Child Support Thread

[llijenna]

Hi ,

Anyone who has an idea if how much lawyers charge for drafting a demand letter?

[loveann]

HI Sis,
Paano po kung walang work yun ex-husband tapos ang income lang
is yun tricyle business?
Paano po ako makakakuha ng sustento nun?

[Ellis]

Hi, someone I know needs a sample of a demand letter for child support, can somebody please send me one - (email removed, pls pm me instead)

Thank you very much.

[anonymous09]

I need a Letter sample too... Please PM me...

[lanzyang]

@kikaygimikera pwede din  pa  send me also demand letter for child support please....lanzyang3845@gmail.com

[dyeniramos]

Hi sis,

Can you recommend a lawyer / mediator that can help me with child support?

I'm also one of those who seek child support from the father of my 3 kids. Good thing is nagbibigay naman kaya lang pahirapan. We've settled in what form and the terms of the child support and everything is documented duly signed by both parties kaso di naman nasusunod. Ngayon sya pa itong may ganang humingi ng dialogue and amend the amount of the child support he gives kasi enough lang daw nakukuha nya sweldo. Malakas ang loob ko na he's lying because we work in the same company and alam ko how much he gets every payday.  Kaya sya hirap because he has 2 kids with his kerida which he also support.

I have not taken any legal actions yet, but i told him that if he wants to discuss the child support I would require a mediator or lawyer who can mediate for us fairly. kasi kung kami kami lang wala nangyayari.

Sana anyone here can recommend. thanks.

[viellemacey]

i'm just curious if kahit ba illegitimate child pwede i-ask ng support sa father? kasi my dau is not carrying his name cause he disappear when i'm still pregnant.

[kikai]

i had friends who are single moms.

case 1- child from a one night stand (she got depressed at got drunk at kay friend nag sob story)- she filed for child support- she established the proof of paternity via DNA. kaso paulit ulit kasi pag nag fail yung guy na magbigay (kasi naman lump sum ang demand ng girl).. and also hindi naman kasi sila mag ex bf/gf.. and the guy got married a few months after preggy sya...kasi me real GF naman

sabi daw sa kanya ng lawyer if kaya nya buhayin anak nya medyo mapagod na sya maghabol kasi nga paulit ulit na lang sila nagkikita sa court.. kawawa yung bata..sapilitan lang dahil sa isang gabing kahinaan ng magulang nya..

case 2- mag ex sila tho muntik na sila ikasal kaso nakabuntis ng iba din.. and married the latter... she asked if paano pagmag file sya..

the lawyer advised her proof of paternity kahit daw nasa birth cert, the court will still ask.. then validate if me work at how much income plus income ng girl.. and the expenses ng child...then the court will tell how much support dapat bigay based sa capacity..

if time comes nag fail mag support file ulit ng case..she decided wag na lang kasi me work naman sya at matatahimik pa sila..

[viellemacey]

^much better yung hayaan na nga lang para matahimik.

i just asked kung pwede child support sa case ng anak ko kasi somebody told me ( common friend namin ng dad ni baby ) na guy's family want a dna test para sure sila na tamang tanggapin nila ang baby ko. wow ah! sila pa may gana magganun, buti sana kung court yung nagdemand ng dna test kaya lang hindi eh, sila mismo mga adik sila.
ang say ko naman pagnaprove na sya ang daddy i will file for a child support and a danyos perwisyo amounting to 1M ( enough lang para makabog ang buhay nila ) for having a doubt on my child at para sa paghusga sa kredibilidad ko bilang isang babae at ina. aba sampal kaya sa muka ko yung hingan pa ko ng dna test para mapatunayan na kanya ang baby, hindi kami mahirap para perahan sila at lalong hindi ako pakawala/pokpok para hindi masigurado kung sino ang ama ng anak ko.

[crazybeautiful_]

Help! I would like to ask for child support from my ex who I have a son with.

Back story: I was 16, he was 23. I had NO idea he's already married. Naka pirma sya sa [textspeak!] ng son ko.

So now I'm married. Prob is my husband doesn't want to ask anything from him, at first ayoko din naman. Pero now thinking about it, it'll make my life at least a little easier.

So how do I go about it po? Ayoko padala letter sa bahay nila kase pakialamera nanay nya. I want it between me and him lang. I want to ask kahit nako 5k nga lang per month carry na. Para lang pandagdag sa tuition ng bata and swimming lessons.

Does anyone have a draft letter? Okay kaya padala ko sa workplace nya instead?

What cases can I file him in case he does not cooperate?

