Lesson learned after the breakup

[dumpee.o13]

magastos after break up, para lang madivert ang attention mo...lol

^ natawa naman ako, mga sis. mas magastos kasi ako nung may jowa! HAHAHA!

[tipC_shoegal]

I learned that years later, you will look back at the moments when you bawled your eyes out and cried yourself to sleep and think "What the F was I thinking?!" 

Not to trivialize the pains of those who are trying to move on after a breakup or anything, but its true what they say - time heals. You WILL be able to move on. You WILL find someone else. 

@sis istarlet: Very true. 

When my first relationship didn't work out, I thought I'd die of pain but hey, look who's still fighting! Talk about resilience...Seriously, time will definitely heal - IF WE CHOOSE TO BE HEALED, that is.

[sarsingkit]

when an exboyfriend and i broke, i also thought i'd die of pain. it hurts so bad that i can almost feel it physically. moving on is really a long and rigid process. be patient and forgive yourself.

[ettevyvi]

hehe, ako din, nagstart na akong magsave, kaso, hati, kasi, may gusto pa akong isang gawin, gastos n naman, lol, pero mahilig lang akong magtravel, hehe, pampawala na din ng stress at kakaisip kapag nabibigyan ng time ang sarili, gumaganda k pa...lol

indeed! 

@Girltalker2: you're welcome!

@tipC_shoegal: yes, if we want to. balewala ang time if we don't use it wisely.

[carmilina]

 i need to be strong and very independent...

[HoldingOn]

mahirap, masakit, in pain, in darkness, but in the midst of them all, kaya ko pala maging single - with God by my side and with the help of friends 

[Foodict]

God is an active participant in our lives. We just need to train our selves to see his hand in everything.


Also I look good after losing weight. lol

[momentum]

teach your heart that this is destiny

[iheartkulot]

Take heart and know that moving on and letting go takes time.

It took me a year to finally be able to say that I have moved on. Ninamnam ko talaga ang emote ko. Ganun ata talaga, feeling natin wala na katapusan. Pero kapag natutunan mo mahalin yung sarili mo ng buong-buo...ikaw mismo, tutulungan mo ang sarili mong makabangon. Masaya ako ngayon. Still single pero masaya dahil buo ako

Walang breakup na madali, kanya-kanya lang talaga tayo. Pero lahat, may hangganan. Ngayon, pag naalala ko ang masasayang memories namin ni ex, napapangiti ako at nagpapasalamat sa lahat. At kapag naalala ko naman lahat nung hirap na naexperience ko just to go on with my life nung wala na siya, nagpapasalamat pa rin ako kasi nakaya ko. Alam ko na mas buo ako.

Isa rin siguro sa pinakamabisang sandata? Prayers.

[jessica025]

haaay... after 3 months na break kami (without communication and living my life alone and freely) - nagparamdam ang g*go kong ex, he wants me back... nagulo mundo ko, though binigyan ko sya ng chance kasi sobra mahal ko.. i know sa sarili kong may nabago na sa akin, di na ako yung dating, "I would GiVE MY ALL"
there's reservation at kaya ko na mabuhay mawalan man siya ulet... good for me?!

[ullala]

Know danger when it stares you in the face.

[HoldingOn]

Relationships are temporary. Enjoy the NOW 

[tipC_shoegal]

Relationships are temporary. Enjoy the NOW 

LIKE

[ettevyvi]

Relationships are temporary. Enjoy the NOW 

Timely!

[jamberryknots]

find someone who will stand up and fight for me

[Foodict]

I've learned that I have the strength and determination to go after what I want... and I want you back.

[dumpee.o13]

I've learned that I have the strength and determination to go after what I want... and I want you back.

^ i really admire your attitude. goodluck!

[blackgreen]

Ang pinakamahirap na paghihiwalay ay yun mahal na mahal niyo ang isa't isa pero pinili niyong maghiwalay.

[Foodict]

Biggest lesson so far:

One reason why it's hard to move on is FEAR. We fear that we will never be as happy as we were in the relationship that ended. We fear that we wont have anyone to care for us in the future.  We fear that we dont deserve to be happy. 

The worst thing about fear is that it can cause us to act in desperation. Acts that can permanently destroy any chance for proper closure or even reconciliation.

Courage isnt the lack of fear, its doing the right thing in the presence of fear.

[angelita]

Letting go could also be the best decision not just for you but for the person you love.