For me, wag magpaka-t@nga.  They will try to take advantage of your weakness so know when to stop and say No.  Most guys can easily pretend that they love you just to get what they want.  Kahit friend mo pa sya nung before naging kayo, he can change drastically na magugulat ka na lang na kaya pala nyang gawin sa iyo yun. Don't give too much if you can see that the person is not committed to you.  Leave some for yourself, in the end you will be the only one left unhappy when he decides to leave you. He can move on easily without you (like what that guy did to me...). 

[break_free]

^ I agree sis, in my case eh super late ko na nalaman hehe learned it the hard way pero at least now alam ko na gagawin ko.


isa sa lesson na natutunan ko is, examine and observe the guy when you travel alone sa foreign land or basta new place... i don't know ha pero for me makikilala mo yung tunay na side niya or at least a portion of it and yung ability niya sa pag solve or pag handle ng problems/unfavorable situations.


like for example mga unexpected problems na ma encounter niyo along the way while travelling, how he treats other people like waiters, fellow passengers... noon pa lang, pag nag tatravel kami always ko siya nakikitaan na may pagka warfreak or psycho lol at nag iiba na parang monster sa galit kapag something went wrong, eh di ayun katagalan ako na nakaranas ng pagka violent niya. i don't know if anyone here would agree with me pero yan ay based lang sa experience ko ha... so ayun just watch out sa mga ganun kasi it'll give you signs sa tunay na pag uugali ng isang tao - yung ugali na mahirap baguhin kasi yun ang kinalakihan niya, or baka nasa genes. lol

[cinnamoroll]

Madami pa palang lalaki sa mundo. Hahahaha!

[whitesheep]

It's better to be single than be miserable with someone.

[Filipinasadhart]

It's better to be single than be miserable with someone.

Madami pa palang lalaki sa mundo. Hahahaha!

Tama lahat ng sinabi nyo. super agree ako. after 2 years nagparamdam si ex ang kapal ng muhka nya  after he took my ipad and delete me in fb tapos bigla sya paparamdam. hay may memory gap sya laki ng atraso nya sa akin.

Takenote: Until now di ko confirm un friend request nya ganun ganun na lang ba yun poke sya ng poke. Sasapokin ko sya.  hahaha

[momentum]

^ block him na sis para he won't disturb you..baka mamaya kumagat ka uli  joke!

[brandi]

Too many to mention but above all, there's more to life.

[carla27]

1. Make God the center of your relationship
2. If you start your relationship all wrong, it will end wrong din.
3. Cheater will always be cheater.
4. Tthink with your head not with your heart.

[Uridessey]

Never take someone for granted.

Love as if you've never been hurt.

Don't tell your guy everything about you coz he will use it against you.

Never ever test a guy if he is really serious about you.

[nixmusic]

1. It is not true LOVE if one of these is missing: respect, trust, patience, understanding.
2. If he can lie to his mom, he definitely can lie to you too.