Lesson learned after the breakup

[tifay]

never give too much or never give it all mag tira para sa sarili kung ayaw mo mabaliw after niyo mag breakup hehe

[Shery]

too much love will kill you! hehe

[wicked_sweet]

Sometimes, you have to learn how to compromise.

[ishtiane]

learn to let go of the things
that are not meant for you.

[Sun005]

Madami dami na. LOL

Never maging kampante.
Always show her how much u love her.
Wag mahigpit.
Wag maluwag.
Wag malunod sa luha.
Matutong mabuhay ulit.

hahaha emoness

[xxpetitexx]

as much as possible, love him with all your heart everyday...in case di talaga kayo magclick atleast, it's not your big loss.

[ms.holly]

Ive just recently ended an 8 year relationship. and we have a 3 year old child she is the reason why I stayed I refused to get married when I was preggy since he cheated on me when I was two months preggy He had  a fling. needless to say its been rocky.

But he is definitely dad material he loves our daughter so much and begged me to take him back even without accepting his marriage proposal. So we gave it a try but really I felt so hurt and betrayed by his cheating. I just lose all trust and in a few years love as well. I tried to love him again since he's never cheated again after that incident but I couldn't force myself to love him anymore. I've realized I cant even have a decent conversation with him and personality-wise he's the opposite of me and them some traits that I despise. we dont jive and Ive realized I have more fun talking with my friends.And because of that we got into fights a lot and even the respect was no longer there. Were both in love with the idea of a happy family but Ive realized I dont want it with him.


Lesson?

You cant force love.

After 8 long years Im free and I feel lighter
No excess baggage anymore
and Im excited for what love has in store for me

[lulay23]

Learn to love yourself first.

[purple_rain0721]

i've learned na wag maging bitter, ikaw lang ang talo. nasayo ang stress, pagod kakaisip, konsumisyon, lahat.

deal with the pain in a positive manner. reinvent yourself, explore more life into your life diba. how you can live a much more better life.

this is what i did when i broke up with my ex na sobrang nagparamdam sakin ng emotional intimacy. i did not focus on hatred, instead i focused on a bigger and brighter future para sa SARILI ko. maiinis ako, ako talo. because no matter how angry i may be, wala, he's out there, happy siguro. ganun lang, i told myself, may respeto ako sa sarili ko, may respeto ako sa sarili ko.. bakit ako mammroblema eh buhay nya yun, eto buhay ko, pahahalagahan ko.

then i found myself a new man and a real one. ganun lang yun, you close one door, another one opens, yun lang, this time, it's much better than before. kasi you can handle yourself even better eh.

i  love this sis! ^_^  ganyan na ganyan din ang belief and ginagawa ko right now.

nakaka-amaze nga kasi dati, para kong baliw na habol ng habol.  pero ngayon, feeling ko sobrang taas na ng pride ko.  talagang totally naglaho ako sa life niya.  pinutol ko lahat ng modes of communication.  every time na nalulungkot ako at natetempt siyang tawagan, i remind myself of the reasons why i broke up with him in the first place.  talagang i promised myself na never again, na maghahabol ako sa kaniya or kahit kanino pang guy.

i've learned how to value, respect and love myself. 

i've also learned na kahit gaano pa kahirap at kaimpossibleng malagpasan ng problem mo, makakaya mo yan if you just turn to God. 

[suikorayne]

respect..

[hayne22]

LESSON LEARNED:

kung hindi kayo, wag kang makulit. 

[xxxloixxx]

Sa una lang masakit...

I thought kasi nung una, it was the end of the world for me na. I just laugh off all the things I did before because right now I'm happier, at peace, empowered and most importantly, more fabulous than ever!

[carmilina]

become STRONGER..masama lht ang SOBRA!!

[daria]

believe when a man tells you who he is and what he wants.
if he shows you that he's gimikero/a flirt/serial monogamist/easily loses interest, believe him, he will never change.
if he tells you he cannot be with you, for whatever his reason is, accept it.
don't forget to respect yourself above all. and trust your instincts.

[daria]

do not be with a man who is not sorry for hurting you.

[_AiaH_]

^ aw, tinamaan ako dito

[piggy619]

do not be with a man who is not sorry for hurting you.

shakit!! 

very true sa akin yan....  .... well, at least yan ang nakikita ko sa kanya.... 

[daria]

naku mga sis, if you find yourself with someone who hurts you and doesn't show any remorse after, chances are, he will never change his way towards hurting you..
so sorry to say that..

[leolovestine]

na hindi porket sinabi nyang mahal ka nya eh forever nang ganun yun at may mga bagay talagang di pwedeng ipilit 

[alec_18]

sometimes we have to use our head..