Why can't we find love?

[poetrytoprose]

it has helped me...

pero seriously, sometimes i get this feeling of longing to be with someone. hahaha! haaaay when will you come my very own prince? 

[missgoodvibe]

it has helped me...

pero seriously, sometimes i get this feeling of longing to be with someone. LOL! haaaay when will you come my very own prince? 

Same here! Pero naiisip ko, "God's love is more than enough"
Na Sakanya lahat ng answers sis.

[poetrytoprose]

hehe you know sisses, I just realized something. I was talking to my girl friends and they told me that the reason why I can't find love is because I am not interested in relationship.

Sa totoo lang the reason there's a reason why I don't really like relationship eh kasi may mga boys na tawag ng tawag to check you every now and then, text ng text; then you are obligated to go out with him kahit tinatamad ka; then there's the checking of inboxes, mails, etc., ; and the list goes on. My point is when I get into relationship gusto ko may personal space ako. Ayoko rin ng masyadong mausisa, at makulit... parang gusto ko lang ng kung feel kong itext ka, I'll text you. If I feel like hanging out with you or there's nothing to do, I'll hangout with you. We'll cuddle when we feel like cuddling. Pero no commitments at all.

my girl friends tagged me as Samantha Jones in Sex in the City... yung tipong, not really interested in relationship but only looking for a man's company when needed.

yun kaya I can't find love.  pero keri lang. bwahahah!

[Bubblin]

^same here sis. only, I am not interested in a relationship and I am not even interested for a man's company also. what does that say about me? I am a committed person to my family and friends,but I don't have the time and the energy to devote to a partner.gusto ko kasi talaga laid back relationship lang. like you,I hate the whole "reporting for duty" thing.let me do MY thing.let me enjoy MY time,MY OWN ways.ako yung tipong,"hi i'm at the mall with my girl friends.talk to you later", and that 'later' translates to "..when I feel like talking to you".ayoko nakakarinig ng "bakit ganyan suot mo?" o "saan ka pupunta at sino kasama mo?". nanay ko nga eh kapag nagpapaalam ako hindi tinatanong kung sinu-sino kasama ko o baket ganito suot ko.

I believe I jive well with a gay partner than a straight guy.siguro dahil kapag pumasok man ako sa isang relationship,ayoko ng tipong relationship na hard-hitting commitment.relaxed lang, yung tipong you enjoy each others' company,you can go shopping for long hours without having someone pouting and grumbling,and you can talk about other stuff that straight guys are clueless about.mas gusto ko yung para lang mag-best friends without getting choked up with all the relationship "rules".of course, dapat may loyalty,honesty,acceptance,and kindness pa rin, non-negotiables yan.

[craziestqueenever]

I'm single and I'm happy    Gusto ko na magmahal kaya lang di pa ako ready kasi gusto ko pag mahal ako gusto ko yung relationship na hindi ko mag pre pretend sa bf ko, gusto ko yung relationship na Normal lang at gusto ko yung bf na  tanggap ako sa mga pagkukulang ko =)

Enjoy muna ako sa pagiging single. =)

[killbill]

siguro kung madami lang matinong lalakeng pakalat kalat for sure hindi naman magkakaroon ng thread na ganito.

actually kaya ako nahihirapan kasi karamihan ng mga lalakeng kakilala ko mga kabarkada ko. wala na akong namee-meet na ibang guys, kasi ayoko ng sine-set up sa mga kakilala ng friends ko, na try ko naman yun pero disaster kasi ang weird nung guy, sa office ko naman puro may asawa na mga lalaki dun.

yung iba namang mga nakaka date ko obvious naman na sex lang ang habol eh sa ilang taon ko na sa pagiging single eh na-master ko na mag gauge ng guy kung gusto niya eh relationship ba talaga or sex lang. malas lang kasi palagi sex lang talaga gusto.

madami na akong nadinig na pick up lines, naranasan ko na din maloko ng guy na may asawa na pala, naging 3rd party na din ako, long distance relationship na subukan ko na rin. pati i-date mga ka-batch ko mula elementary hanggang college na try ko na din pati mga officemates ko, meron pa nga magkapatid eh, yung kuya yung unang dumiskarte sakin, nag attempt na i check in ako, tapos yung younger brother niya after 2 years nag date date din kami. parang feeling ko talaga gusto lang nila sex. meron naman isa college friend ko mabait naman sya kaso walang chemistry talaga. naalala ko pa nung high school ako eh meron pa akong naging boyfriend na ipinagpalit ako sa bading na mapera. insulto diba?

kagabi lang, inuman kami ng mga barkada ko, yung isang friend ko ang maghahatid sakin pauwi since papasok na siya ng office eh on the way na yun sa bahay namin, dumaan lang muna kami sa bahay nila na malapit lang sa bahay na pinag-iinuman namin para maligo bago sya pumasok. andun ako sa sala nila tapos pag labas niya ng banyo, naka towel lang siya, nag lean siya sakin para i kiss ako, ako naman, tinulak ko lang yung mukha niya tapos sabi niya "basted pa din?" tapos nagtawanan lang kami tas sabi ko sa kanya "choosy ako noh". wala lang share ko lang. hehe

so ayun siguro masyado na akong pihikan kasi dala na kasi single mom ako, or walang mahanap na lalaking matino

[whimsyme]

^ sis, so how do gauge if the guy wants only sex? could you be specific?