[jojo2978]

^^^ criminal case? RAPE 

[crazybeautiful_]

^ I was told as well. Statutory rape nga daw. But I don't know how to deliver it in a letter that I am asking for an x amount of money, or else I will file him that. Di ba nya ko pwede balikan ng threat nyan?

[joinme]

^hi po, sana po may makasagot sakin..

annulled po ako sa x husband ko 2 years ago, bale sa tuition 50/50 kami, sa allowance is 5k a month, yan ang agreement namin..gov't employee sha(police po ito), ang tanong ko lang is pwede kaya na makakuha din anak ko sa mga bonuses(midyear/endyear bonus) niya at allowance? o dapat sa net(sahod) lang talaga niya?

[jojo2978]

^^^ yung support will vary, depende kung lumalaki pangangailangan ng bata and kung makakausap mo naman siya and masasabi na dagdagan kasi lumalaki rin gastusin para sa anak ninyo, wala namang problema.

[jojo2978]

@crazybeautiful_ kausapin mo na lang through barangay na lang. doon mo sabihin ang hinihingi mo pag nag usap kayo para may witness and may minutes. if doon pa lang ayaw na niya then pag isipan mo na lang next step mo.  kaw nakakaalam kung paano mag isip ex mo, di ko alam kung paano ka niya babalikan sa mga gagawin mo. Good luck.

[joinme]

^^^ yung support will vary, depende kung lumalaki pangangailangan ng bata and kung makakausap mo naman siya and masasabi na dagdagan kasi lumalaki rin gastusin para sa anak ninyo, wala namang problema.

^hi sis, thank you..sa ngayon kasi may asawa na rin sha at kasal na rin sila..nasabi ko na dati na kung pwede ay hati sila ng anak ko sa bonus niya kaso ayaw niya kasi may pamilya na raw sha..kung diretso kaya ako sa office nila para sa demand ko pwede kaya yun? ang alam ko na net pay niya ngayon ay 15k +. sa tingin tama lang ba yung 5k a month?

[crazybeautiful_]

@crazybeautiful_ kausapin mo na lang through barangay na lang. doon mo sabihin ang hinihingi mo pag nag usap kayo para may witness and may minutes. if doon pa lang ayaw na niya then pag isipan mo na lang next step mo.  kaw nakakaalam kung paano mag isip ex mo, di ko alam kung paano ka niya babalikan sa mga gagawin mo. Good luck.

Yun na. When you mentioned na alam ko pano mag isip ex ko, nawalan na ako ng pagasa. Haaayy. Problem dun is his mom is so pakialamera pa. Aurg.

[ladyarcher]

hi, i also need a draft letter. would any one here give sample?thanks

[agape]

How much monthly do you ask for child support?
How do you make it legal or in paper?

Given: unwed mother with 7 yr old illegitimate child, biological father just got married to another with 1 child, who is also a seaman and working abroad.

What does the seaman employment agency can say about this?
What does POEA say about this? I heard that POEA has rules 80% income goes to seaman's legal family automatically. Is this true?

[iam.Arianna]

Hello Girltalkers!

Eto po pinaka malaking problema ko ilang taon na. May anak po ako lalaki 6yrs.old na sya ngayon.. Nag aaral na rin at grade 1 na sya. Hindi po kamr kasal ng ama nya. Ilang taon na rin po syang hindi na sinusustehtuhan nung ex ko. Masasabe ko pong sobrang iresponsable nung taong yun dahil kinalimutan na nya ang lahat ng responsibilidad nya sa anak namen. Ako at ang magulang ko nalang ang bumubuhay sa anak ko pero hirap din kame sa buhay at hindi sapat ang kinikita ko. Pwede ko ba syang kasuhan sa ginawa nyang pag abandona sa anak namen? Hindi po kame kasal pero sakanya naka-apelyido ang bata. Wala rin po pala syang trabaho dahil tamad syang magtrabaho kase nakasandal parin sya sa magulang at mga ate nya hanggang ngayon na 27yrs old na sya. Pero naisip ko na kung oobligahin ko sya na magsustento sa anak nya eh mapilitan syang kumayod para may maisustento sya sa bata. Kaya rin po pala humahabol ako ngayon sa pagsustento sa anak namen dahil ilang years na pong pabalik balik ang sakit ng bata sa tenga nya both ears.. at napakamahal po ng nga gamot sa tenga dahil malala narin. Ano po ba ang mga legal na step na gagawen ko? Sana po matulungan nyo ko. Mahirap po talagang maging single mother at masaket sakin na nahihirapan yung anak ko sa saket nya... Maraming salamat po.