Losing confidence at work

[kwang sun]

Is it just me or the girls usually hate me at work lol

[trizh]

Same feeling ako right now. ayoko na bumalik sa offfice after my mandatory leave. I think sign of burnout na to pero mas malala pa. Kung pwede nga lang sana mag AWOL, para lang di na ako bumalik. halos 62.5 hrs [textspeak!] nagwwork pero week
 Di ko na nga nakikita masyado pamilya ko. Then wala pa akong maramdamang suporta sa boss ko. Pinabayan niya lang ako. :-( Ngayon, naiisip ko pa lang pumasok, nagwworry at naiistress na ako. Naiiyak na lang ako. Ayoko na talaga bumalik.

[switblububbles]

Is it just me or the girls usually hate me at work lol

same feeling here...

[piatos]

me too, i'm not confident  in my english skills both written and oral eh kelangan sa work yun sa pagttype ng reports, orders etc.  den we will have this new boss though she will just assist us but it would take some time to get a replacement.  I heard she was strict and i'm not sure kung namamahiya siya or not.  I'm scared kahit wala pa siya hahaha. [textspeak!] b un?

[keejac21]

^It's natural to feel this way at times sa work. Maybe you can try reading more during your spare time. It helps a lot and look up for words that are new to you.

We have to keep on improving ourselves sa work so we do not lose our confidence. Pero minsan, yung circumstances din nakakababa nito. In my case, I just started in a new office and nalaman ko 6yrs my junior yung nagtuturo sakin. It lowers my morale din pala I realized. But I try not to think about it.

[Girltalker2]

Sometimes I just pray to make things not hard for me at work and at home.

Super long hours din ako. But trying to manage with 2 teenage kids, no maid. Before this work pa, super comfy ako sa work ko because I've been working in that industry for the longest time, Managerial position and good package. Then suddenly company relocated, so I had to find another work. They did offer me a job with them, but ayoko because of my kids and partner. Anyway, Since mahirap humanap ng work, I found one, lower position, half the pay, double the working hours.

I just look back during the time I didn't have work kaya that made me stick and always try my best. My working hours is terrible and horrible. 70-80 hours per week, kaya I try to do as much work on weekends para di ako harassed on weekdays. Para din maka squeeze in ako ng gym time.

Since I'm juggling my work, kids, house, live life, Tapos my current industry is new, Long hours at puyatan din, sometime I can make mistakes. Ito Yung nakaka demoralize. There were times in recent months that I don't want to go to work na. But I have to otherwise wala akong income. Now things are not as bad as I improve my understanding on the industry and the work. Tried making some short cuts to save time and devote more time to more uplifting activities.

[mangacat]

Ako naman I am currently working in Ortigas as an IT associate. Right now, I feel sad, depressed, and down to the point na wala na akong gana na pumasok. Yung tipong pag gabi na, nalulungkot na ko kasi may pasok na kinabukasan. Pag Friday nang hapon naman, sumasaya ako kasi malapit na weekend. Medyo bago lang ako dito sa work ko but I already feel tired and stressed. Palagi akong pinapagalitan ng boss ko tapos yung mga naaassign sa king tasks parang hindi ko linya. Plus I don't like the working environment. Masyadong traditional ang practices, hindi naman ako sanay sa makaluma dahil galing ako sa high tech at dynamic na company. Wala rin akong friends dito. Ok lang sana kung mahirap yung work pero yung wala pang friends na mashsharean ng thoughts, parang hindi ko na ata kaya yung ganun.

I am currently looking for opportunities so that I can get out of this situation. Sa lungkot ko, nagpapalpitate ako minsan at wala rin akong gana mag-ayos ng sarili. Huhu. I miss my old self na kikay at maraming friends at confident sa buhay. Sana makahanap ng company na ok for me..

[miss resilient]

Share ko lang sabi ng manager namin...

Hindi po tayo pumupunta sa work to make friends. We are there to work.

If magkakaroon ng friends..bonus na lang yon.

Sa akin naman ang important makasundo mga kasama or team, hindi necessary na maging chummy chummy kami ...hahaha!

Ang importante, maayos ang flow ng work, at di nagkakapersonalan kahit may mga conflict at times.

[iggy40]

Hate ko rin work ko right now. Malaki nga sweldo pero hate mo naman mga katrabaho mo, dami epal, di pantay-pantay trabaho, sa akin na lagi gabundok work, sila tsismisan lang ng tsismisan...every day sinasabi ko na lang to myself: pera pera na lang kaysa magresign ako. Baka lipatan ko mas maliit pa sweldo tas mas grabe pa magiging katrabaho. As long as my job can sustain my needs and wants, tiis muna, otherwise im packing my bags. Whats the point of your sacrifices when its not fulfilling anything in your life...

[keejac21]

Group hug mga sis. I feel the same din. Wala akong ka chummy sa office.. Yung tipong mabilis mo ayain pag bibili lang ng chichirya sa tapat.. Or yung automatic mo na kasama pag may company activities. Bakit kaya hindi sila masyado friendly...

Though tama din naman kayo na we go to the office to work.. Nakaka tamad minsan pumasok e.

[shinies]

Ganyan din ako magisip. May friends naman ako so di ko kailangan magkaron ng friends sa office. Basta maayos pakikitungo ko sa kanila at maayos sila sa akin, wala problema.

Siguro issue ito sa mga tao na gusto lagi may kasama? Ako kasi, kaya ko naman mag-isa.
Ayaw ko din yang mga chismisan ng chismisan jusko!

[iggy40]

Di naman tayo tipong picking a fight or bruhilda, in my case dedma lang ako lagi or smile smile only sa mga katrabaho, civilised.
Yeah kakatamad most of the time. In my current job of 3yrs, siguro nagamit ko na lahat ng alibi sa google para lang maka absent 

[miss resilient]

^ayus.
ako nga harap harapan sila nagyayayaan kumain di man lang ako ayain. kahit di naman talaga ako sasama.

oh well...ang importante masaya ako sa bahay pag uwi ko.

[fall2pieces]

Waah relate ako mga sis.. ako din  minsan o madalas hindi inaaya mglunch or kapag kumakaen sila di ako inaalok. Hindi naman ako sasabay or kukuha pero manners na lang diba? Tapos yun nga puro chismisan lang inaatupag tapos ako madalas may ginagawa or pag walang magawa naghahanap ako ng gagawin. Ang tingin pa sayo masyadong seryoso kapag di ka nakikisali sa chismisan. Ang problema halos buong araw ganun sila, okay lang naman yung kapag breaktime e pero yung mas marami pang time for chismisan eh OA na yun at nakakasawa. 

Isama mo pa yung mga bully, matataray na akala mo kung sino, porke baguhan ka e ibubully ka na, as if ang tataas nila sayo eh pare-pareho lang naman kayong empleyado. It's hell where I work and I want out but it's not easy dahil saan ako kukuha ng pera. At saka pag nagapply ka eh hindi din siguradong matatanggap ka at hindi rin agad agad na makakalipat dahil government agency 'to. Haay.... ang hirap ng ganito. 

[pretty_in_white]

Well, I'm not a chummy chummy kind of person so I don't have friends at work.  I don't add anyone on Facebook and i avoid texting outside of work.  Pero ok naman kami at work, masaya parin naman.