[sweetkiss10]

It will come in the right time and god's will... its happy to be single din [textspeak!],., u can enjoy yourself, no pressure.. me i enjoy being single but sometimes gusto mo rin naman maki-mingle with an opposite sex.. ai ewan ang gulo.. hehe

[killbill]

^ sis, so how do gauge if the guy wants only sex? could you be specific?

like kunwari kapag magtetetext na kapag late na, or walang ibang gawin kundi magyaya ng inom. or pag kasama mo na kung [textspeak!]-anong pick up lines ang sinasabi, may mga drama pa na kesyo jetlag, masakit ang likod, or inaantok. mga tipong ganun. meron iba straight up tatanungin ka kung gusto mo mag check in. eh diba super obvious naman yun

[Ms.Cacao70%]

why can't i find love *noon*??

1. taas ng expectation - gusto ko sa lalake gwapo na, matalino pa. haha. madali akong maturn-off pag gwapo tapos walang alam yung utak. 

2. takot masaktan - 25 years akong nbsb (no boyfriend since birth), kasi takot akong masaktan. takot ako na di ko naman makatuluyan

3. takot bumaba ang grades. lam mo na pag inlove, baka mapabayaan ang studies.

4. masyado akong "one of the guys" noon, siguro its a way of shielding myself from them. feeling ko kasi pag astig ka, hindi ka nila basta-basta liligawan

[mhadrian_09]

simply because others used their mind not their heart

[gylbie]

dapat ata parang signature ko lang sa baba...

LOVE when you're ready not when you're LONELY...

Pero siguro kaya i can't find love kase bahay at office lang ako... hahaha.... sabi nga ni BO di dapat ganoon... dapat raw you lakihan mo yun (ano ba tawag doon) basta yun place mo... di yun bahay - office ka lang lagi... hahahaha... so bukas mag iiba ako route... chos!

[gylbie]

Let's not focus on finding Mr. Right. Instead, let's focus on being Ms. Right. Right?

I encourage you mga sis na pakinggan ito:
http://victoryubelt.org/main/wp-content/uploads/podcasts/seriesbreak_dsy_20110225.mp3

Whenever you feel lonely or if you feel like noone loves you. Listen to it. I swear, it had changed my perspectives in life. Sana try ninyo sis.

sis... maganda ito pero parang bitin... wala ba un buong part? thanks

[noemi86]

maybe you lack something... because it is not yet the right time

[kalin]

dapat ata parang signature ko lang sa baba...

LOVE when you're ready not when you're LONELY...

Pero siguro kaya i can't find love kase bahay at office lang ako... LOL.... sabi nga ni BO di dapat ganoon... dapat raw you lakihan mo yun (ano ba tawag doon) basta yun place mo... di yun bahay - office ka lang lagi... LOL... so bukas mag iiba ako route... chos!

expand your territory =) sabi ni brother bo hehe

[young_maiden]

Lovelife pa naman ang hiniling ko nung New Year. Eh parang malabo na mangyari dahil busy ako. Pagsasabayin ko ang law school at work. Matatagpuan ko pa ba ang pag-ibig? :-P

[user48625]

Lovelife pa naman ang hiniling ko nung New Year. Eh parang malabo na mangyari dahil busy ako. Pagsasabayin ko ang law school at work. Matatagpuan ko pa ba ang pag-ibig? :-P

yow, parang mahirap yan ah.
pero may chance pa nman. just have faith
madami dyan.

[the_bassist]

dahil taken na lahat ng babae na nakikilala ko...pero bakit ganon parang ang daming single pa din dito??

[akthung]

because love is paradoxical.

women go for jerks, and not the nice guys. a lot end up being hurt by the jerks instead of being taken care of by the nice guys. once they're hurt, the close their hearts. sorry na lang si mr. nice guy. and usually its another jerk that will open the fragile heart of the woman.

people in general have double standards too. You may ask them if looks count. some may say no but in reality it does. Some may say that genital size is not important but in reality to some it is. some say its just communication and understanding but in reality, there's a limit. etc etc

women have been reading romance novels since they were young. (not just romance novels but also romance advice, dating advice, cosmo etc etc. )

but what do boys do when they are young ? wala. they play with their toys. now pag tanda ng lahat and both sexes enter the dating game--women know men but men don't know how to read women. over the years some men are able to "get" in general how the female mind works...but not all. more so, what hinders the male mind is the male ego , it hinders them from seeking advice and guidance.

kaya sometimes tamang sabihin na "women don't lie, men just don't listen" its because their ego blocks them from seeing the truth.

and so on and so on.

[_gigles_]

^soooo true!! I admit I always get attracted to the bad boy type ergo I always end up getting hurt. And I think at this moment I'm at the point where I want to be happily inlove but I scared to take the risk. Sometimes I wonder will I ever be able to open up as much as I did again, at this moment I think I'm not yet ready.